Nude Models ~ The Naked Truth

SHOW DATE: 8/10/20

Mz. Jewcee and Honey B da Producer are BACK on the AIR! Join us for an evening of Adult Conversation on the Erotic side of the house!

Each week you will be treated to a variety of topics and Co-Hosts that are in the Adult Entertainment Business! From Entertainers ~ to Business Owners ~ to Event Planners ~ to Erotic Poets/Writers ~ to Relationship Advice – Vanilla & Kink – and sooo much more!

You will also be treated to Educational and Informational Co-Hosts that will assist you through the ever alluring subject of Erotica! NO TOPIC IS OUT OF BOUNDS! We are a NON-Judgmental ZONE.

Tonight’s Episode: Nude Models ~ The Naked Truth

Special Guests: Mz. Entice, Brandon & Ja’Nilah

Ask questions and get REAL ANSWERS right here! …so join us! As we ENJOY – ENLIGHTEN – EMBRACE – EROTICISM! …after all… Sex should be FUN!

Monday, August 10, 2020

Show Time: 6:00pm (Pacific) ~ 8:00pm (Central) ~ 9:00pm (Eastern)

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A Broken Heart

Many of us have suffered a broken heart at one time or another. The tears flow. We may over eat or not eat at all. Some people are unable to get out of bed. Some individuals destroy property. …and some people take their own lives. Then there are those “strong” individuals who act as if nothing has happened and forward they move with their ‘brokenness’ locked tightly away.

However you choose to deal with the break up of a relationship, you must remember – no matter how ‘strong’ you appear to be on the outside, there are steps to healing a broken heart.

Each person heals differently. Some people are “quick” to move on, while others take a longer period of time to move forward. The amount of time or the amount of commitment may play a factor in how much time you need to heal. …but heal you must in order to truly be able to move forward.

For a lot of us, our relationship ending is just like the death of a family member. There are relationships in which you can see the end is near and there are relationships that slowly fizzle over time and there are relationships that end before they really get started. Whatever the length of time, if you have invested your time, energy, effort and money into your relationship, the probability that you will be hurt when it ends is very likely. …unless of course your not that invested in the relationship and that could be the reason its over.

Much like the death of a loved one, the death of a relationship can affect us the same way. There are so many emotions raging at one time when a life ends and when a relationship ends…(if you take a deeper look, your relationship is a LIFE form). We can grieve over a failed relationship just like a lost loved one.

5 Stages of Grieving:

  • denial
  • anger
  • bargaining
  • depression
  • acceptance

I write this today for those of you that are going through a difficult time in your relationship. I write this for those of you that are struggling with the end of a relationship and your wondering why you are feeling the way you do.

As in everything on this earth, there is a ‘process’ – a ‘formula’. Now that you know what the process/formula is, you can better navigate your way towards acceptance and moving forward. You can’t know where you are going unless you know where you have been

…and believe me when I say, A LOT OF US HAVE BEEN IN A RELATIONSHIP THAT DID NOT WORK OUT.…so you are not alone. Time will allow your broken heart to heal. Understanding your feelings will allow you to recover in a manner that is productive and meaningful.

Shame My Body No More!

Body Shaming seems to be the ‘in-thing’ to do for some miserable individuals who have there own internal issues going on.

Let me begin with the OBVIOUS… IF we were ALL supposed to look the same, we would have been created the same. …of course we ALL know this not the reality of the situation.  We should be celebrating our individuality instead of tearing down those who appear different from ourselves.

For far too long we have been misguided and misinformed of what BEAUTY is. We have been ‘hood-winked’ into believing that a certain: height, weight, hair color, eye color, skin color, dress size, pant size, shoe size, nose size, breast size, butt size, hip size, arm length, waistline, shirt size, eyebrow arch, eyelash length,  nail length, manicure/pedicured nails (ok maybe this one should be done at the very least) is beautiful. This is too much for me to even try to keep up with and I know I missed several items.

There is nothing wrong with embracing your imperfections because that is something WE all have in common. There are times when we simply put too much emphasis on what other people think about us. Especially with the invention of social media where total strangers get the opportunity to subject you to their cruel comments while hiding behind a keyboard.

One of the business ventures I am most proud of is Jewcee Boutique Erotic Ambassadors. These Lingerie Models are from ALL walks of life and are of ALL shapes and sizes. Each one of them is  BEAUTIFUL in their own skin. They have embraced who they are and who they will become. They learn to LOVE their curves ~ their scars ~ their existence. Each time they step onto a runway they know that they are representing their body type. They also know that there is a woman that is sitting in the audience that needs that little boost of confidence to embrace herself and her body just as she is!

It is imperative that we continue to find ways to Celebrate our bodies with ALL of its: Lumps ~ Bumps & Chuckholes! We need to embrace our differences in our bodies as unique and unapologetic. From Stretch marks to scars ~ this is who WE are…beauty in its most IMPERFECT PERFECT FORM!

