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All Women’s Orgasms Are Not Alike

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when the Big O is a Big No Go

Mz. JewCee works with hundred’s of women during the course of a year and so many of them have the same issue… NO ORGASM! They feel incomplete and discouraged when the Big O is a Big No Go! …well Mz. JewCee is here to save the day…

There are various reasons that women are unable to reach that earth-shattering, toe curling, sheet gripping orgasm. There are times when we are under immense pressure inside and outside the home. Most of you have heard of S&M, but you should be more familiar with S&A ~ Stress & Anxiety. S&A contributes heavily to women not reaching an orgasm. Their S&A can come from internal thoughts, their partners expectations or even their own lack of confidence in their own abilities.

There are several factors that can be attributed to a lack of orgasms for women. Mz. JewCee has listed a few below:

  1. Stress/Anxiety: Whether your stress level is implied or real, the pressure to perform in the bedroom is a contributing factor to lack of orgasms.
  2. Communication: Women not conveying verbally to their partner what excites and/or arouses them.
  3. Rushing: Take time to talk, taste, tease and touch. These are stimuli that will aid in obtaining a more complete climax.

Penetration isn’t the only way to have an orgasm. When you add knowledge to your sexual arsenal, your relationship with yourself and your partner becomes more powerful. The power to improve your Erotic Experience is totally up to you!

Erotic Activities:

  1. Mutual Masturbation: Think of mutual masturbation as a visual way to explore and understand each others erogenous zones.
  2. Nipple Play: Licking, pinching, stroking and suckling on your nipples can bring about an orgasm without any other part of your boding being touched.
  3. Clitoral Stimulation: Rubbing your clit with a finger, tongue or adult toy can achieve a glorious orgasm.
  4. Vocal Stimulation: Words are a powerful tool that can be whispered softly or spoken more harshly – such as a command (Dom/Domme sub/slave relationship).

Mz. JewCee would like to bring to the surface what may not be spoken on as much as it should be; your surroundings. Believe it or not your surroundings play a huge role in your orgasm. A cluttered room, room mates in the next room, in-laws down the hall, children in the house. Does any of this sound familiar? All of these factors can cause you to hold back or not feel comfortable in allowing yourself to fully express your orgasmic side.

The road to the Big O is different for every woman and every experience. Mz. JewCee suggest that you Enjoy the Journey. Take in the sites and sounds of your Erotic Encounter and Revel in the pleasure that is an orgasm! Let go of your stress and make your surroundings conducive to having The Big O!

Enjoy ~ Enlighten ~ Embrace ~ Eroticism

Blended Orgasm

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…your climaxes do not have to be one-dimensional.

Mz. JewCee has spoken with women that did not realize that they have had a Blended Orgasm. The term is a way of showing the multifaceted way that orgasms can be obtained. In other words, your climaxes do not have to be one-dimensional. …so lets get educated… Ladies ~ Class is in Session!

Can you handle two, three or even four times the intensity of a single erogenous zone orgasm? If you have answered YES, then this orgasm is for you! Just imagine being taken to the stratosphere physically, mentally and spiritually. Your body tingling and climaxing in multiple areas all at the same time. Euphoria engulfing your very being. You can feel the adrenaline high taking over your entire body as you succumb to waves of pleasure. Gasping for air as you attempt to feel every caress ~ every kiss, unable to escape your throbbing clit ~ your erect nipples now sensitive to the touch ~ your anal muscles clinching. You feel the fluid release from deep inside of you…

This isn’t an erotic novel or even a porn movie; this is actually happening to you! A Blended Orgasm is a climax that happens when more than one erogenous zone is being stimulated at the same time. 

Examples of Blended Orgasms:

  1. G-spot penetration along with clitoral touching is one of the most common Blended Orgasms.
  2. Simultaneously executing vaginal penetration, clitoral stroking, nipple play, and anal stimulation can result in the ultimate Blended Orgasm!

Studies show that increased blood flow due in part to enhanced stimulation to the erogenous zones, contributes to higher arousal levels and ultimately a stronger more intense climax/orgasm. Blended Orgasms can occur during a self-exploratory session as well. Mz. JewCee always recommends self pleasuring yourself so that when you and your partner are together you are able to guide them through a more satisfying Erotic Encounter. Knowing what turns you on is liberating and powerful in so many ways.

If the sky is the limit…shoot for the Ecstasy moon!

Best Position for a Blended Orgasm: The woman on top position (Cowgirl), because your hands and your partner’s hands are free to touch your clitoris, breasts, or butt. You can always add a vibrator into the mix for added stimulation (JewCee Boutique).

Enjoy ~ Enlighten ~ Embrace ~ Eroticism

Shame My Body No More!

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Body Shaming seems to be the ‘in-thing’ to do for some miserable individuals who have there own internal issues going on.

