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Grace & Awareness

Variety is the spice of LIFE!

There are times when we get into a rut within our relationship. We find ourselves doing the same old thing because it’s familiar…because it’s safe.

RomanceRelationships ~ especially our personal relationships are like plants. They need certain things in order to grow and flourish. Otherwise they wither up and die. When we are with someone for a long period of time, we may forget this aspect of cultivating our relationship. Trying new things keeping our relationship Hot & Fresh.

We tend to get complacent…comfortable. We think and believe that now that we have the person of our dreams, the “work” is over. We forget that truly the WORK has just begun. WE as people change and evolve.

We are forever changing and adapting to our surroundings and the includes our relationships. Just think about it…what you thought in your 20’s is not how you think in your 30’s. Most of us grow as individuals. Circumstances change us. We let go of the old and take on new challenges. …this transformation should also happen within your personal relationship. We must be aware of the fact that our personal relationship will change. …and of course we want it to change for the better.

It is easy to get stuck in a rut if you are not paying attention to your partner. If you are not noticing the changes that are taking place right before your eyes. It is easy to be in denial about your personal relationship if you are the type of person that does not recognize change.  Change will happen whether you want it to or not. It is a part of LIFE. You simply must meet change with grace and awareness.

Grace is like water to a plant and awareness is like sunshine. Plants need water and sunshine to thrive…our relationships need grace and awareness to grow as well. …so take the time to cultivate your relationship. Check on it to make sure it’s not in a rut. Clear ~ Concise ~ Communication can be the beginning of an even stronger bond.

Enjoy ~ Enlighten ~ Embrace ~ Eroticism

 

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ME TOO…I Challenge My Readers

To My Many Followers:

ME TOO is a way of sharing your personal story of sexual abuse, harassment and/or rape. Mz. Jewcee understands that this is mostly for women, but she believes that the same things happen to young boys and even men… …and Men report it LESS than women do.

The ultimate betrayal is when it’s your immediate family or possibly a neighbor or someone you no longer see and they decide one night that, they aren’t done with you.
 
Or simply ALL 3…Yes Mz. Jewcee is among hundreds of thousands of women and men who was sexually abused. First at the hands of her brother on top of a pile of dirty clothes in the basement (my “real” same mother and father brother – in their house) ~ then by a neighbor (old white man – who thank God died) ~ then by an ex.
 
Often Mz. Jewcee has been told to write a book…but who would believe the life that I’ve lived. The pain I’ve gone through. Hard for me to believe that I’ve SURVIVED such horrors in my life and still have the capacity to LOVE.
 
Hard for me to write this…but if it helps someone to SPEAK UP…then I will bare my sole so that someone else can SOAR WITH THE EAGLES.
 
If you are reading this and you are in a situation that you know isn’t right…REPORT IT. Don’t hold it in. Don’t let it simmer within you for your entire life. Don’t think for one minute that you are ALONE and NO ONE will understand and/or NO ONE will BELIEVE YOU! SAY SOMETHING! SCREAM IT IF YOU HAVE TO! There are people and places that can help you and put your predator behind bars and/or under the jail…or even a missing person…ijs…
 
I challenge my readers/blogger/guests to write their own story in the comments below. You are not alone and you will not be judged. Male or Female – express yourself.
#METOO
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How Many People Do You Have In Your Bedroom…?

Mz. Jewcee has met thousands of people over the years to talk about SEX. However, she is noticing that so many are stuck in a rut when it comes to SEX! Couples especially…

When it comes to sex it appears that the conversation becomes stuck in our throats about what we really want to obtain from the physical act. The lack of talking about sex becomes so overwhelming that we don’t actually reach our full potential of pleasure.

Mz. Jewcee took some time to think about why this happening. Why are individuals and couples not as fulfilled in their sexual relationship as they should be? …and it dawned on her…

WE HAVE TOO MANY PEOPLE IN OUR BEDROOM!

Now this isn’t to say that the ‘people’ are “physically” in the room while you and your partner are having sex…but their ideals are…. We tend to take our friends, family, church folk, co-workers and even strangers – opinions of sex to the bedroom with us…causing a lot of OVER-CROWDING when it comes time to actually have sex.

When you host as many adult toy party’s as Mz. Jewcee has, you begin to see a trend, especially among women in the room. …and what is really sad to Mz. Jewcee is, these women believe that they have thought of all this negativity towards sex all on their own. When in fact, they are simply living out what they have heard from ‘others’. Unwilling or too scared to attempt to try something that has been put on the TABOO list – by ‘others’.