 

Sexually Evolving

Everyone’s Sexual Journey is their very own ~ with a large dose of “society” added…

The ‘fear’ of not being sexually accepted runs deep within all of us. So deep that some people deny their sexuality and/or hide their true sexuality. In addition, people are changing their sexual identity and appetite, to finally become sexually free.

Have we as the human race evolved sexually or are we still in denial of our sexuality? A majority of sexual acts have existed since the beginning of time. Many have been subjected to negative connotations by individuals who by ignorance, repulsion, religious (misguided) beliefs or any combination of reasons; shame, embarrass, humiliate those individuals that are comfortable with their sexuality.

Inclusiveness is a slow process, especially when you are trying to change the minds of those that will grip the past to their death. I always wonder why do people get so involved in other people’s sex lives?

Why are people so concerned over a woman who’s has consented to being spanked when it comes to the BDSM Lifestyle (VERY different from being beaten or abused – this is non consensual).

There are all kinds of fetishes and Lifestyles that would make the “Holier-than-thou” do more than blush… From Swingers to BDSM to the LBGTQ Community, those that feel they have some sort of ‘moral compass obligation” to right these hedonistic expressions of pleasure, find a way to make their priorities known without one ounce of compassion or tangible evidence that their way is the only way to function sexually.

We have Evolved but, we still have a long way to go. More work needs to be done with regards to Sexual Freedom without judgement. If a sexual act is not for you, there is no need to berate someone else (unless it is an illegal act and/or causes unwanted/unwarranted physical, mental or psychological abuse/damage to a person).

We want people to enjoy their sexuality to the fullest without negative comments and the feeling of shame that is sometimes projected on to them by others. Allowing someone to grow in their sexuality is a healthy way of self expression. Evolving is something we should ALL be doing as the Human Race. Antiquated ideals of days gone by, should be eliminated from our various cultures.

Evolving means: “To develop gradually, especially from a simple to a more complex form.” Human Sexuality has moved far beyond the boundaries of the Missionary Position or only have Coitus to impregnate a woman.

We must Evolve Sexually,  as research has shown, our Sexual Health is extremely important to our well being…

We’re Just Strangers With Some Memories

We all go through relationship ups and downs. We break up, we make up and then we break up again ~ only to wonder where did it all go wrong. Questioning why I wasn’t present as my relationship fell apart  …or was I and I didn’t want to see what was happening.

Your internal struggle to make sense of the loss can go on for a short period of time or a long period of time – (this is when your friends and family step in and tell you to get over her/him).  It’s never quite that easy. …especially when you have invested time, energy, money and your heart.

Some relationships just become systematically boring over time  No matter how you attempt to spice it up, it is still mundane and passionless. Believe it or not, even the Best Sex can become boring when the routine and/or the passion is lost or the desire to be with your partner has vanished.

Some people watch their relationship die right before their eyes and have no more fight left to attempt to revive it. They let “nature” take its course. Some folks take the easy way out and simply walk away with no explanation. Either they don’t want to argue or they don’t want to be talked into giving a passionless relationship another chance.

When you feel that you’re not friends, you’re not enemies ~ you’re just strangers with some memories it is time to move on. It takes some of us longer than others to realize this transition, but once we do, returning to the mundane is not an option. …and that is ok.

You need to be happy within the confines of your relationship. People do grow a part. There is nothing wrong with Loving yourself first. Especially when you don’t feel that Love from your partner. 

Keep It Simple…

Do you know the importance of keeping the “fires” burning in your relationship?
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As we become ‘comfortable’ with the person that we have been pursuing, we tend to forget the little things that brought us to this point. We get caught up in everyday life and outside influences
that takes our minds and spirits off of HOME.
 
REMEMBER: The way to keep that spark lit does not have to be ‘expensive’ or ‘large’ ~ it can be the little things like:
 
TRY THIS: A hand written note to remind your partner how much they mean to you. In other words…forget Hallmark – forget texting or emailing. Slip the note in their briefcase or inside their laptop, in a coat pocket or a purse… Keep It Simple and to the point…and watch the reaction.
 
Enjoy ~ Enlighten ~ Embrace ~ Eroticism
Featured Photo Models: Jewcee Boutique Erotic Ambassadors

Grace & Awareness

Variety is the spice of LIFE!

There are times when we get into a rut within our relationship. We find ourselves doing the same old thing because it’s familiar…because it’s safe.

RomanceRelationships ~ especially our personal relationships are like plants. They need certain things in order to grow and flourish. Otherwise they wither up and die. When we are with someone for a long period of time, we may forget this aspect of cultivating our relationship. Trying new things keeping our relationship Hot & Fresh.

We tend to get complacent…comfortable. We think and believe that now that we have the person of our dreams, the “work” is over. We forget that truly the WORK has just begun. WE as people change and evolve.

