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Mz. JewCee believes that aphrodisiacs do exist! What is an aphrodisiac you may ask…? The definition that Mz. JewCee feels is within the realm of the Erotic world would be: “An aphrodisiac is a substance that increases sexual desire, sexual pleasure, or sexual behavior.” There are a variety of substances that can be utilized, but today Mz. JewCee would like to discuss ~ CHOCOLATE!

From the spectrum of colors ~ to the smell ~ to the texture ~ to your consumption – Chocolate can arouse your Erotic senses in a way that is sensual as well as tasty. There is actual research that leans towards chocolate being an aphrodisiac.

One of the properties of chocolate is theobromine. Theobromine works on the central nervous system to make one feel stimulated and excited. Another component would be tryptophan, which is a building block of serotonin, a brain chemical involved in sexual arousal. Chocolate contains L-arginine, an amino acid that can be an effective natural sex-enhancer for both women and men. It works by increasing nitric oxide and promoting blood flow to your sexual organs, which increases sensation, satisfaction and desire.

The texture of Chocolate ~ smooth and creamy ~ fluid in motion ~ aroma that engulfs your entire being – are just a few of the ways that chocolate can be described. When you close your eyes and bite into a piece of chocolate, the weight of your day seems to ease away. A sigh slips from your lips as you begin to chew and savor the deliciousness that delights your taste buds.

Although the pleasure of chocolate ‘appears’ to be confined to the sweetness of candy…Mz. JewCee also knows how intriguing and stimulating the Chocolate of our Melanated skin can be…metaphorically speaking of course. WE are intoxicating with our varying shades of ebony hues. Our scent is unique and our taste exquisite. The sweat glistens off of our skin as if kissed by droplets of tears. The thickness of our thighs ~ the brown milk of life that flows from our breasts ~ the strength of our backs to carry the load of our heritage and the fullness of our hips so that we may bear the Kings and Queens of the world.

This post is not just about the sweetness of the candy, but the recognition of our strength ~ the color of our skin! From the contrast of light and dark skinned men and women intertwined in a never ending embrace to the contours of our bodies while standing naked for all to see. WE too are aphrodisiacs’ ~ in every sense of the word!

The smoothness and beauty of our skin. The ability to have so many varieties to choose from…WE are truly “…like a box of chocolate.” Now, savor your sweetness…

Anal Sex is the one topic that Mz. JewCee knows that a disproportionate amount of women feel uncomfortable talking about. A variety of responses and looks, is always presented when this topic comes up. …so with that said, Mz. JewCee wants everyone that reads this Blog to keep an open mind… …and unclench those butt cheeks…

Anal Sex/Anal Play isn’t every woman’s preferred sexual position of choice. This is due in part to myths, rumors and a lack of knowledge. Some women love it, while others don’t care for it at all. Let Mz. JewCee start with this tidbit of information ~ anal sex/anal play has been a sexual act for thousands of years. When properly executed, anal sex/anal play can be quite pleasurable. An anal orgasm is one of the most powerful orgasms’ a woman can achieve.

Let’s leave the fiction for the movies and delve into some FACTS regarding anal sex/anal play so that you may achieve an Anal Orgasm. The anus and rectum are close to the vagina and clitoris. They share many of the same nerves and muscles, including the PC (pelvic floor) muscle. The PC muscle is highly sensitive for many women and stimulating it can trigger a vaginal orgasm and an anal orgasm.

Best Anal Positions for Women:

Cowgirl or Reverse Cowgirl
Butt Lifted Missionary
Backdoor Side by Side
On Bended Knee

During anal penetration, especially for beginners, being in a position of control is vital to the pace and comfortability of the receiver. All of the positions listed above, give a receiver more control when it comes to the speed and depth of penetration. The receiver can direct their partner through touch and verbal communication. The receiver is able to assist with instructions on the speed of penetration and the depth.

In addition for a successful anal encounter…please, Please, PLEASE ~ use the PROPER Lube! …in other words…SPIT AIN’T IT! Leave that to the porn stars…this is real life action and you want your partner to enjoy the experience.

Lubrication is a vital sexual aid when it comes to the comfort level of a receiver. The anal canal does not secret fluid – thus the reason for additional lubrication. A water based lube is ok, but will have to be applied repeatedly often disrupting the anal play session. The best lubrication to utilize is a silicone based lube. Silicone lubes come in a variety of thicknesses. The thicker the silicone lube, the less times you would need to apply it. …take your time and choose what works for you and your partner.

**Mz. JewCee does not recommend lubricants with desensitizing/numbing properties. Desensitizing/numbing lubes can mask pain, which is your bodies way of letting you know something is wrong. Mz. JewCee does recommend the use of a condom(s). **

Note: Check your condom packaging for what lubricants it is compatible with.

Anal Sex/Anal Play can be very pleasurable for many women. Partners need to be in tune with your body and Clear ~ Concise ~ Communication is a factor that cannot be ignored. Before jumping into this Erotic position, have an open and honest conversation about the expectations. Make sure that your partner is knowledgeable about anal play and create a Sensual Safe Space ~ by creating a safe word to discontinue the anal session should any discomfort arise. …take it from Mz. JewCee the time to discuss you and your partners expectations for anal sex/anal play IS NOT while you are participating in the sexual act!

Women that actively participate in anal sex/anal play report that powerful orgasms abound! An anal orgasm along with clitoris stimulation can produce a Blended Orgasm that is quite powerful! The key to anal satisfaction is KNOWLEDGE ~ NOT LEGEND!

Remember to: Educate, Explore and Execute.

Enjoy ~ Enlighten ~ Embrace ~ Eroticism

Category: Men

The Sweetness of Chocolate

Anal Orgasm