The clitoris (clit) is composed of millions of nerve endings to enhance sensation when stimulated properly. Clitoris orgasms may be considered the most common way to achieve an orgasm due to the clitoris being so accessible. In addition, the sole purpose of the clitoris is to provide sexual pleasure. However, don’t become too comfortable with this information as every woman who is a clit owner experiences pleasure and stimulation differently. …and you thought this was going to be easy…

The clitoris becomes engorged with blood which allows the clit to grow in size. In addition the clit will go from a semi-placid state to a more rigged state as the blood rushes to that area. Sensitivity is heightened and your partners breathing might change as arousal continues to mount. The proper stimulation can definitely induce an orgasm that is satisfying to the clit owner and gratifying to their partner.

Each clit is unique to it’s owner. Some enjoy a lot of stimulation while others only take a little bit. Some clits enjoy circular motion while others prefer up and down and/or side to side. So how does one know how to correctly stimulate their partner? Simply listen to your partners body and/or words. Some clit owners will direct you verbally, while others will use non-verbal communication such as moans or sighs. Be in tune with your partner so that you will recognize if they touch you or reposition your hand and/or tongue. Feel their body shifting to reposition themselves during a stimulation session. You can also speak softly to ensure that you are pleasing them in a way that will bring them to a climax.

Let me make this very clear ~ some clit owners may not achieve an orgasm by just stimulating their clit. …and some women do not understand their bodies enough to know what an orgasm is… This is where education, exploration and execution come into play. It is essential that a clit owner understands their anatomy and realizes that being pleasured and/or enjoying pleasure from manual stimulation is acceptable.

Another option for those that do not have clitoral orgasms manually would be to incorporate sex toys that are specifically designed for clitoral stimulation. (JewCee Boutique) Although sometimes a bit awkward, talking about your sexual encounter to ensure what was pleasurable and what was not, can go a long way in making your next ‘play time‘ together even more Erotic and Pleasurable!

…and last be not least…implementing Mz. JewCee’s 3 C’s – (Clear ~ Concise ~ Communication) to your arsenal of pleasure can only bring you and your partner closer to your goals of Mutual Satisfaction!

Enjoy ~ Enlighten ~ Embrace ~ Eroticism