All Women’s Orgasms Are Not Alike

when the Big O is a Big No Go

Mz. JewCee works with hundred’s of women during the course of a year and so many of them have the same issue… NO ORGASM! They feel incomplete and discouraged when the Big O is a Big No Go! …well Mz. JewCee is here to save the day…

There are various reasons that women are unable to reach that earth-shattering, toe curling, sheet gripping orgasm. There are times when we are under immense pressure inside and outside the home. Most of you have heard of S&M, but you should be more familiar with S&A ~ Stress & Anxiety. S&A contributes heavily to women not reaching an orgasm. Their S&A can come from internal thoughts, their partners expectations or even their own lack of confidence in their own abilities.

There are several factors that can be attributed to a lack of orgasms for women. Mz. JewCee has listed a few below:

  1. Stress/Anxiety: Whether your stress level is implied or real, the pressure to perform in the bedroom is a contributing factor to lack of orgasms.
  2. Communication: Women not conveying verbally to their partner what excites and/or arouses them.
  3. Rushing: Take time to talk, taste, tease and touch. These are stimuli that will aid in obtaining a more complete climax.

Penetration isn’t the only way to have an orgasm. When you add knowledge to your sexual arsenal, your relationship with yourself and your partner becomes more powerful. The power to improve your Erotic Experience is totally up to you!

Erotic Activities:

  1. Mutual Masturbation: Think of mutual masturbation as a visual way to explore and understand each others erogenous zones.
  2. Nipple Play: Licking, pinching, stroking and suckling on your nipples can bring about an orgasm without any other part of your boding being touched.
  3. Clitoral Stimulation: Rubbing your clit with a finger, tongue or adult toy can achieve a glorious orgasm.
  4. Vocal Stimulation: Words are a powerful tool that can be whispered softly or spoken more harshly – such as a command (Dom/Domme sub/slave relationship).

Mz. JewCee would like to bring to the surface what may not be spoken on as much as it should be; your surroundings. Believe it or not your surroundings play a huge role in your orgasm. A cluttered room, room mates in the next room, in-laws down the hall, children in the house. Does any of this sound familiar? All of these factors can cause you to hold back or not feel comfortable in allowing yourself to fully express your orgasmic side.

The road to the Big O is different for every woman and every experience. Mz. JewCee suggest that you Enjoy the Journey. Take in the sites and sounds of your Erotic Encounter and Revel in the pleasure that is an orgasm! Let go of your stress and make your surroundings conducive to having The Big O!

Enjoy ~ Enlighten ~ Embrace ~ Eroticism

Anal Orgasm

…and unclench those butt cheeks…

Anal Sex is the one topic that Mz. JewCee knows that a disproportionate amount of women feel uncomfortable talking about. A variety of responses and looks, is always presented when this topic comes up. …so with that said, Mz. JewCee wants everyone that reads this Blog to keep an open mind… …and unclench those butt cheeks…

Anal Sex/Anal Play isn’t every woman’s preferred sexual position of choice. This is due in part to myths, rumors and a lack of knowledge. Some women love it, while others don’t care for it at all. Let Mz. JewCee start with this tidbit of information ~ anal sex/anal play has been a sexual act for thousands of years. When properly executed, anal sex/anal play can be quite pleasurable. An anal orgasm is one of the most powerful orgasms’ a woman can achieve.

Let’s leave the fiction for the movies and delve into some FACTS regarding anal sex/anal play so that you may achieve an Anal Orgasm. The anus and rectum are close to the vagina and clitoris. They share many of the same nerves and muscles, including the PC (pelvic floor) muscle. The PC muscle is highly sensitive for many women and stimulating it can trigger a vaginal orgasm and an anal orgasm.

Best Anal Positions for Women:

  1. Cowgirl or Reverse Cowgirl
  2. Butt Lifted Missionary
  3. Backdoor Side by Side
  4. On Bended Knee

During anal penetration, especially for beginners, being in a position of control is vital to the pace and comfortability of the receiver. All of the positions listed above, give a receiver more control when it comes to the speed and depth of penetration. The receiver can direct their partner through touch and verbal communication. The receiver is able to assist with instructions on the speed of penetration and the depth.

In addition for a successful anal encounter…please, Please, PLEASE ~ use the PROPER Lube! …in other words…SPIT AIN’T IT! Leave that to the porn stars…this is real life action and you want your partner to enjoy the experience.