From not sucking dick to NO ANAL sex to forget about adding another female to the bedroom from time to time…. Yeah…NONE OF THIS is going down.

Mz. Jewcee is attempting to EMPOWER women with KNOWLEDGE and doing certain sexual acts so that they enjoy what they are stepping in to. Mz. Jewcee is breaking down the walls of an oppressed sex life with the ladies…showing them that they are living out someones elses perception of the ‘perfect sex life’ and thus the reason they are not fulfilled – nor are they fulfilling their partner.

Walking away from the familiar is never easy, but in the long run it is very much worth it. Freeing yourself sexually from the chains that bind your creativity in the bedroom can only liberate you and assist your personal relationship with your partner. This bond can be one of the strongest bonds you can encounter.

…so the next time you say NO to something that your partner might be interested in trying. Stop and think for a moment… Is this YOU saying no ~ or the “other people” that you have allowed to influence your sexual happiness saying no.  …believe me when I say…they probably are not speaking from a place of actual knowledge and are just speaking from a place of ignorance (for lack of a better term).

In closing… Enjoy ~Enlighten ~ Embrace ~ Eroticism!

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Pop-Up Shop ~ October 14th, 2017

JEWCEE BOUTIQUE POP-UP SHOP ~ SATURDAY, OCTOBER 14, 2017 FROM 2PM – 6PM @ KLASSY SALON – 132 W. 69TH STREET, CHICAGO, IL
 
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A Series About Women Living Their Best Lives

Mz. Jewcee is THRILLED to be a part of this documentary!

You see…it took a minute for Mz. Jewcee to evolve into the Erotic persona she is today. Her life has taken an erotic change for the better. Gone are the ‘vanilla’ chains that bound her to a world of sexual frustration.

Learning and knowing

who you are sexually takes time. …it also takes courage to be different from those around you. Being sexually free is a way of life for Mz. Jewcee and she enjoys her freedom to explore!

Educating those that are still trapped in a “sexual box” that someone else built for them, is my PASSION! Eroticism and all of its wonders are here to be shared.  …and share Mz. Jewcee will do!

I’ve attached the trailer for: A Series About Women Living Their Best Lives

…this is just the beginning for the Jewcee Journey…

Enjoy!

Think of Lingerie as Gift Wrapping

LADIES are you listening?  Mz. Jewcee is bringing Sexy and Sassy back to the bedroom!

Over the years, the wearing of lingerie to bed has been replaced by over sized t-shirts and sweatpants. Hair bonnets and scarves are the norm now-a-days. We’ve lost our sexiness in the most important place….THE BEDROOM!

We will look FABULOUS to go out with our co-workers. We will spend hours getting ready to go out with our girls! ….but when it comes to going to bed…WE LOOK A HOT ASS MESS!

Our partner sees moisturizing masks, hair bonnets and something that hides our figure when we come to bed. We’re tired from looking Boardroom Fresh all day. We just want to slip into something comfortable and baggy. We have forgotten that most men are “visual” creatures.

You see…what we wear to bed has an impact on what is going to happen in the bedroom. A lot of men won’t say anything about what you wear to bed. They will say they don’t mind that you come to bed in sweats and t-shirt…they simply don’t want to upset you. They’ll accept the fact that you have had a long day with the kids or at work or both. They will lay beside you quietly wishing they were ‘get’n some’ while you roll over with your hair bonnet or a scarf tied around your head and snore…

We get into a routine without even knowing it of TOO COMFORTABLE. We forget to do the little things that added the spark to our relationship in the first place.  Now be honest Ladies ~ how many of you would want to be intimate with your own self when you come to bed look’n a HOT MESS?

Lingerie is a garment to make you feel better and sexy. The material should be soothing to your skin and appealing to your partners eye! We take all the time in the world to get ready to go out…and only a few minutes to get out of all of that and slip into a granny gown…

…and SIZE has nothing to do with feeling and looking sexy. Plus your partner already knows what size you are and wants and desires you just as you are. You’re the one with the hang-ups.  Lingerie comes in ALL SIZES – so you can’t use that as an excuse to put on sweatpants.

…all Mz. Jewcee wants her Ladies to know is this…Lingerie is like gift wrapping your body. It’s not supposed to stay on for 2 hours. It should be ripped off…that is when you know it’s working!!

It’s time to bring romance back to our bedrooms. It’s time to take back our confidence and let the ‘body-shammers’ shame someone else. It’s time to DRESS UP to go to bed! It’s time to slip on something sexy and sassy ~ even if it just a pair of stockings and some heels…

Give the GIFT of Sexy…you can thank Mz. Jewcee later!

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