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Education is KEY!

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Mz. JewCee is Advancing her Education! …ok this is not an easy task…but a necessary one!

Mz. JewCee like so many other women, put on hold her formal education to take care of her child as a single divorced mother. In her attempt to return to her formal education roots, LIFE happened and it just never seemed like the right time to return. …you know…bills had to be paid, food, shelter and clothing needed to be bought ~ horrific accidents happened and job lay offs… Mz. JewCee always wanted to go back…just could not make the time and/or had the finances to continue…

What she did in order to continue her Erotic Education was READ! She read and put her personal experiences to the test. She developed an Erotic Empire with the formal education she had obtained and the constant research that grew her business. She surrounded herself with like-minded professionals – and learned from them as well…

Mz. JewCee NEVER stopped learning and she is proud to announce that she has finally begun the completion of her formal education! She is back in class gaining more knowledge and will become a Certified Sexuality Coach before the end of 2021!

Mz. JewCee admits that the courses she is taking are TOUGH – they are testing her knowledge and adding to her already vast understanding of Sensuality & Sexuality. …you can ALWAYS learn more… As a matter of fact, YOU SHOULD ALWAYS WANT TO LEARN MORE!

Mz. JewCee is EXCITED to be on this JewCee Journey to not only advance herself, but to be able to assist more people with their relationship issues, self-love, empowering women and so much more!

Stay tuned for more of her JewCee Erotic Education Journey!

Queens… Fix Your Own Crown! (Part 1)

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Queens ~ Fix Your Own Crown

Queens…can we talk?  …although every situation is different, it is time that we take an honest look at our Crowns. Are we causing our crowns to tilt, fall to the side or be less valuable? The time to fix Your Crown is now! The crown that you wear should be: Straight, Purposeful & True.

For far too long we have allowed our crowns to tilt to the side where doubt, deception and disloyalty can pull our crowns from our heads. We are no longer the steadfast backbone that is needed in our own lives. Our crowns have slid to the side, backwards and even been taken off our heads by our own hands. Our crowns have been surrendered as we lack the character and courage to hold our reign.

We have allowed ~ (Yes Mz. JewCee said: ALLOWED) – ourselves to settle and become docile in our rolls as Queens. We have fallen into the trap of uselessness and lack-luster appreciation. We entertain the fool instead of The King. We have become complicit in our resolve to achieve our dreams and goals.  Our fear of being successful overshadowed by the fear of failure.

We look to ‘others’ to remedy what we have created. Yet the others that we find solace in are not able to give us sound advice and/or lead us to the promise land, as they too are in no position to afford us the wisdom that we need in order to reclaim our crown. Their advice is tainted by their own set of declining circumstances.

So how do you reclaim your Crown? Here are 3 simple steps to begin your journey…

  1. Straight: Move forward in a direction that is toward the betterment of you
  2. Purposeful: Show your determination and resolve to accomplish your desires and goals
  3. True: Be honest and straight forward with yourself – even when it is difficult and the truth hurts

When you move with purpose and honesty – your gaze is looking forward to the future, your Crown will return to its proper position. When your gaze is in the past, expect your crown to fall backwards or even fall off. In other words, distractions are everywhere and they come in all shapes and sizes!

Take the time to know what you want out for your Life. The Relationship you have with yourself is the most important one. Allow yourself time to heal, grieve and laugh. Set goals that you can achieve…start small and add-on gradually. Have the same expectations for yourself that you expect from others. In other words, do what you say you are going to do for yourself – whether it is to lose weight or save money. Hold YOURSELF accountable. We often hold others to a higher standard. It is time that we hold ourselves to the same standard.

Most Queens have the strength and ingenuity to set and reset their Crowns…some just need a little push or encouragement. All Crowns slip from time to time, but the object is not to let them stay out of place too long. When you feel your crown slipping and you feel that some assistance is warranted, Mz. JewCee recommends Counseling and/or a Mentor. Our family and friends are great resources for some things, but when you are looking to make strides in a different direction and/or better yourself – consider the source.

Queens let us Fix Our Own Crowns so that WE may be the leaders of tomorrow. Let us better ourselves and rejoice in our ability to rule our Queendoms!

Enjoy – Enlighten – Embrace – Eroticism

The Sweetness of Chocolate

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Now, savor your sweetness…

Mz. JewCee believes that aphrodisiacs do exist! What is an aphrodisiac you may ask…? The definition that Mz. JewCee feels is within the realm of the Erotic world would be: “An aphrodisiac is a substance that increases sexual desire, sexual pleasure, or sexual behavior.” There are a variety of substances that can be utilized, but today Mz. JewCee would like to discuss ~ CHOCOLATE!

From the spectrum of colors ~ to the smell ~ to the texture ~ to your consumption – Chocolate can arouse your Erotic senses in a way that is sensual as well as tasty. There is actual research that leans towards chocolate being an aphrodisiac.

