Variety is the spice of LIFE!
There are times when we get into a rut within our relationship. We find ourselves doing the same old thing because it’s familiar…because it’s safe.
Relationships ~ especially our personal relationships are like plants. They need certain things in order to grow and flourish. Otherwise they wither up and die. When we are with someone for a long period of time, we may forget this aspect of cultivating our relationship. Trying new things keeping our relationship Hot & Fresh.
We tend to get complacent…comfortable. We think and believe that now that we have the person of our dreams, the “work” is over. We forget that truly the WORK has just begun. WE as people change and evolve.
We are forever changing and adapting to our surroundings and the includes our relationships. Just think about it…what you thought in your 20’s is not how you think in your 30’s. Most of us grow as individuals. Circumstances change us. We let go of the old and take on new challenges. …this transformation should also happen within your personal relationship. We must be aware of the fact that our personal relationship will change. …and of course we want it to change for the better.
It is easy to get stuck in a rut if you are not paying attention to your partner. If you are not noticing the changes that are taking place right before your eyes. It is easy to be in denial about your personal relationship if you are the type of person that does not recognize change. Change will happen whether you want it to or not. It is a part of LIFE. You simply must meet change with grace and awareness.
Grace is like water to a plant and awareness is like sunshine. Plants need water and sunshine to thrive…our relationships need grace and awareness to grow as well. …so take the time to cultivate your relationship. Check on it to make sure it’s not in a rut. Clear ~ Concise ~ Communication can be the beginning of an even stronger bond.
Enjoy ~ Enlighten ~ Embrace ~ Eroticism
Mz. Jewcee has met thousands of people over the years to talk about SEX. However, she is noticing that so many are stuck in a rut when it comes to SEX! Couples especially…
When it comes to sex it appears that the conversation becomes stuck in our throats about what we really want to obtain from the physical act. The lack of talking about sex becomes so overwhelming that we don’t actually reach our full potential of pleasure.
Mz. Jewcee took some time to think about why this happening. Why are individuals and couples not as fulfilled in their sexual relationship as they should be? …and it dawned on her…
WE HAVE TOO MANY PEOPLE IN OUR BEDROOM!
Now this isn’t to say that the ‘people’ are “physically” in the room while you and your partner are having sex…but their ideals are…. We tend to take our friends, family, church folk, co-workers and even strangers – opinions of sex to the bedroom with us…causing a lot of OVER-CROWDING when it comes time to actually have sex.
When you host as many adult toy party’s as Mz. Jewcee has, you begin to see a trend, especially among women in the room. …and what is really sad to Mz. Jewcee is, these women believe that they have thought of all this negativity towards sex all on their own. When in fact, they are simply living out what they have heard from ‘others’. Unwilling or too scared to attempt to try something that has been put on the TABOO list – by ‘others’.
From not sucking dick to NO ANAL sex to forget about adding another female to the bedroom from time to time…. Yeah…NONE OF THIS is going down.
Mz. Jewcee is attempting to EMPOWER women with KNOWLEDGE and doing certain sexual acts so that they enjoy what they are stepping in to. Mz. Jewcee is breaking down the walls of an oppressed sex life with the ladies…showing them that they are living out someones elses perception of the ‘perfect sex life’ and thus the reason they are not fulfilled – nor are they fulfilling their partner.
Walking away from the familiar is never easy, but in the long run it is very much worth it. Freeing yourself sexually from the chains that bind your creativity in the bedroom can only liberate you and assist your personal relationship with your partner. This bond can be one of the strongest bonds you can encounter.
…so the next time you say NO to something that your partner might be interested in trying. Stop and think for a moment… Is this YOU saying no ~ or the “other people” that you have allowed to influence your sexual happiness saying no. …believe me when I say…they probably are not speaking from a place of actual knowledge and are just speaking from a place of ignorance (for lack of a better term).
In closing… Enjoy ~Enlighten ~ Embrace ~ Eroticism!
WINTER IS COMING…and it’s time to turn up the heat with Jewcee Boutique!
This weekend, Mz. Jewcee will be a part of the Unity in our Community Peace Rally! She will bring her knowledge and experience with Eroticism to this Event. She will be speaking on the importance of keeping our relationships TOGETHER!
It is very important that we get back to Loving & Liking each other. …after all…OUR CHILDREN ARE WATCHING! If all our children see is disrespect, anger, unhappiness, broken homes/marriages/relationships…well you get the point – Mz. Jewcee hopes…
Improving our loving homes should be on everyone’s agenda. We simply must do better in order to change the destructive path we are on a collision course with currently. If you are in the Chicago area, this Rally is for you to attend. It is FREE to the public and there is something for ALL ages to enjoy!
Let’s take back our streets and our homes. Let’s be the CHANGE that we are so desperately seeking for our youth. Let’s come together and stand together – instead of being divided. WE have the POWER to make our neighborhoods safer, more welcoming and so much more… WE just need to DECIDE that this is what we want to do as a Community!
Harvey Park District & Sistah Sistah Helping Hands NFP Presents: