Mz. Jewcee is (but not limited to): ~ Erotic Advisor ~ Mistress of Ceremonies ~ Erotic Event Planner ~ Erotic Entrepreneur ~ Erotic Writer & Erotic Talk Show Host. At the tender age of 50+ Mz. Jewcee has FINALLY found her calling! After years of creating a platform for eroticism through classes and events, she has decided to formally start Jewcee Tales. Jewcee Tales is all about focusing on teaching adults how to embrace sexual fulfillment while learning how to enhance their Erotic existence. Mz. Jewcee’s background in Health Ed/Sex Ed and the Lifestyle afford her the opportunities to host workshops for Couples, Singles, Swingers, Kinksters and YOU there in the corner hiding. SEX SHOULD BE FUN! Let me show you how...
Mz. JewCee is Advancing her Education! …ok this is not an easy task…but a necessary one!
Mz. JewCee like so many other women, put on hold her formal education to take care of her child as a single divorced mother. In her attempt to return to her formal education roots, LIFE happened and it just never seemed like the right time to return. …you know…bills had to be paid, food, shelter and clothing needed to be bought ~ horrific accidents happened and job lay offs… Mz. JewCee always wanted to go back…just could not make the time and/or had the finances to continue…
What she did in order to continue her Erotic Education was READ! She read and put her personal experiences to the test. She developed an Erotic Empire with the formal education she had obtained and the constant research that grew her business. She surrounded herself with like-minded professionals – and learned from them as well…
Mz. JewCee NEVER stopped learning and she is proud to announce that she has finally begun the completion of her formal education! She is back in class gaining more knowledge and will become a Certified Sexuality Coach before the end of 2021!
Mz. JewCee admits that the courses she is taking are TOUGH – they are testing her knowledge and adding to her already vast understanding of Sensuality & Sexuality. …you can ALWAYS learn more… As a matter of fact, YOU SHOULD ALWAYS WANT TO LEARN MORE!
Mz. JewCee is EXCITED to be on this JewCee Journey to not only advance herself, but to be able to assist more people with their relationship issues, self-love, empowering women and so much more!
Stay tuned for more of her JewCee Erotic Education Journey!
Queens…can we talk? …although every situation is different, it is time that we take an honest look at our Crowns. Are we causing our crowns to tilt, fall to the side or be less valuable? The time to fix Your Crown is now! The crown that you wear should be: Straight, Purposeful & True.
For far too long we have allowed our crowns to tilt to the side where doubt, deception and disloyalty can pull our crowns from our heads. We are no longer the steadfast backbone that is needed in our own lives. Our crowns have slid to the side, backwards and even been taken off our heads by our own hands. Our crowns have been surrendered as we lack the character and courage to hold our reign.
We have allowed ~ (Yes Mz. JewCee said: ALLOWED) – ourselves to settle and become docile in our rolls as Queens. We have fallen into the trap of uselessness and lack-luster appreciation. We entertain the fool instead of The King. We have become complicit in our resolve to achieve our dreams and goals. Our fear of being successful overshadowed by the fear of failure.
We look to ‘others’ to remedy what we have created. Yet the others that we find solace in are not able to give us sound advice and/or lead us to the promise land, as they too are in no position to afford us the wisdom that we need in order to reclaim our crown. Their advice is tainted by their own set of declining circumstances.
So how do you reclaim your Crown? Here are 3 simple steps to begin your journey…
Straight: Move forward in a direction that is toward the betterment of you
Purposeful: Show your determination and resolve to accomplish your desires and goals
True: Be honest and straight forward with yourself – even when it is difficult and the truth hurts
When you move with purpose and honesty – your gaze is looking forward to the future, your Crown will return to its proper position. When your gaze is in the past, expect your crown to fall backwards or even fall off. In other words, distractions are everywhere and they come in all shapes and sizes!
Take the time to know what you want out for your Life. The Relationship you have with yourself is the most important one. Allow yourself time to heal, grieve and laugh. Set goals that you can achieve…start small and add-on gradually. Have the same expectations for yourself that you expect from others. In other words, do what you say you are going to do for yourself – whether it is to lose weight or save money. Hold YOURSELF accountable. We often hold others to a higher standard. It is time that we hold ourselves to the same standard.