One of the properties of chocolate is theobromine. Theobromine works on the central nervous system to make one feel stimulated and excited. Another component would be tryptophan, which is a building block of serotonin, a brain chemical involved in sexual arousal. Chocolate contains L-arginine, an amino acid that can be an effective natural sex-enhancer for both women and men. It works by increasing nitric oxide and promoting blood flow to your sexual organs, which increases sensation, satisfaction and desire.

The texture of Chocolate ~ smooth and creamy ~ fluid in motion ~ aroma that engulfs your entire being – are just a few of the ways that chocolate can be described. When you close your eyes and bite into a piece of chocolate, the weight of your day seems to ease away. A sigh slips from your lips as you begin to chew and savor the deliciousness that delights your taste buds.

Although the pleasure of chocolate ‘appears’ to be confined to the sweetness of candy…Mz. JewCee also knows how intriguing and stimulating the Chocolate of our Melanated skin can be…metaphorically speaking of course. WE are intoxicating with our varying shades of ebony hues. Our scent is unique and our taste exquisite. The sweat glistens off of our skin as if kissed by droplets of tears. The thickness of our thighs ~ the brown milk of life that flows from our breasts ~ the strength of our backs to carry the load of our heritage and the fullness of our hips so that we may bear the Kings and Queens of the world.

This post is not just about the sweetness of the candy, but the recognition of our strength ~ the color of our skin! From the contrast of light and dark skinned men and women intertwined in a never ending embrace to the contours of our bodies while standing naked for all to see. WE too are aphrodisiacs’ ~ in every sense of the word!

The smoothness and beauty of our skin. The ability to have so many varieties to choose from…WE are truly “…like a box of chocolate.” Now, savor your sweetness…

All Women’s Orgasms Are Not Alike

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when the Big O is a Big No Go

Mz. JewCee works with hundred’s of women during the course of a year and so many of them have the same issue… NO ORGASM! They feel incomplete and discouraged when the Big O is a Big No Go! …well Mz. JewCee is here to save the day…

There are various reasons that women are unable to reach that earth-shattering, toe curling, sheet gripping orgasm. There are times when we are under immense pressure inside and outside the home. Most of you have heard of S&M, but you should be more familiar with S&A ~ Stress & Anxiety. S&A contributes heavily to women not reaching an orgasm. Their S&A can come from internal thoughts, their partners expectations or even their own lack of confidence in their own abilities.

There are several factors that can be attributed to a lack of orgasms for women. Mz. JewCee has listed a few below:

  1. Stress/Anxiety: Whether your stress level is implied or real, the pressure to perform in the bedroom is a contributing factor to lack of orgasms.
  2. Communication: Women not conveying verbally to their partner what excites and/or arouses them.
  3. Rushing: Take time to talk, taste, tease and touch. These are stimuli that will aid in obtaining a more complete climax.

Penetration isn’t the only way to have an orgasm. When you add knowledge to your sexual arsenal, your relationship with yourself and your partner becomes more powerful. The power to improve your Erotic Experience is totally up to you!

Erotic Activities:

  1. Mutual Masturbation: Think of mutual masturbation as a visual way to explore and understand each others erogenous zones.
  2. Nipple Play: Licking, pinching, stroking and suckling on your nipples can bring about an orgasm without any other part of your boding being touched.
  3. Clitoral Stimulation: Rubbing your clit with a finger, tongue or adult toy can achieve a glorious orgasm.
  4. Vocal Stimulation: Words are a powerful tool that can be whispered softly or spoken more harshly – such as a command (Dom/Domme sub/slave relationship).

Mz. JewCee would like to bring to the surface what may not be spoken on as much as it should be; your surroundings. Believe it or not your surroundings play a huge role in your orgasm. A cluttered room, room mates in the next room, in-laws down the hall, children in the house. Does any of this sound familiar? All of these factors can cause you to hold back or not feel comfortable in allowing yourself to fully express your orgasmic side.

The road to the Big O is different for every woman and every experience. Mz. JewCee suggest that you Enjoy the Journey. Take in the sites and sounds of your Erotic Encounter and Revel in the pleasure that is an orgasm! Let go of your stress and make your surroundings conducive to having The Big O!

Enjoy ~ Enlighten ~ Embrace ~ Eroticism

Blended Orgasm

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…your climaxes do not have to be one-dimensional.

Mz. JewCee has spoken with women that did not realize that they have had a Blended Orgasm. The term is a way of showing the multifaceted way that orgasms can be obtained. In other words, your climaxes do not have to be one-dimensional. …so lets get educated… Ladies ~ Class is in Session!

