Queens… Fix Your Own Crown! (Part 1)

Queens ~ Fix Your Own Crown

Queens…can we talk?  …although every situation is different, it is time that we take an honest look at our Crowns. Are we causing our crowns to tilt, fall to the side or be less valuable? The time to fix Your Crown is now! The crown that you wear should be: Straight, Purposeful & True.

For far too long we have allowed our crowns to tilt to the side where doubt, deception and disloyalty can pull our crowns from our heads. We are no longer the steadfast backbone that is needed in our own lives. Our crowns have slid to the side, backwards and even been taken off our heads by our own hands. Our crowns have been surrendered as we lack the character and courage to hold our reign.

We have allowed ~ (Yes Mz. JewCee said: ALLOWED) – ourselves to settle and become docile in our rolls as Queens. We have fallen into the trap of uselessness and lack-luster appreciation. We entertain the fool instead of The King. We have become complicit in our resolve to achieve our dreams and goals.  Our fear of being successful overshadowed by the fear of failure.

We look to ‘others’ to remedy what we have created. Yet the others that we find solace in are not able to give us sound advice and/or lead us to the promise land, as they too are in no position to afford us the wisdom that we need in order to reclaim our crown. Their advice is tainted by their own set of declining circumstances.

So how do you reclaim your Crown? Here are 3 simple steps to begin your journey…

  1. Straight: Move forward in a direction that is toward the betterment of you
  2. Purposeful: Show your determination and resolve to accomplish your desires and goals
  3. True: Be honest and straight forward with yourself – even when it is difficult and the truth hurts

When you move with purpose and honesty – your gaze is looking forward to the future, your Crown will return to its proper position. When your gaze is in the past, expect your crown to fall backwards or even fall off. In other words, distractions are everywhere and they come in all shapes and sizes!

Take the time to know what you want out for your Life. The Relationship you have with yourself is the most important one. Allow yourself time to heal, grieve and laugh. Set goals that you can achieve…start small and add-on gradually. Have the same expectations for yourself that you expect from others. In other words, do what you say you are going to do for yourself – whether it is to lose weight or save money. Hold YOURSELF accountable. We often hold others to a higher standard. It is time that we hold ourselves to the same standard.

Most Queens have the strength and ingenuity to set and reset their Crowns…some just need a little push or encouragement. All Crowns slip from time to time, but the object is not to let them stay out of place too long. When you feel your crown slipping and you feel that some assistance is warranted, Mz. JewCee recommends Counseling and/or a Mentor. Our family and friends are great resources for some things, but when you are looking to make strides in a different direction and/or better yourself – consider the source.

Queens let us Fix Our Own Crowns so that WE may be the leaders of tomorrow. Let us better ourselves and rejoice in our ability to rule our Queendoms!

Enjoy – Enlighten – Embrace – Eroticism

The Sweetness of Chocolate

Now, savor your sweetness…

Mz. JewCee believes that aphrodisiacs do exist! What is an aphrodisiac you may ask…? The definition that Mz. JewCee feels is within the realm of the Erotic world would be: “An aphrodisiac is a substance that increases sexual desire, sexual pleasure, or sexual behavior.” There are a variety of substances that can be utilized, but today Mz. JewCee would like to discuss ~ CHOCOLATE!

From the spectrum of colors ~ to the smell ~ to the texture ~ to your consumption – Chocolate can arouse your Erotic senses in a way that is sensual as well as tasty. There is actual research that leans towards chocolate being an aphrodisiac.

One of the properties of chocolate is theobromine. Theobromine works on the central nervous system to make one feel stimulated and excited. Another component would be tryptophan, which is a building block of serotonin, a brain chemical involved in sexual arousal. Chocolate contains L-arginine, an amino acid that can be an effective natural sex-enhancer for both women and men. It works by increasing nitric oxide and promoting blood flow to your sexual organs, which increases sensation, satisfaction and desire.

The texture of Chocolate ~ smooth and creamy ~ fluid in motion ~ aroma that engulfs your entire being – are just a few of the ways that chocolate can be described. When you close your eyes and bite into a piece of chocolate, the weight of your day seems to ease away. A sigh slips from your lips as you begin to chew and savor the deliciousness that delights your taste buds.

Although the pleasure of chocolate ‘appears’ to be confined to the sweetness of candy…Mz. JewCee also knows how intriguing and stimulating the Chocolate of our Melanated skin can be…metaphorically speaking of course. WE are intoxicating with our varying shades of ebony hues. Our scent is unique and our taste exquisite. The sweat glistens off of our skin as if kissed by droplets of tears. The thickness of our thighs ~ the brown milk of life that flows from our breasts ~ the strength of our backs to carry the load of our heritage and the fullness of our hips so that we may bear the Kings and Queens of the world.