Most Queens have the strength and ingenuity to set and reset their Crowns…some just need a little push or encouragement. All Crowns slip from time to time, but the object is not to let them stay out of place too long. When you feel your crown slipping and you feel that some assistance is warranted, Mz. JewCee recommends Counseling and/or a Mentor. Our family and friends are great resources for some things, but when you are looking to make strides in a different direction and/or better yourself – consider the source.
Queens let us Fix Our Own Crowns so that WE may be the leaders of tomorrow. Let us better ourselves and rejoice in our ability to rule our Queendoms!
Mz. JewCee believes that aphrodisiacs do exist! What is an aphrodisiac you may ask…? The definition that Mz. JewCee feels is within the realm of the Erotic world would be: “An aphrodisiac is a substance that increases sexual desire, sexual pleasure, or sexual behavior.” There are a variety of substances that can be utilized, but today Mz. JewCee would like to discuss ~ CHOCOLATE!
From the spectrum of colors ~ to the smell ~ to the texture ~ to your consumption – Chocolate can arouse your Erotic senses in a way that is sensual as well as tasty. There is actual research that leans towards chocolate being an aphrodisiac.
One of the properties of chocolate is theobromine. Theobromine works on the central nervous system to make one feel stimulated and excited. Another component would be tryptophan, which is a building block of serotonin, a brain chemical involved in sexual arousal. Chocolate contains L-arginine, an amino acid that can be an effective natural sex-enhancer for both women and men. It works by increasing nitric oxide and promoting blood flow to your sexual organs, which increases sensation, satisfaction and desire.
The texture of Chocolate ~ smooth and creamy ~ fluid in motion ~ aroma that engulfs your entire being – are just a few of the ways that chocolate can be described. When you close your eyes and bite into a piece of chocolate, the weight of your day seems to ease away. A sigh slips from your lips as you begin to chew and savor the deliciousness that delights your taste buds.
Although the pleasure of chocolate ‘appears’ to be confined to the sweetness of candy…Mz. JewCee also knows how intriguing and stimulating the Chocolate of our Melanated skin can be…metaphorically speaking of course. WE are intoxicating with our varying shades of ebony hues. Our scent is unique and our taste exquisite. The sweat glistens off of our skin as if kissed by droplets of tears. The thickness of our thighs ~ the brown milk of life that flows from our breasts ~ the strength of our backs to carry the load of our heritage and the fullness of our hips so that we may bear the Kings and Queens of the world.
This post is not just about the sweetness of the candy, but the recognition of our strength ~ the color of our skin! From the contrast of light and dark skinned men and women intertwined in a never ending embrace to the contours of our bodies while standing naked for all to see. WE too are aphrodisiacs’ ~ in every sense of the word!
The smoothness and beauty of our skin. The ability to have so many varieties to choose from…WE are truly “…like a box of chocolate.” Now, savor your sweetness…
Mz. JewCee works with hundred’s of women during the course of a year and so many of them have the same issue… NO ORGASM! They feel incomplete and discouraged when the Big O is a Big No Go! …well Mz. JewCee is here to save the day…
There are various reasons that women are unable to reach that earth-shattering, toe curling, sheet gripping orgasm. There are times when we are under immense pressure inside and outside the home. Most of you have heard of S&M, but you should be more familiar with S&A ~ Stress & Anxiety. S&A contributes heavily to women not reaching an orgasm. Their S&A can come from internal thoughts, their partners expectations or even their own lack of confidence in their own abilities.
There are several factors that can be attributed to a lack of orgasms for women. Mz. JewCee has listed a few below:
Stress/Anxiety: Whether your stress level is implied or real, the pressure to perform in the bedroom is a contributing factor to lack of orgasms.
Communication: Women not conveying verbally to their partner what excites and/or arouses them.
Rushing: Take time to talk, taste, tease and touch. These are stimuli that will aid in obtaining a more complete climax.
Penetration isn’t the only way to have an orgasm. When you add knowledge to your sexual arsenal, your relationship with yourself and your partner becomes more powerful. The power to improve your Erotic Experience is totally up to you!
Mutual Masturbation: Think of mutual masturbation as a visual way to explore and understand each others erogenous zones.
Nipple Play: Licking, pinching, stroking and suckling on your nipples can bring about an orgasm without any other part of your boding being touched.
Clitoral Stimulation: Rubbing your clit with a finger, tongue or adult toy can achieve a glorious orgasm.
Vocal Stimulation: Words are a powerful tool that can be whispered softly or spoken more harshly – such as a command (Dom/Domme sub/slave relationship).
Mz. JewCee would like to bring to the surface what may not be spoken on as much as it should be; your surroundings. Believe it or not your surroundings play a huge role in your orgasm. A cluttered room, room mates in the next room, in-laws down the hall, children in the house. Does any of this sound familiar? All of these factors can cause you to hold back or not feel comfortable in allowing yourself to fully express your orgasmic side.
The road to the Big O is different for every woman and every experience. Mz. JewCee suggest that you Enjoy the Journey. Take in the sites and sounds of your Erotic Encounter and Revel in the pleasure that is an orgasm! Let go of your stress and make your surroundings conducive to having The Big O!
Anal Sex is the one topic that Mz. JewCee knows that a disproportionate amount of women feel uncomfortable talking about. A variety of responses and looks, is always presented when this topic comes up. …so with that said, Mz. JewCee wants everyone that reads this Blog to keep an open mind… …and unclench those butt cheeks…
Anal Sex/Anal Play isn’t every woman’s preferred sexual position of choice. This is due in part to myths, rumors and a lack of knowledge. Some women love it, while others don’t care for it at all. Let Mz. JewCee start with this tidbit of information ~ anal sex/anal play has been a sexual act for thousands of years. When properly executed, anal sex/anal play can be quite pleasurable. An anal orgasm is one of the most powerful orgasms’ a woman can achieve.
Let’s leave the fiction for the movies and delve into some FACTS regarding anal sex/anal play so that you may achieve an Anal Orgasm. The anus and rectum are close to the vagina and clitoris. They share many of the same nerves and muscles, including the PC (pelvic floor) muscle. The PC muscle is highly sensitive for many women and stimulating it can trigger a vaginal orgasm and an anal orgasm.
Best Anal Positions for Women:
Cowgirl or Reverse Cowgirl
Butt Lifted Missionary
Backdoor Side by Side
On Bended Knee
During anal penetration, especially for beginners, being in a position of control is vital to the pace and comfortability of the receiver. All of the positions listed above, give a receiver more control when it comes to the speed and depth of penetration. The receiver can direct their partner through touch and verbal communication. The receiver is able to assist with instructions on the speed of penetration and the depth.
In addition for a successful anal encounter…please, Please, PLEASE ~ use the PROPER Lube! …in other words…SPIT AIN’T IT! Leave that to the porn stars…this is real life action and you want your partner to enjoy the experience.
Lubrication is a vital sexual aid when it comes to the comfort level of a receiver. The anal canal does not secret fluid – thus the reason for additional lubrication. A water based lube is ok, but will have to be applied repeatedly often disrupting the anal play session. The best lubrication to utilize is a silicone based lube. Silicone lubes come in a variety of thicknesses. The thicker the silicone lube, the less times you would need to apply it. …take your time and choose what works for you and your partner.
**Mz. JewCee does not recommend lubricants with desensitizing/numbing properties. Desensitizing/numbing lubes can mask pain, which is your bodies way of letting you know something is wrong. Mz. JewCee does recommend the use of a condom(s). **
Note: Check your condom packaging for what lubricants it is compatible with.
Anal Sex/Anal Play can be very pleasurable for many women. Partners need to be in tune with your body and Clear ~ Concise ~ Communication is a factor that cannot be ignored. Before jumping into this Erotic position, have an open and honest conversation about the expectations. Make sure that your partner is knowledgeable about anal play and create a Sensual Safe Space ~ by creating a safe word to discontinue the anal session should any discomfort arise. …take it from Mz. JewCee the time to discuss you and your partners expectations for anal sex/anal play IS NOT while you are participating in the sexual act!