Lubrication is a vital sexual aid when it comes to the comfort level of a receiver. The anal canal does not secret fluid – thus the reason for additional lubrication. A water based lube is ok, but will have to be applied repeatedly often disrupting the anal play session. The best lubrication to utilize is a silicone based lube. Silicone lubes come in a variety of thicknesses. The thicker the silicone lube, the less times you would need to apply it. …take your time and choose what works for you and your partner.

**Mz. JewCee does not recommend lubricants with desensitizing/numbing properties. Desensitizing/numbing lubes can mask pain, which is your bodies way of letting you know something is wrong. Mz. JewCee does recommend the use of a condom(s). **

Note: Check your condom packaging for what lubricants it is compatible with.

Anal Sex/Anal Play can be very pleasurable for many women. Partners need to be in tune with your body and Clear ~ Concise ~ Communication is a factor that cannot be ignored. Before jumping into this Erotic position, have an open and honest conversation about the expectations. Make sure that your partner is knowledgeable about anal play and create a Sensual Safe Space ~ by creating a safe word to discontinue the anal session should any discomfort arise. …take it from Mz. JewCee the time to discuss you and your partners expectations for anal sex/anal play IS NOT while you are participating in the sexual act!

Women that actively participate in anal sex/anal play report that powerful orgasms abound! An anal orgasm along with clitoris stimulation can produce a Blended Orgasm that is quite powerful! The key to anal satisfaction is KNOWLEDGE ~ NOT LEGEND!

Remember to: Educate, Explore and Execute.

Enjoy ~ Enlighten ~ Embrace ~ Eroticism

Blended Orgasm

…your climaxes do not have to be one-dimensional.

Mz. JewCee has spoken with women that did not realize that they have had a Blended Orgasm. The term is a way of showing the multifaceted way that orgasms can be obtained. In other words, your climaxes do not have to be one-dimensional. …so lets get educated… Ladies ~ Class is in Session!

Can you handle two, three or even four times the intensity of a single erogenous zone orgasm? If you have answered YES, then this orgasm is for you! Just imagine being taken to the stratosphere physically, mentally and spiritually. Your body tingling and climaxing in multiple areas all at the same time. Euphoria engulfing your very being. You can feel the adrenaline high taking over your entire body as you succumb to waves of pleasure. Gasping for air as you attempt to feel every caress ~ every kiss, unable to escape your throbbing clit ~ your erect nipples now sensitive to the touch ~ your anal muscles clinching. You feel the fluid release from deep inside of you…

This isn’t an erotic novel or even a porn movie; this is actually happening to you! A Blended Orgasm is a climax that happens when more than one erogenous zone is being stimulated at the same time. 

Examples of Blended Orgasms:

  1. G-spot penetration along with clitoral touching is one of the most common Blended Orgasms.
  2. Simultaneously executing vaginal penetration, clitoral stroking, nipple play, and anal stimulation can result in the ultimate Blended Orgasm!

Studies show that increased blood flow due in part to enhanced stimulation to the erogenous zones, contributes to higher arousal levels and ultimately a stronger more intense climax/orgasm. Blended Orgasms can occur during a self-exploratory session as well. Mz. JewCee always recommends self pleasuring yourself so that when you and your partner are together you are able to guide them through a more satisfying Erotic Encounter. Knowing what turns you on is liberating and powerful in so many ways.

If the sky is the limit…shoot for the Ecstasy moon!

Best Position for a Blended Orgasm: The woman on top position (Cowgirl), because your hands and your partner’s hands are free to touch your clitoris, breasts, or butt. You can always add a vibrator into the mix for added stimulation (JewCee Boutique).

Enjoy ~ Enlighten ~ Embrace ~ Eroticism

G-Spot Orgasm

The G-spot is an erogenous area of the vagina

Did you know that Dr. Ernst Gräfenberg a male Gynecologist of German decent and Jewish heritage is accredited with discovering the G-Spot as well as inventing the Intrauterine Device (IUD)? In addition there is also evidence to suggest that research on the G-Spot started as early as the 16th Century by Dr. Regnier de Graaf of Holland. …wanted you to know that Mz. JewCee did her research on this topic…

The G-spot is an erogenous area of the vagina that, when stimulated, may lead to strong sexual arousal, powerful orgasms and potential female ejaculation. Although, typically reported to be located 5–8 cm up the front vaginal wall (between the vaginal opening and the urethra) every woman is built differently. The G-Spot may feel ridged, rippled and/or spongy. The area cannot be seen, but can be felt when a finger is inserted into the vagina and pressed forward. Moving the finger in a come-here motion may start to stimulate the G-Spot and the Skene’s Gland that is reported to be located around the urethra area. The importance of the Skene’s Gland is that it collects fluid that can be expelled through the urethra during orgasm.