This post is not just about the sweetness of the candy, but the recognition of our strength ~ the color of our skin! From the contrast of light and dark skinned men and women intertwined in a never ending embrace to the contours of our bodies while standing naked for all to see. WE too are aphrodisiacs’ ~ in every sense of the word!

The smoothness and beauty of our skin. The ability to have so many varieties to choose from…WE are truly “…like a box of chocolate.” Now, savor your sweetness…

All Women’s Orgasms Are Not Alike

when the Big O is a Big No Go

Mz. JewCee works with hundred’s of women during the course of a year and so many of them have the same issue… NO ORGASM! They feel incomplete and discouraged when the Big O is a Big No Go! …well Mz. JewCee is here to save the day…

There are various reasons that women are unable to reach that earth-shattering, toe curling, sheet gripping orgasm. There are times when we are under immense pressure inside and outside the home. Most of you have heard of S&M, but you should be more familiar with S&A ~ Stress & Anxiety. S&A contributes heavily to women not reaching an orgasm. Their S&A can come from internal thoughts, their partners expectations or even their own lack of confidence in their own abilities.

There are several factors that can be attributed to a lack of orgasms for women. Mz. JewCee has listed a few below:

  1. Stress/Anxiety: Whether your stress level is implied or real, the pressure to perform in the bedroom is a contributing factor to lack of orgasms.
  2. Communication: Women not conveying verbally to their partner what excites and/or arouses them.
  3. Rushing: Take time to talk, taste, tease and touch. These are stimuli that will aid in obtaining a more complete climax.

Penetration isn’t the only way to have an orgasm. When you add knowledge to your sexual arsenal, your relationship with yourself and your partner becomes more powerful. The power to improve your Erotic Experience is totally up to you!

Erotic Activities:

  1. Mutual Masturbation: Think of mutual masturbation as a visual way to explore and understand each others erogenous zones.
  2. Nipple Play: Licking, pinching, stroking and suckling on your nipples can bring about an orgasm without any other part of your boding being touched.
  3. Clitoral Stimulation: Rubbing your clit with a finger, tongue or adult toy can achieve a glorious orgasm.
  4. Vocal Stimulation: Words are a powerful tool that can be whispered softly or spoken more harshly – such as a command (Dom/Domme sub/slave relationship).

Mz. JewCee would like to bring to the surface what may not be spoken on as much as it should be; your surroundings. Believe it or not your surroundings play a huge role in your orgasm. A cluttered room, room mates in the next room, in-laws down the hall, children in the house. Does any of this sound familiar? All of these factors can cause you to hold back or not feel comfortable in allowing yourself to fully express your orgasmic side.

The road to the Big O is different for every woman and every experience. Mz. JewCee suggest that you Enjoy the Journey. Take in the sites and sounds of your Erotic Encounter and Revel in the pleasure that is an orgasm! Let go of your stress and make your surroundings conducive to having The Big O!

Enjoy ~ Enlighten ~ Embrace ~ Eroticism

Blended Orgasm

…your climaxes do not have to be one-dimensional.

Mz. JewCee has spoken with women that did not realize that they have had a Blended Orgasm. The term is a way of showing the multifaceted way that orgasms can be obtained. In other words, your climaxes do not have to be one-dimensional. …so lets get educated… Ladies ~ Class is in Session!

Can you handle two, three or even four times the intensity of a single erogenous zone orgasm? If you have answered YES, then this orgasm is for you! Just imagine being taken to the stratosphere physically, mentally and spiritually. Your body tingling and climaxing in multiple areas all at the same time. Euphoria engulfing your very being. You can feel the adrenaline high taking over your entire body as you succumb to waves of pleasure. Gasping for air as you attempt to feel every caress ~ every kiss, unable to escape your throbbing clit ~ your erect nipples now sensitive to the touch ~ your anal muscles clinching. You feel the fluid release from deep inside of you…

This isn’t an erotic novel or even a porn movie; this is actually happening to you! A Blended Orgasm is a climax that happens when more than one erogenous zone is being stimulated at the same time. 

Examples of Blended Orgasms:

  1. G-spot penetration along with clitoral touching is one of the most common Blended Orgasms.
  2. Simultaneously executing vaginal penetration, clitoral stroking, nipple play, and anal stimulation can result in the ultimate Blended Orgasm!