Women that actively participate in anal sex/anal play report that powerful orgasms abound! An anal orgasm along with clitoris stimulation can produce a Blended Orgasm that is quite powerful! The key to anal satisfaction is KNOWLEDGE ~ NOT LEGEND!
Mz. JewCee has spoken with women that did not realize that they have had a Blended Orgasm. The term is a way of showing the multifaceted way that orgasms can be obtained. In other words, your climaxes do not have to be one-dimensional. …so lets get educated… Ladies ~ Class is in Session!
Can you handle two, three or even four times the intensity of a single erogenous zone orgasm? If you have answered YES, then this orgasm is for you! Just imagine being taken to the stratosphere physically, mentally and spiritually. Your body tingling and climaxing in multiple areas all at the same time. Euphoria engulfing your very being. You can feel the adrenaline high taking over your entire body as you succumb to waves of pleasure. Gasping for air as you attempt to feel every caress ~ every kiss, unable to escape your throbbing clit ~ your erect nipples now sensitive to the touch ~ your anal muscles clinching. You feel the fluid release from deep inside of you…
This isn’t an erotic novel or even a porn movie; this is actually happening to you! A Blended Orgasm is a climax that happens when more than one erogenous zone is being stimulated at the same time.
Examples of Blended Orgasms:
G-spot penetration along with clitoral touching is one of the most common Blended Orgasms.
Simultaneously executing vaginal penetration, clitoral stroking, nipple play, and anal stimulation can result in the ultimate Blended Orgasm!
Studies show that increased blood flow due in part to enhanced stimulation to the erogenous zones, contributes to higher arousal levels and ultimately a stronger more intense climax/orgasm. Blended Orgasms can occur during a self-exploratory session as well. Mz. JewCee always recommends self pleasuring yourself so that when you and your partner are together you are able to guide them through a more satisfying Erotic Encounter. Knowing what turns you on is liberating and powerful in so many ways.
If the sky is the limit…shoot for the Ecstasy moon!
Best Position for a Blended Orgasm: The woman on top position (Cowgirl), because your hands and your partner’s hands are free to touch your clitoris, breasts, or butt. You can always add a vibrator into the mix for added stimulation (JewCee Boutique).
Did you know that Dr. Ernst Gräfenberg a male Gynecologist of German decent and Jewish heritage is accredited with discovering the G-Spot as well as inventing the Intrauterine Device (IUD)? In addition there is also evidence to suggest that research on the G-Spot started as early as the 16th Century by Dr. Regnier de Graaf of Holland. …wanted you to know that Mz. JewCee did her research on this topic…
The G-spot is an erogenous area of the vagina that, when stimulated, may lead to strong sexual arousal, powerful orgasms and potential female ejaculation. Although, typically reported to be located 5–8 cm up the front vaginal wall (between the vaginal opening and the urethra) every woman is built differently. The G-Spot may feel ridged, rippled and/or spongy. The area cannot be seen, but can be felt when a finger is inserted into the vagina and pressed forward. Moving the finger in a come-here motion may start to stimulate the G-Spot and the Skene’s Gland that is reported to be located around the urethra area. The importance of the Skene’s Gland is that it collects fluid that can be expelled through the urethra during orgasm.
Note:Research suggests that there are multiple glands containing fluid that are located either within and/or behind the vaginal wall that secrete fluids of various consistencies during sexual stimulation and orgasm/climax.
