Everyone’s Sexual Journey is their very own ~ with a large dose of “society” added…
The ‘fear’ of not being sexually accepted runs deep within all of us. So deep that some people deny their sexuality and/or hide their true sexuality. In addition, people are changing their sexual identity and appetite, to finally become sexually free.
Have we as the human race evolved sexually or are we still in denial of our sexuality? A majority of sexual acts have existed since the beginning of time. Many have been subjected to negative connotations by individuals who by ignorance, repulsion, religious (misguided) beliefs or any combination of reasons; shame, embarrass, humiliate those individuals that are comfortable with their sexuality.
Inclusiveness is a slow process, especially when you are trying to change the minds of those that will grip the past to their death. I always wonder why do people get so involved in other people’s sex lives?
Why are people so concerned over a woman who’s has consented to being spanked when it comes to the BDSM Lifestyle (VERY different from being beaten or abused – this is non consensual).
There are all kinds of fetishes and Lifestyles that would make the “Holier-than-thou” do more than blush… From Swingers to BDSM to the LBGTQ Community, those that feel they have some sort of ‘moral compass obligation” to right these hedonistic expressions of pleasure, find a way to make their priorities known without one ounce of compassion or tangible evidence that their way is the only way to function sexually.
We have Evolved but, we still have a long way to go. More work needs to be done with regards to Sexual Freedom without judgement. If a sexual act is not for you, there is no need to berate someone else (unless it is an illegal act and/or causes unwanted/unwarranted physical, mental or psychological abuse/damage to a person).
We want people to enjoy their sexuality to the fullest without negative comments and the feeling of shame that is sometimes projected on to them by others. Allowing someone to grow in their sexuality is a healthy way of self expression. Evolving is something we should ALL be doing as the Human Race. Antiquated ideals of days gone by, should be eliminated from our various cultures.
Evolving means: “To develop gradually, especially from a simple to a more complex form.” Human Sexuality has moved far beyond the boundaries of the Missionary Position or only have Coitus to impregnate a woman.
We must Evolve Sexually, as research has shown, our Sexual Health is extremely important to our well being…