Tag: Oral Pleasure

All Women’s Orgasms Are Not Alike

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when the Big O is a Big No Go

Mz. JewCee works with hundred’s of women during the course of a year and so many of them have the same issue… NO ORGASM! They feel incomplete and discouraged when the Big O is a Big No Go! …well Mz. JewCee is here to save the day…

There are various reasons that women are unable to reach that earth-shattering, toe curling, sheet gripping orgasm. There are times when we are under immense pressure inside and outside the home. Most of you have heard of S&M, but you should be more familiar with S&A ~ Stress & Anxiety. S&A contributes heavily to women not reaching an orgasm. Their S&A can come from internal thoughts, their partners expectations or even their own lack of confidence in their own abilities.

There are several factors that can be attributed to a lack of orgasms for women. Mz. JewCee has listed a few below:

  1. Stress/Anxiety: Whether your stress level is implied or real, the pressure to perform in the bedroom is a contributing factor to lack of orgasms.
  2. Communication: Women not conveying verbally to their partner what excites and/or arouses them.
  3. Rushing: Take time to talk, taste, tease and touch. These are stimuli that will aid in obtaining a more complete climax.

Penetration isn’t the only way to have an orgasm. When you add knowledge to your sexual arsenal, your relationship with yourself and your partner becomes more powerful. The power to improve your Erotic Experience is totally up to you!

Erotic Activities:

  1. Mutual Masturbation: Think of mutual masturbation as a visual way to explore and understand each others erogenous zones.
  2. Nipple Play: Licking, pinching, stroking and suckling on your nipples can bring about an orgasm without any other part of your boding being touched.
  3. Clitoral Stimulation: Rubbing your clit with a finger, tongue or adult toy can achieve a glorious orgasm.
  4. Vocal Stimulation: Words are a powerful tool that can be whispered softly or spoken more harshly – such as a command (Dom/Domme sub/slave relationship).

Mz. JewCee would like to bring to the surface what may not be spoken on as much as it should be; your surroundings. Believe it or not your surroundings play a huge role in your orgasm. A cluttered room, room mates in the next room, in-laws down the hall, children in the house. Does any of this sound familiar? All of these factors can cause you to hold back or not feel comfortable in allowing yourself to fully express your orgasmic side.

The road to the Big O is different for every woman and every experience. Mz. JewCee suggest that you Enjoy the Journey. Take in the sites and sounds of your Erotic Encounter and Revel in the pleasure that is an orgasm! Let go of your stress and make your surroundings conducive to having The Big O!

Enjoy ~ Enlighten ~ Embrace ~ Eroticism

Anal Orgasm

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…and unclench those butt cheeks…

Anal Sex is the one topic that Mz. JewCee knows that a disproportionate amount of women feel uncomfortable talking about. A variety of responses and looks, is always presented when this topic comes up. …so with that said, Mz. JewCee wants everyone that reads this Blog to keep an open mind… …and unclench those butt cheeks…

Anal Sex/Anal Play isn’t every woman’s preferred sexual position of choice. This is due in part to myths, rumors and a lack of knowledge. Some women love it, while others don’t care for it at all. Let Mz. JewCee start with this tidbit of information ~ anal sex/anal play has been a sexual act for thousands of years. When properly executed, anal sex/anal play can be quite pleasurable. An anal orgasm is one of the most powerful orgasms’ a woman can achieve.

Let’s leave the fiction for the movies and delve into some FACTS regarding anal sex/anal play so that you may achieve an Anal Orgasm. The anus and rectum are close to the vagina and clitoris. They share many of the same nerves and muscles, including the PC (pelvic floor) muscle. The PC muscle is highly sensitive for many women and stimulating it can trigger a vaginal orgasm and an anal orgasm.

Best Anal Positions for Women:

  1. Cowgirl or Reverse Cowgirl
  2. Butt Lifted Missionary
  3. Backdoor Side by Side
  4. On Bended Knee

During anal penetration, especially for beginners, being in a position of control is vital to the pace and comfortability of the receiver. All of the positions listed above, give a receiver more control when it comes to the speed and depth of penetration. The receiver can direct their partner through touch and verbal communication. The receiver is able to assist with instructions on the speed of penetration and the depth.

In addition for a successful anal encounter…please, Please, PLEASE ~ use the PROPER Lube! …in other words…SPIT AIN’T IT! Leave that to the porn stars…this is real life action and you want your partner to enjoy the experience.

Lubrication is a vital sexual aid when it comes to the comfort level of a receiver. The anal canal does not secret fluid – thus the reason for additional lubrication. A water based lube is ok, but will have to be applied repeatedly often disrupting the anal play session. The best lubrication to utilize is a silicone based lube. Silicone lubes come in a variety of thicknesses. The thicker the silicone lube, the less times you would need to apply it. …take your time and choose what works for you and your partner.

**Mz. JewCee does not recommend lubricants with desensitizing/numbing properties. Desensitizing/numbing lubes can mask pain, which is your bodies way of letting you know something is wrong. Mz. JewCee does recommend the use of a condom(s). **

Note: Check your condom packaging for what lubricants it is compatible with.

Anal Sex/Anal Play can be very pleasurable for many women. Partners need to be in tune with your body and Clear ~ Concise ~ Communication is a factor that cannot be ignored. Before jumping into this Erotic position, have an open and honest conversation about the expectations. Make sure that your partner is knowledgeable about anal play and create a Sensual Safe Space ~ by creating a safe word to discontinue the anal session should any discomfort arise. …take it from Mz. JewCee the time to discuss you and your partners expectations for anal sex/anal play IS NOT while you are participating in the sexual act!

Women that actively participate in anal sex/anal play report that powerful orgasms abound! An anal orgasm along with clitoris stimulation can produce a Blended Orgasm that is quite powerful! The key to anal satisfaction is KNOWLEDGE ~ NOT LEGEND!

Remember to: Educate, Explore and Execute.

Enjoy ~ Enlighten ~ Embrace ~ Eroticism