Pressing this spot gently and stroking it lightly can prime the G-Spot for orgasm. When aroused, similar to the clitoral stimulation, the G-Spot area will fill with blood and become more sensitive to the touch of a finger, penis and/or a vibrator. The sensation of being touched during this arousal period may result in what many women describe as a deeply intense, shaken-to-the-core kind of climax! Each woman’s experience with G-Spot stimulation is unique. Some women have reported stimulation ranging from euphoric to irritating. …so once again – this isn’t the end-all and be-all for every women…
It is important to mention that as tempting as it may be to lump ALL women into one category of pleasure, a woman’s personal pleasure development, sexual experience and sensation levels vary from female to female/woman to woman. This may not be the most productive way to think about sex and pleasure, but it is the honest way to be inclusive to ALL women. When you are able to normalize the down-side of orgasms for a specific area, this will allow you and your partner to explore other erogenous avenues to find what truly inspires you to free yourself orgasmically.
Mz. JewCee understands that for far too long Women have internally beat themselves up because of the ‘allusive’ orgasm. These women have felt the burden of shame or felt that they are not “normal” or not good enough. These women have felt the pressure of trying to make their partner feel competent and ‘all pleasuring’, when in fact their partner could be the one that does not have the knowledge on how to please her.
Once again Mz. JewCee stresses the importance of knowing your body… Remember to: Educate, Explore and Execute. What you discover about your sexual arousal can be enlightening and freeing at the same time. …after all…Sex Should Be Fun!
The clitoris (clit) is composed of millions of nerve endings to enhance sensation when stimulated properly. Clitoris orgasms may be considered the most common way to achieve an orgasm due to the clitoris being so accessible. In addition, the sole purpose of the clitoris is to provide sexual pleasure. However, don’t become too comfortable with this information as every woman who is a clit owner experiences pleasure and stimulation differently. …and you thought this was going to be easy…
The clitoris becomes engorged with blood which allows the clit to grow in size. In addition the clit will go from a semi-placid state to a more rigged state as the blood rushes to that area. Sensitivity is heightened and your partners breathing might change as arousal continues to mount. The proper stimulation can definitely induce an orgasm that is satisfying to the clit owner and gratifying to their partner.
Each clit is unique to it’s owner. Some enjoy a lot of stimulation while others only take a little bit. Some clits enjoy circular motion while others prefer up and down and/or side to side. So how does one know how to correctly stimulate their partner? Simply listen to your partners body and/or words. Some clit owners will direct you verbally, while others will use non-verbal communication such as moans or sighs. Be in tune with your partner so that you will recognize if they touch you or reposition your hand and/or tongue. Feel their body shifting to reposition themselves during a stimulation session. You can also speak softly to ensure that you are pleasing them in a way that will bring them to a climax.
Let me make this very clear ~ some clit owners may not achieve an orgasm by just stimulating their clit. …and some women do not understand their bodies enough to know what an orgasm is… This is where education, exploration and execution come into play. It is essential that a clit owner understands their anatomy and realizes that being pleasured and/or enjoying pleasure from manual stimulation is acceptable.
Another option for those that do not have clitoral orgasms manually would be to incorporate sex toys that are specifically designed for clitoral stimulation. (JewCee Boutique) Although sometimes a bit awkward, talking about your sexual encounter to ensure what was pleasurable and what was not, can go a long way in making your next ‘play time‘ together even more Erotic and Pleasurable!
…and last be not least…implementing Mz. JewCee’s3 C’s – (Clear ~ Concise ~ Communication) to your arsenal of pleasure can only bring you and your partner closer to your goals of Mutual Satisfaction!
It is TRULY unfortunate that a majority of females are not aware of the pleasure that they are capable of having. ..and as for some of their partners, well let’s just say that ‘Clueless’ wasn’t just a hit movie…
The importance of knowing our bodies has been left up to our own devices and lets just be honest, most of us only know the basics. We are not willing to delve deeper into our pleasure chamber to find the treasures that await us. We are content with the bare minimum. Mz. JewCee is not content and she doesn’t believe that you should be either!
Mz. JewCee is here to assist you in DIVING DEEPER to find ALL the Pleasure Treasure you can! Over the next serval weeks, Mz. JewCee will break down the various types of orgasms. Hopefully some of you will be able to either experience these orgasms or at the very least recognize that you are not just simply having 1 type of orgasm. You will discover that you too can have a multitude of pleasurable orgasms!
The more you know how your body works the more pleasure you can explore ~ the more fulfilling your sexual experience will become!