Note: Research suggests that there are multiple glands containing fluid that are located either within and/or behind the vaginal wall that secrete fluids of various consistencies during sexual stimulation and orgasm/climax.

Pressing this spot gently and stroking it lightly can prime the G-Spot for orgasm. When aroused, similar to the clitoral stimulation, the G-Spot area will fill with blood and become more sensitive to the touch of a finger, penis and/or a vibrator. The sensation of being touched during this arousal period may result in what many women describe as a deeply intense, shaken-to-the-core kind of climax! Each woman’s experience with G-Spot stimulation is unique. Some women have reported stimulation ranging from euphoric to irritating. …so once again – this isn’t the end-all and be-all for every women…

It is important to mention that as tempting as it may be to lump ALL women into one category of pleasure, a woman’s personal pleasure development, sexual experience and sensation levels vary from female to female/woman to woman. This may not be the most productive way to think about sex and pleasure, but it is the honest way to be inclusive to ALL women. When you are able to normalize the down-side of orgasms for a specific area, this will allow you and your partner to explore other erogenous avenues to find what truly inspires you to free yourself orgasmically.

Mz. JewCee understands that for far too long Women have internally beat themselves up because of the ‘allusive’ orgasm. These women have felt the burden of shame or felt that they are not “normal” or not good enough. These women have felt the pressure of trying to make their partner feel competent and ‘all pleasuring’, when in fact their partner could be the one that does not have the knowledge on how to please her.

Once again Mz. JewCee stresses the importance of knowing your body… Remember to: Educate, Explore and Execute. What you discover about your sexual arousal can be enlightening and freeing at the same time. …after all…Sex Should Be Fun!

Enjoy ~ Enlighten ~ Embrace ~ Eroticism

Jewcee Tales Erotic Chat

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Tonight’s Episode: How are they made – Adult Toys
Guest: Raven Faber – Founder EngErotics

Jewcee Tales Erotic Chat

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Women – Sex Over 40

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Jewcee Tales Erotic Chat

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Nude Models ~ The Naked Truth

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A Broken Heart

Many of us have suffered a broken heart at one time or another. The tears flow. We may over eat or not eat at all. Some people are unable to get out of bed. Some individuals destroy property. …and some people take their own lives. Then there are those “strong” individuals who act as if nothing has happened and forward they move with their ‘brokenness’ locked tightly away.

However you choose to deal with the break up of a relationship, you must remember – no matter how ‘strong’ you appear to be on the outside, there are steps to healing a broken heart.

Each person heals differently. Some people are “quick” to move on, while others take a longer period of time to move forward. The amount of time or the amount of commitment may play a factor in how much time you need to heal. …but heal you must in order to truly be able to move forward.

For a lot of us, our relationship ending is just like the death of a family member. There are relationships in which you can see the end is near and there are relationships that slowly fizzle over time and there are relationships that end before they really get started. Whatever the length of time, if you have invested your time, energy, effort and money into your relationship, the probability that you will be hurt when it ends is very likely. …unless of course your not that invested in the relationship and that could be the reason its over.

Much like the death of a loved one, the death of a relationship can affect us the same way. There are so many emotions raging at one time when a life ends and when a relationship ends…(if you take a deeper look, your relationship is a LIFE form). We can grieve over a failed relationship just like a lost loved one.

5 Stages of Grieving:

  • denial
  • anger
  • bargaining
  • depression
  • acceptance

I write this today for those of you that are going through a difficult time in your relationship. I write this for those of you that are struggling with the end of a relationship and your wondering why you are feeling the way you do.

As in everything on this earth, there is a ‘process’ – a ‘formula’. Now that you know what the process/formula is, you can better navigate your way towards acceptance and moving forward. You can’t know where you are going unless you know where you have been

…and believe me when I say, A LOT OF US HAVE BEEN IN A RELATIONSHIP THAT DID NOT WORK OUT.…so you are not alone. Time will allow your broken heart to heal. Understanding your feelings will allow you to recover in a manner that is productive and meaningful.