Let me begin with the OBVIOUS… IF we were ALL supposed to look the same, we would have been created the same. …of course we ALL know this not the reality of the situation.  We should be celebrating our individuality instead of tearing down those who appear different from ourselves.

For far too long we have been misguided and misinformed of what BEAUTY is. We have been ‘hood-winked’ into believing that a certain: height, weight, hair color, eye color, skin color, dress size, pant size, shoe size, nose size, breast size, butt size, hip size, arm length, waistline, shirt size, eyebrow arch, eyelash length,  nail length, manicure/pedicured nails (ok maybe this one should be done at the very least) is beautiful. This is too much for me to even try to keep up with and I know I missed several items.

There is nothing wrong with embracing your imperfections because that is something WE all have in common. There are times when we simply put too much emphasis on what other people think about us. Especially with the invention of social media where total strangers get the opportunity to subject you to their cruel comments while hiding behind a keyboard.

One of the business ventures I am most proud of is Jewcee Boutique Erotic Ambassadors. These Lingerie Models are from ALL walks of life and are of ALL shapes and sizes. Each one of them is  BEAUTIFUL in their own skin. They have embraced who they are and who they will become. They learn to LOVE their curves ~ their scars ~ their existence. Each time they step onto a runway they know that they are representing their body type. They also know that there is a woman that is sitting in the audience that needs that little boost of confidence to embrace herself and her body just as she is!

It is imperative that we continue to find ways to Celebrate our bodies with ALL of its: Lumps ~ Bumps & Chuckholes! We need to embrace our differences in our bodies as unique and unapologetic. From Stretch marks to scars ~ this is who WE are…beauty in its most IMPERFECT PERFECT FORM!

 

Car Sex Tips

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Car Sex Tips

SOUND OFF… Cum on Fam ~ Share your Experiences!

How many of our JewCee Fam have had Car Sex?

Was the moment spontaneous or planned? Was the moment an awkward adventure? Was the encounter difficult to achieve satisfaction? Was the moment FABULOUS?

… or possibly this is something you and your partner want to try…hhmmm?

Below are a few tips on how to have Sexsessful Car Sex! Feel free to share your tips in the comments!

Tip 1: Get creative — think outside penetrative sex. Mutual Masturbation can be quite the turn on! Note: Keep Baby Wipes in your glove-box for quick & easy clean up.

Tip 2: Just go for it. Relax, have fun, and laugh. It’s funny! Don’t be self-conscious when you’re as folded and twisted as a pretzel.

Tip 3: Keep your height differences in mind and the space within the vehicle.

Tip 4: Remove only the clothes you have to, and try to keep them all in the same place after you take them off; nothing kills a post-sex mood like digging around under a car seat for your underwear. Or simply go COMMANDO 😈. Ladies: Sundresses – No Bra – No Panties! Try to wear clothes with no buttons or zippers. Easy Access Clothing! (when possible)

Tip 5: It’s all about communication and relaxation. Also foreplay, foreplay, FOREPLAY! Ladies or Gentlemen ~ nothing like Playing with yourself while your partner is driving to that secluded spot!

Tip 6: Choose the time carefully, and use the nighttime to your advantage.

Tip 7: Accept the fact that this isn’t your bed — but it’ll be FUN & ADVENTUROUS! Find positions that are comfortable for you and your partner.

Tip 8: Make sure you choose a secluded place to park, where people (and cops) won’t be walking by. Remember: In many states it is still Illegal to have sex out in public… (stupid law)

Tip 9: The car itself is key. In a bigger car like a Minivan or SUV you can put down the back seats to make a totally flat area behind the first row.

Tip 10: If you have an attached garage, utilize this space as a Car Sex Experimental Testing Site or just consider it another room. Great way to have a quickie if you have a house full of kids or people! 😉

Keep It Simple…

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Do you know the importance of keeping the “fires” burning in your relationship?
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As we become ‘comfortable’ with the person that we have been pursuing, we tend to forget the little things that brought us to this point. We get caught up in everyday life and outside influences
that takes our minds and spirits off of HOME.
 
REMEMBER: The way to keep that spark lit does not have to be ‘expensive’ or ‘large’ ~ it can be the little things like:
 
TRY THIS: A hand written note to remind your partner how much they mean to you. In other words…forget Hallmark – forget texting or emailing. Slip the note in their briefcase or inside their laptop, in a coat pocket or a purse… Keep It Simple and to the point…and watch the reaction.
 
Enjoy ~ Enlighten ~ Embrace ~ Eroticism
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JewCee Boutique Presents: Toy Talk

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SAVE THE DATE!

Sunday, December, 3, 2017

JewCee Boutique Presents: Toy Talk LIVE!

Join Mz. Jewcee as she talks to you about the Latest and Greatest Adult Toys on the market! Get HONEST & FUN Testimonials regarding: Lube ~ Vibrating Toys ~ Dildos ~ C-Rings ~ Games and so much more!