Studies show that increased blood flow due in part to enhanced stimulation to the erogenous zones, contributes to higher arousal levels and ultimately a stronger more intense climax/orgasm. Blended Orgasms can occur during a self-exploratory session as well. Mz. JewCee always recommends self pleasuring yourself so that when you and your partner are together you are able to guide them through a more satisfying Erotic Encounter. Knowing what turns you on is liberating and powerful in so many ways.

If the sky is the limit…shoot for the Ecstasy moon!

Best Position for a Blended Orgasm: The woman on top position (Cowgirl), because your hands and your partner’s hands are free to touch your clitoris, breasts, or butt. You can always add a vibrator into the mix for added stimulation (JewCee Boutique).

Enjoy ~ Enlighten ~ Embrace ~ Eroticism

JewCee Tales Erotic Chat Radio Show – 8/17/20

TOMORROW NIGHT ~ JOIN US… Call In Number: 914-205-5441

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Mz. Jewcee and Honey B da Producer are BACK on the AIR! Join us for an evening of Adult Conversation on the Erotic side of the house!

Each week you will be treated to a variety of topics and Co-Hosts that are in the Adult Entertainment Business! From Entertainers ~ to Business Owners ~ to Event Planners ~ to Erotic Poets/Writers ~ to Relationship Advice – Vanilla & Kink – and sooo much more!

You will also be treated to Educational and Informational Co-Hosts that will assist you through the ever alluring subject of Erotica! NO TOPIC IS OUT OF BOUNDS! We are a NON-Judgmental ZONE.

Tonight’s Episode: The Greater Love Experience

Special Guests: Dee Black & Lady Vee of DV Passion

Ask questions and get REAL ANSWERS right here! …so join us! As we ENJOY – ENLIGHTEN – EMBRACE – EROTICISM! …after all… Sex should be FUN!

Monday, August 17, 2020

Show Time: 6pm (PST) ~ 8pm (CST) ~ 9pm (EST)

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Sexually Evolving

Everyone’s Sexual Journey is their very own ~ with a large dose of “society” added…

The ‘fear’ of not being sexually accepted runs deep within all of us. So deep that some people deny their sexuality and/or hide their true sexuality. In addition, people are changing their sexual identity and appetite, to finally become sexually free.

Have we as the human race evolved sexually or are we still in denial of our sexuality? A majority of sexual acts have existed since the beginning of time. Many have been subjected to negative connotations by individuals who by ignorance, repulsion, religious (misguided) beliefs or any combination of reasons; shame, embarrass, humiliate those individuals that are comfortable with their sexuality.

Inclusiveness is a slow process, especially when you are trying to change the minds of those that will grip the past to their death. I always wonder why do people get so involved in other people’s sex lives?

Why are people so concerned over a woman who’s has consented to being spanked when it comes to the BDSM Lifestyle (VERY different from being beaten or abused – this is non consensual).

There are all kinds of fetishes and Lifestyles that would make the “Holier-than-thou” do more than blush… From Swingers to BDSM to the LBGTQ Community, those that feel they have some sort of ‘moral compass obligation” to right these hedonistic expressions of pleasure, find a way to make their priorities known without one ounce of compassion or tangible evidence that their way is the only way to function sexually.

We have Evolved but, we still have a long way to go. More work needs to be done with regards to Sexual Freedom without judgement. If a sexual act is not for you, there is no need to berate someone else (unless it is an illegal act and/or causes unwanted/unwarranted physical, mental or psychological abuse/damage to a person).

We want people to enjoy their sexuality to the fullest without negative comments and the feeling of shame that is sometimes projected on to them by others. Allowing someone to grow in their sexuality is a healthy way of self expression. Evolving is something we should ALL be doing as the Human Race. Antiquated ideals of days gone by, should be eliminated from our various cultures.

Evolving means: “To develop gradually, especially from a simple to a more complex form.” Human Sexuality has moved far beyond the boundaries of the Missionary Position or only have Coitus to impregnate a woman.

We must Evolve Sexually,  as research has shown, our Sexual Health is extremely important to our well being…

Erotic World Media – Ebony Exotic Experience Write-up

Hello Blog Family!

Please take a moment to ready the FANTASTIC write-up on Erotic World Media that talks about the 2017 Ebony Exotic Experience! Let Mz. Jewcee know what you think…

We are gearing up for 2018’s Event…so this article could not have come at a more timely time!

Mz. Jewcee wants to THANK PERSONALLY Mr. Curtis Isom for attending and taking a chance on a NEW Erotic Event.

Mr. Curtis Isom – Erotic World Media
Curtis Isom