Keep It Simple…

Do you know the importance of keeping the “fires” burning in your relationship?
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As we become ‘comfortable’ with the person that we have been pursuing, we tend to forget the little things that brought us to this point. We get caught up in everyday life and outside influences
that takes our minds and spirits off of HOME.
 
REMEMBER: The way to keep that spark lit does not have to be ‘expensive’ or ‘large’ ~ it can be the little things like:
 
TRY THIS: A hand written note to remind your partner how much they mean to you. In other words…forget Hallmark – forget texting or emailing. Slip the note in their briefcase or inside their laptop, in a coat pocket or a purse… Keep It Simple and to the point…and watch the reaction.
 
Enjoy ~ Enlighten ~ Embrace ~ Eroticism
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Grace & Awareness

Variety is the spice of LIFE!

There are times when we get into a rut within our relationship. We find ourselves doing the same old thing because it’s familiar…because it’s safe.

RomanceRelationships ~ especially our personal relationships are like plants. They need certain things in order to grow and flourish. Otherwise they wither up and die. When we are with someone for a long period of time, we may forget this aspect of cultivating our relationship. Trying new things keeping our relationship Hot & Fresh.

We tend to get complacent…comfortable. We think and believe that now that we have the person of our dreams, the “work” is over. We forget that truly the WORK has just begun. WE as people change and evolve.

We are forever changing and adapting to our surroundings and the includes our relationships. Just think about it…what you thought in your 20’s is not how you think in your 30’s. Most of us grow as individuals. Circumstances change us. We let go of the old and take on new challenges. …this transformation should also happen within your personal relationship. We must be aware of the fact that our personal relationship will change. …and of course we want it to change for the better.

It is easy to get stuck in a rut if you are not paying attention to your partner. If you are not noticing the changes that are taking place right before your eyes. It is easy to be in denial about your personal relationship if you are the type of person that does not recognize change.  Change will happen whether you want it to or not. It is a part of LIFE. You simply must meet change with grace and awareness.

Grace is like water to a plant and awareness is like sunshine. Plants need water and sunshine to thrive…our relationships need grace and awareness to grow as well. …so take the time to cultivate your relationship. Check on it to make sure it’s not in a rut. Clear ~ Concise ~ Communication can be the beginning of an even stronger bond.

Enjoy ~ Enlighten ~ Embrace ~ Eroticism

 

How Many People Do You Have In Your Bedroom…?

Mz. Jewcee has met thousands of people over the years to talk about SEX. However, she is noticing that so many are stuck in a rut when it comes to SEX! Couples especially…

When it comes to sex it appears that the conversation becomes stuck in our throats about what we really want to obtain from the physical act. The lack of talking about sex becomes so overwhelming that we don’t actually reach our full potential of pleasure.

Mz. Jewcee took some time to think about why this happening. Why are individuals and couples not as fulfilled in their sexual relationship as they should be? …and it dawned on her…

WE HAVE TOO MANY PEOPLE IN OUR BEDROOM!

Now this isn’t to say that the ‘people’ are “physically” in the room while you and your partner are having sex…but their ideals are…. We tend to take our friends, family, church folk, co-workers and even strangers – opinions of sex to the bedroom with us…causing a lot of OVER-CROWDING when it comes time to actually have sex.

When you host as many adult toy party’s as Mz. Jewcee has, you begin to see a trend, especially among women in the room. …and what is really sad to Mz. Jewcee is, these women believe that they have thought of all this negativity towards sex all on their own. When in fact, they are simply living out what they have heard from ‘others’. Unwilling or too scared to attempt to try something that has been put on the TABOO list – by ‘others’.

From not sucking dick to NO ANAL sex to forget about adding another female to the bedroom from time to time…. Yeah…NONE OF THIS is going down.

Mz. Jewcee is attempting to EMPOWER women with KNOWLEDGE and doing certain sexual acts so that they enjoy what they are stepping in to. Mz. Jewcee is breaking down the walls of an oppressed sex life with the ladies…showing them that they are living out someones elses perception of the ‘perfect sex life’ and thus the reason they are not fulfilled – nor are they fulfilling their partner.

Walking away from the familiar is never easy, but in the long run it is very much worth it. Freeing yourself sexually from the chains that bind your creativity in the bedroom can only liberate you and assist your personal relationship with your partner. This bond can be one of the strongest bonds you can encounter.