From the Bullet to the Rabbit ~ Mz. Jewcee will give you a comprehensive look at the Adult Toy Industry! With over 200k+ toys at her disposal, there is something for EVERYONE to enjoy!

Ask questions and make comments ~ cum be apart of this LIVE Adult Conversation!

…so get your wine together and your notepad ready and lets TALK ADULT TOYS!Toy Talk LIVE

Erotic World Media – Ebony Exotic Experience Write-up

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Hello Blog Family!

Please take a moment to ready the FANTASTIC write-up on Erotic World Media that talks about the 2017 Ebony Exotic Experience! Let Mz. Jewcee know what you think…

We are gearing up for 2018’s Event…so this article could not have come at a more timely time!

Mz. Jewcee wants to THANK PERSONALLY Mr. Curtis Isom for attending and taking a chance on a NEW Erotic Event.

Mr. Curtis Isom – Erotic World Media
Curtis Isom

Grace & Awareness

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Variety is the spice of LIFE!

There are times when we get into a rut within our relationship. We find ourselves doing the same old thing because it’s familiar…because it’s safe.

RomanceRelationships ~ especially our personal relationships are like plants. They need certain things in order to grow and flourish. Otherwise they wither up and die. When we are with someone for a long period of time, we may forget this aspect of cultivating our relationship. Trying new things keeping our relationship Hot & Fresh.

We tend to get complacent…comfortable. We think and believe that now that we have the person of our dreams, the “work” is over. We forget that truly the WORK has just begun. WE as people change and evolve.

We are forever changing and adapting to our surroundings and the includes our relationships. Just think about it…what you thought in your 20’s is not how you think in your 30’s. Most of us grow as individuals. Circumstances change us. We let go of the old and take on new challenges. …this transformation should also happen within your personal relationship. We must be aware of the fact that our personal relationship will change. …and of course we want it to change for the better.

It is easy to get stuck in a rut if you are not paying attention to your partner. If you are not noticing the changes that are taking place right before your eyes. It is easy to be in denial about your personal relationship if you are the type of person that does not recognize change.  Change will happen whether you want it to or not. It is a part of LIFE. You simply must meet change with grace and awareness.

Grace is like water to a plant and awareness is like sunshine. Plants need water and sunshine to thrive…our relationships need grace and awareness to grow as well. …so take the time to cultivate your relationship. Check on it to make sure it’s not in a rut. Clear ~ Concise ~ Communication can be the beginning of an even stronger bond.

Enjoy ~ Enlighten ~ Embrace ~ Eroticism

 

How Many People Do You Have In Your Bedroom…?

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Mz. Jewcee has met thousands of people over the years to talk about SEX. However, she is noticing that so many are stuck in a rut when it comes to SEX! Couples especially…

When it comes to sex it appears that the conversation becomes stuck in our throats about what we really want to obtain from the physical act. The lack of talking about sex becomes so overwhelming that we don’t actually reach our full potential of pleasure.

Mz. Jewcee took some time to think about why this happening. Why are individuals and couples not as fulfilled in their sexual relationship as they should be? …and it dawned on her…

WE HAVE TOO MANY PEOPLE IN OUR BEDROOM!

Now this isn’t to say that the ‘people’ are “physically” in the room while you and your partner are having sex…but their ideals are…. We tend to take our friends, family, church folk, co-workers and even strangers – opinions of sex to the bedroom with us…causing a lot of OVER-CROWDING when it comes time to actually have sex.

When you host as many adult toy party’s as Mz. Jewcee has, you begin to see a trend, especially among women in the room. …and what is really sad to Mz. Jewcee is, these women believe that they have thought of all this negativity towards sex all on their own. When in fact, they are simply living out what they have heard from ‘others’. Unwilling or too scared to attempt to try something that has been put on the TABOO list – by ‘others’.

From not sucking dick to NO ANAL sex to forget about adding another female to the bedroom from time to time…. Yeah…NONE OF THIS is going down.

Mz. Jewcee is attempting to EMPOWER women with KNOWLEDGE and doing certain sexual acts so that they enjoy what they are stepping in to. Mz. Jewcee is breaking down the walls of an oppressed sex life with the ladies…showing them that they are living out someones elses perception of the ‘perfect sex life’ and thus the reason they are not fulfilled – nor are they fulfilling their partner.

Walking away from the familiar is never easy, but in the long run it is very much worth it. Freeing yourself sexually from the chains that bind your creativity in the bedroom can only liberate you and assist your personal relationship with your partner. This bond can be one of the strongest bonds you can encounter.

…so the next time you say NO to something that your partner might be interested in trying. Stop and think for a moment… Is this YOU saying no ~ or the “other people” that you have allowed to influence your sexual happiness saying no.  …believe me when I say…they probably are not speaking from a place of actual knowledge and are just speaking from a place of ignorance (for lack of a better term).

In closing… Enjoy ~Enlighten ~ Embrace ~ Eroticism!

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