Can you handle two, three or even four times the intensity of a single erogenous zone orgasm? If you have answered YES, then this orgasm is for you! Just imagine being taken to the stratosphere physically, mentally and spiritually. Your body tingling and climaxing in multiple areas all at the same time. Euphoria engulfing your very being. You can feel the adrenaline high taking over your entire body as you succumb to waves of pleasure. Gasping for air as you attempt to feel every caress ~ every kiss, unable to escape your throbbing clit ~ your erect nipples now sensitive to the touch ~ your anal muscles clinching. You feel the fluid release from deep inside of you…

This isn’t an erotic novel or even a porn movie; this is actually happening to you! A Blended Orgasm is a climax that happens when more than one erogenous zone is being stimulated at the same time. 

Examples of Blended Orgasms:

  1. G-spot penetration along with clitoral touching is one of the most common Blended Orgasms.
  2. Simultaneously executing vaginal penetration, clitoral stroking, nipple play, and anal stimulation can result in the ultimate Blended Orgasm!

Studies show that increased blood flow due in part to enhanced stimulation to the erogenous zones, contributes to higher arousal levels and ultimately a stronger more intense climax/orgasm. Blended Orgasms can occur during a self-exploratory session as well. Mz. JewCee always recommends self pleasuring yourself so that when you and your partner are together you are able to guide them through a more satisfying Erotic Encounter. Knowing what turns you on is liberating and powerful in so many ways.

If the sky is the limit…shoot for the Ecstasy moon!

Best Position for a Blended Orgasm: The woman on top position (Cowgirl), because your hands and your partner’s hands are free to touch your clitoris, breasts, or butt. You can always add a vibrator into the mix for added stimulation (JewCee Boutique).

Enjoy ~ Enlighten ~ Embrace ~ Eroticism

G-Spot Orgasm

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The G-spot is an erogenous area of the vagina

Did you know that Dr. Ernst Gräfenberg a male Gynecologist of German decent and Jewish heritage is accredited with discovering the G-Spot as well as inventing the Intrauterine Device (IUD)? In addition there is also evidence to suggest that research on the G-Spot started as early as the 16th Century by Dr. Regnier de Graaf of Holland. …wanted you to know that Mz. JewCee did her research on this topic…

The G-spot is an erogenous area of the vagina that, when stimulated, may lead to strong sexual arousal, powerful orgasms and potential female ejaculation. Although, typically reported to be located 5–8 cm up the front vaginal wall (between the vaginal opening and the urethra) every woman is built differently. The G-Spot may feel ridged, rippled and/or spongy. The area cannot be seen, but can be felt when a finger is inserted into the vagina and pressed forward. Moving the finger in a come-here motion may start to stimulate the G-Spot and the Skene’s Gland that is reported to be located around the urethra area. The importance of the Skene’s Gland is that it collects fluid that can be expelled through the urethra during orgasm.

Note: Research suggests that there are multiple glands containing fluid that are located either within and/or behind the vaginal wall that secrete fluids of various consistencies during sexual stimulation and orgasm/climax.

Pressing this spot gently and stroking it lightly can prime the G-Spot for orgasm. When aroused, similar to the clitoral stimulation, the G-Spot area will fill with blood and become more sensitive to the touch of a finger, penis and/or a vibrator. The sensation of being touched during this arousal period may result in what many women describe as a deeply intense, shaken-to-the-core kind of climax! Each woman’s experience with G-Spot stimulation is unique. Some women have reported stimulation ranging from euphoric to irritating. …so once again – this isn’t the end-all and be-all for every women…

It is important to mention that as tempting as it may be to lump ALL women into one category of pleasure, a woman’s personal pleasure development, sexual experience and sensation levels vary from female to female/woman to woman. This may not be the most productive way to think about sex and pleasure, but it is the honest way to be inclusive to ALL women. When you are able to normalize the down-side of orgasms for a specific area, this will allow you and your partner to explore other erogenous avenues to find what truly inspires you to free yourself orgasmically.

Mz. JewCee understands that for far too long Women have internally beat themselves up because of the ‘allusive’ orgasm. These women have felt the burden of shame or felt that they are not “normal” or not good enough. These women have felt the pressure of trying to make their partner feel competent and ‘all pleasuring’, when in fact their partner could be the one that does not have the knowledge on how to please her.

Once again Mz. JewCee stresses the importance of knowing your body… Remember to: Educate, Explore and Execute. What you discover about your sexual arousal can be enlightening and freeing at the same time. …after all…Sex Should Be Fun!

Enjoy ~ Enlighten ~ Embrace ~ Eroticism

Women – Sex Over 40

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SAVE THE DATE: 9/7/2020. Call In Number: 914-205-5441

Show Link: http://tobtr.com/11806479

TONIGHT WE’RE BACK!

Mz. Jewcee and Honey B da Producer are BACK on the AIR! Join us for an evening of Adult Conversation on the Erotic side of the house!