…so the next time you say NO to something that your partner might be interested in trying. Stop and think for a moment… Is this YOU saying no ~ or the “other people” that you have allowed to influence your sexual happiness saying no.  …believe me when I say…they probably are not speaking from a place of actual knowledge and are just speaking from a place of ignorance (for lack of a better term).

In closing… Enjoy ~Enlighten ~ Embrace ~ Eroticism!

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Sex Education IS IMPORTANT

Can Mz. Jewcee speak to the Ladies for just a moment…? Are you afraid and/or uneducated to speak with your daughter about SEX? Do you have a girlfriend ~ female co-worker and/or family member that hasn’t got a clue of how to speak to their teenage daughter,niece, cousin, granddaughter…about SEX?
 
Mz. Jewcee has had the privilege to speak to thousands of women over the years. She has loved each and every minute…however – and – but, Mz. Jewcee has noticed that when she gets the opportunity to speak to these ladies as adults, that they are ‘lacking’ in sexual information. …some of that information they should have been taught way before they reached adulthood.
 
The questions are the same and/or similar. Questions that have NEVER been answered or they have obtained mis-information from sources that are not informed properly either.
 
This is a cycle that must cease. It is IMPORTANT that we educate ourselves when it comes to SEX. That we as women know our bodies and more importantly that we pass on this information to our daughters, nieces, cousins, granddaughters, etc.
 
You see…we have GENERATIONS of young girls who are CLUELESS about their bodies. Hormones racing, boys talk’n in their ear about how pretty they are – when they feel unattractive, their bodies changing and minds wondering.
 
Embarrassed and ashamed at the same time to speak on what is happening to them. Confused about all of the changes taking place. Not having the tools/education to combat mis-information.
 
WE MUST DO BETTER! …why you may ask…well come to one of my Adult Home Shopping Parties or one of my Events such as Wicked Wednesday and you will see why it is important to start with our young girls knowing their bodies. In addition to knowing their bodies, they need to know about intimacy, respect and LOVE!
 
…because these young girls grow into women that don’t even know what an orgasm is…they grow into women that think squirting is pee…they grow into women that don’t know how to orally pleasure a man…they grow into women that don’t know what intimacy is…they grow into women that desire pleasure, but are ashamed to enjoy sexual pleasure at it’s fullest….they grow into women that are looking for love in all the wrong places…the grow into women that will tolerate disrespect from their partner…they grow into women that are sexually frustrated…they grow into some of the women Mz. Jewcee has talked to over the years…
 
YES…WE MUST DO BETTER!
 
Please share with Mz. Jewcee if you agree or disagree… It’s TIME… The sexual oppression MUST END. WE MUST be able to talk openly and honestly about SEX.
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Unity In Our Community Peace Rally

This weekend, Mz. Jewcee will be a part of the Unity in our Community Peace Rally!  She will bring her knowledge and experience with Eroticism to this Event. She will be speaking on the importance of keeping our relationships TOGETHER!

It is very important that we get back to Loving & Liking each other. …after all…OUR CHILDREN ARE WATCHING! If all our children see is disrespect, anger, unhappiness, broken homes/marriages/relationships…well you get the point – Mz. Jewcee hopes…

Improving our loving homes should be on everyone’s agenda. We simply must do better in order to change the destructive path we are on a collision course with currently.  If you are in the Chicago area, this Rally is for you to attend.  It is FREE to the public and there is something for ALL ages to enjoy!

Let’s take back our streets and our homes. Let’s be the CHANGE that we are so desperately seeking for our youth. Let’s come together and stand together – instead of being divided. WE have the POWER to make our neighborhoods safer, more welcoming and so much more… WE just need to DECIDE that this is what we want to do as a Community!

Harvey Park District & Sistah Sistah Helping Hands NFP Presents:

UNITY IN OUR COMMUNITY PEACE RALLY!!
 
Come Join us August 12th 2017 for a day full of fun, prayer , and UNITY. This event will provide opportunities to speak to other parents, students, youth, activists, and professionals passionate about saving our streets, stopping the violence, and creating Change! This is a day for the adults to come let their children play, while networking & opportunities to offer any solutions to pressing …issues!
 
The event is FREE to the Public! EXPECTING A LARGE TURN-OUT!
 
VENDORS WANTED: Vendor Fee: $50 Contact Amber at: 708-631-8105 to SECURE your Vendor Space!!
 
When: August 12th 2017 1PM-7PM
Where: Gloria Taylor Park. 148th St & Broadway Ave. Harvey, IL 60426
Community Peace Rally