We are forever changing and adapting to our surroundings and the includes our relationships. Just think about it…what you thought in your 20’s is not how you think in your 30’s. Most of us grow as individuals. Circumstances change us. We let go of the old and take on new challenges. …this transformation should also happen within your personal relationship. We must be aware of the fact that our personal relationship will change. …and of course we want it to change for the better.

It is easy to get stuck in a rut if you are not paying attention to your partner. If you are not noticing the changes that are taking place right before your eyes. It is easy to be in denial about your personal relationship if you are the type of person that does not recognize change.  Change will happen whether you want it to or not. It is a part of LIFE. You simply must meet change with grace and awareness.

Grace is like water to a plant and awareness is like sunshine. Plants need water and sunshine to thrive…our relationships need grace and awareness to grow as well. …so take the time to cultivate your relationship. Check on it to make sure it’s not in a rut. Clear ~ Concise ~ Communication can be the beginning of an even stronger bond.

Enjoy ~ Enlighten ~ Embrace ~ Eroticism

 

ME TOO…I Challenge My Readers

To My Many Followers:

ME TOO is a way of sharing your personal story of sexual abuse, harassment and/or rape. Mz. Jewcee understands that this is mostly for women, but she believes that the same things happen to young boys and even men… …and Men report it LESS than women do.

The ultimate betrayal is when it’s your immediate family or possibly a neighbor or someone you no longer see and they decide one night that, they aren’t done with you.
 
Or simply ALL 3…Yes Mz. Jewcee is among hundreds of thousands of women and men who was sexually abused. First at the hands of her brother on top of a pile of dirty clothes in the basement (my “real” same mother and father brother – in their house) ~ then by a neighbor (old white man – who thank God died) ~ then by an ex.
 
Often Mz. Jewcee has been told to write a book…but who would believe the life that I’ve lived. The pain I’ve gone through. Hard for me to believe that I’ve SURVIVED such horrors in my life and still have the capacity to LOVE.
 
Hard for me to write this…but if it helps someone to SPEAK UP…then I will bare my sole so that someone else can SOAR WITH THE EAGLES.
 
If you are reading this and you are in a situation that you know isn’t right…REPORT IT. Don’t hold it in. Don’t let it simmer within you for your entire life. Don’t think for one minute that you are ALONE and NO ONE will understand and/or NO ONE will BELIEVE YOU! SAY SOMETHING! SCREAM IT IF YOU HAVE TO! There are people and places that can help you and put your predator behind bars and/or under the jail…or even a missing person…ijs…
 
I challenge my readers/blogger/guests to write their own story in the comments below. You are not alone and you will not be judged. Male or Female – express yourself.
#METOO
Praying Hands

How Many People Do You Have In Your Bedroom…?

Mz. Jewcee has met thousands of people over the years to talk about SEX. However, she is noticing that so many are stuck in a rut when it comes to SEX! Couples especially…

When it comes to sex it appears that the conversation becomes stuck in our throats about what we really want to obtain from the physical act. The lack of talking about sex becomes so overwhelming that we don’t actually reach our full potential of pleasure.

Mz. Jewcee took some time to think about why this happening. Why are individuals and couples not as fulfilled in their sexual relationship as they should be? …and it dawned on her…

WE HAVE TOO MANY PEOPLE IN OUR BEDROOM!

Now this isn’t to say that the ‘people’ are “physically” in the room while you and your partner are having sex…but their ideals are…. We tend to take our friends, family, church folk, co-workers and even strangers – opinions of sex to the bedroom with us…causing a lot of OVER-CROWDING when it comes time to actually have sex.

When you host as many adult toy party’s as Mz. Jewcee has, you begin to see a trend, especially among women in the room. …and what is really sad to Mz. Jewcee is, these women believe that they have thought of all this negativity towards sex all on their own. When in fact, they are simply living out what they have heard from ‘others’. Unwilling or too scared to attempt to try something that has been put on the TABOO list – by ‘others’.

From not sucking dick to NO ANAL sex to forget about adding another female to the bedroom from time to time…. Yeah…NONE OF THIS is going down.

Mz. Jewcee is attempting to EMPOWER women with KNOWLEDGE and doing certain sexual acts so that they enjoy what they are stepping in to. Mz. Jewcee is breaking down the walls of an oppressed sex life with the ladies…showing them that they are living out someones elses perception of the ‘perfect sex life’ and thus the reason they are not fulfilled – nor are they fulfilling their partner.

Walking away from the familiar is never easy, but in the long run it is very much worth it. Freeing yourself sexually from the chains that bind your creativity in the bedroom can only liberate you and assist your personal relationship with your partner. This bond can be one of the strongest bonds you can encounter.

…so the next time you say NO to something that your partner might be interested in trying. Stop and think for a moment… Is this YOU saying no ~ or the “other people” that you have allowed to influence your sexual happiness saying no.  …believe me when I say…they probably are not speaking from a place of actual knowledge and are just speaking from a place of ignorance (for lack of a better term).

In closing… Enjoy ~Enlighten ~ Embrace ~ Eroticism!

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