Each week you will be treated to a variety of topics and Co-Hosts that are in the Adult Entertainment Business! From Entertainers ~ to Business Owners ~ to Event Planners ~ to Erotic Poets/Writers ~ to Relationship Advice – Vanilla & Kink – and sooo much more!

You will also be treated to Educational and Informational Co-Hosts that will assist you through the ever alluring subject of Erotica! NO TOPIC IS OUT OF BOUNDS! We are a NON-Judgmental ZONE.

Tonight’s Episode: Women – Sex After 40 ~ A Comprehensive Conversation

Special Guests: Panel Discussion

Ask questions and get REAL ANSWERS right here! …so join us! As we ENJOY – ENLIGHTEN – EMBRACE – EROTICISM! …after all… Sex should be FUN!

Monday, September 7, 2020

Show Time: 6PM (PST) ~ 8PM (CST) ~ 9PM (EST)

Call-in Number: (914) 205-5441 – Press 1 if you have a comment and/or question for the Host or Co-Hosts.

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Nude Models ~ The Naked Truth

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SHOW DATE: 8/10/20

Mz. Jewcee and Honey B da Producer are BACK on the AIR! Join us for an evening of Adult Conversation on the Erotic side of the house!

Each week you will be treated to a variety of topics and Co-Hosts that are in the Adult Entertainment Business! From Entertainers ~ to Business Owners ~ to Event Planners ~ to Erotic Poets/Writers ~ to Relationship Advice – Vanilla & Kink – and sooo much more!

You will also be treated to Educational and Informational Co-Hosts that will assist you through the ever alluring subject of Erotica! NO TOPIC IS OUT OF BOUNDS! We are a NON-Judgmental ZONE.

Tonight’s Episode: Nude Models ~ The Naked Truth

Special Guests: Mz. Entice, Brandon & Ja’Nilah

Ask questions and get REAL ANSWERS right here! …so join us! As we ENJOY – ENLIGHTEN – EMBRACE – EROTICISM! …after all… Sex should be FUN!

Monday, August 10, 2020

Show Time: 6:00pm (Pacific) ~ 8:00pm (Central) ~ 9:00pm (Eastern)

Call-in Number: (914) 205-5441 – Press 1 if you have a comment and/or question for the Host or Co-Hosts.

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Shame My Body No More!

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Body Shaming seems to be the ‘in-thing’ to do for some miserable individuals who have there own internal issues going on.

Let me begin with the OBVIOUS… IF we were ALL supposed to look the same, we would have been created the same. …of course we ALL know this not the reality of the situation.  We should be celebrating our individuality instead of tearing down those who appear different from ourselves.

For far too long we have been misguided and misinformed of what BEAUTY is. We have been ‘hood-winked’ into believing that a certain: height, weight, hair color, eye color, skin color, dress size, pant size, shoe size, nose size, breast size, butt size, hip size, arm length, waistline, shirt size, eyebrow arch, eyelash length,  nail length, manicure/pedicured nails (ok maybe this one should be done at the very least) is beautiful. This is too much for me to even try to keep up with and I know I missed several items.

There is nothing wrong with embracing your imperfections because that is something WE all have in common. There are times when we simply put too much emphasis on what other people think about us. Especially with the invention of social media where total strangers get the opportunity to subject you to their cruel comments while hiding behind a keyboard.

One of the business ventures I am most proud of is Jewcee Boutique Erotic Ambassadors. These Lingerie Models are from ALL walks of life and are of ALL shapes and sizes. Each one of them is  BEAUTIFUL in their own skin. They have embraced who they are and who they will become. They learn to LOVE their curves ~ their scars ~ their existence. Each time they step onto a runway they know that they are representing their body type. They also know that there is a woman that is sitting in the audience that needs that little boost of confidence to embrace herself and her body just as she is!

It is imperative that we continue to find ways to Celebrate our bodies with ALL of its: Lumps ~ Bumps & Chuckholes! We need to embrace our differences in our bodies as unique and unapologetic. From Stretch marks to scars ~ this is who WE are…beauty in its most IMPERFECT PERFECT FORM!

 

Keep It Simple…

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Do you know the importance of keeping the “fires” burning in your relationship?
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As we become ‘comfortable’ with the person that we have been pursuing, we tend to forget the little things that brought us to this point. We get caught up in everyday life and outside influences
that takes our minds and spirits off of HOME.
 
REMEMBER: The way to keep that spark lit does not have to be ‘expensive’ or ‘large’ ~ it can be the little things like:
 
TRY THIS: A hand written note to remind your partner how much they mean to you. In other words…forget Hallmark – forget texting or emailing. Slip the note in their briefcase or inside their laptop, in a coat pocket or a purse… Keep It Simple and to the point…and watch the reaction.
 
Enjoy ~ Enlighten ~ Embrace ~ Eroticism
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