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Submission is a Gift

In this day in age, sometimes it is difficult for a woman to admit that she enjoys submitting to her partner. Women are so busy being strong and independant, that even the slightest suggestion that they might enjoy catering to and/or being told what to do by their partner could be looked at in a negative way.

Mz. Jewcee believes that submission is inherent. For a lot of women submission is already deep rooted inside of our being. We enjoy pleasing our partner. That does not mean that we cannot run a million dollar business. 

Being submissive is not a sign of weakness. Finding that person that allows you to be both strong and submissive is truly a remarkable moment. …for with that person, you are whole. 

Mz. Jewcee likes to teach ‘strong women’ to submit, not so they feel less of a woman, but so that they can learn to depend on their partner in ways that will be beneficial to their relationship. How you may ask… There are times in a “strong woman’s” life when she needs to relax and release.  …to not think… …to let go of the burdens of the day and allow herself that ‘let down time’. To free herself from all thought and allow her body, mind and soul to be taken to places of pleasure. No more thinking…only doing.

Now this of course does not happen overnight, nor does this type of release happen with every partner your with. Submission is a Gift and should not be given to those that are not worthy ~ nor should submission be accepted by those that do not know how to appreciate it’s significance. A woman that is submissive is TRUSTING her partner with one of the most precious gifts she has and that is her: PAIN & PLEASURE.

Submission goes beyond just giving of one’s heart. Submission has a deeper meaning and a more spiritual manifestation then just the ability to love a person. Submission encompases emotions, desires and erotic drive that may not be found in a “vanilla” relationship. 

Take a Jewcee Journey with Mz. Jewcee as over the next several weeks she discusses what it’s like to be submissive and how being a Switch (submissive/Domme) has changed her life and made her whole!

CLASS IS IN SESSION! Submission 101

EEE Special Featured Guests!

Mz. Jewcee is ECSTATIC to ANNOUNCE The 1st Annual Ebony Exotic Experience’s Special Featured Guests…

This couple is blazing a trail of Erotica all over the world! …and will make their first appearance in the Midwest at the…1st Annual Ebony Exotic Experience!

From Florida to Jamaica to London to Puerto Rico…they are making an Erotic mark for themselves! They are the up and cumming stars in the Adult Entertainment business!

She…is a certified SexPert and contributing product reviewer for California Exotics. She has traveled the country hosting SexEd Workshops and highlighting the more erotic side of sensuality through Fantasy Flight parties. She places a strong emphasis on empowering, enhancing and redefining sexuality for singles and couples. Jasmine’s high-spirited & unconventional approach to intimacy issues has allowed client’s to explore and address many of their deeply rooted barriers, as well as accept and normalize fetishes.

He…is dedicated to delivering individualized relaxation to clients through the use of Erotic Touch. King has spent 12 years in the Adult Entertainment industry, including Fetish Training & Fantasy work and live shows. King is also a certified Sexpert & Blogger for California Exotics.

Award Winning and HIGHLY sought after…this couple is taking Sensual Sexy Erotica to another LEVEL!



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Wicked Wednesdays ~ 1/11/17

Join Mz. Jewcee and some of her Erotic Friends for an evening of Erotic Chat, Education, Games and so much more!

Starting Wednesday, January 11, 2017 ~ Cum Get Wicked!  Doors Open at 7pm – Classes start at 8pm! Grab your girls and join us!  …nothing like getting Wicked on a Wednesday…


Mz JewCee presents Erotica 101 (toys included)
Wicked Wednesdays Chicago!


Here is the Jewcee Schedule for the next 5 Wicked Wednesdays:

January 11th – Jewcee Grab Bag – Introductory Session to the Wonderful World of Sex! Let’s TALK about Women’s Sexual Health. How can we improve it? What are some of your questions about a Healthy Sex Life?

January 18th – Jewcee Boutique Adult Toy & Lingerie Party – Educational & Fun look at a Home Shopping Parties! Jewcee Boutique will be set-up and ready to Enhance the Romance. Play games, learn about the products and win prizes!

January 25th – Submission 101 – The Sensual Side to Submission. Get ready to learn how to be a Strong Woman and submit. Mz. Jewcee is known for eliminating the myths of the BDSM world and showing just how Erotic this world can be! You bring an open mind and Mz. Jewcee will bring the handcuffs…lol! ~ This Session will be filmed by Keith Purvis of The Junction Group for a mini Documentary NOTE: Faces will be blurred out for those ladies that do not wish to be seen, but would like to attend.~

February 1st – Jewcee Roll Play – Learn how Roll Playing can Enhance the Romance. Want to jump start your relationship…this is a Great way to do so. Let’s talk about the different ways that Roll Playing can bring a little spark to your relationship! Two (2) lucky Ladies will be selected to participate in a little Roll Play Experiment. …don’t worry, if selected you will be able to switch back to your normal self after the session…if you want to… You’re going to have to attend to find out what is going to happen!!!

February 8th – A Very Jewcee Intimacy Session – Can your relationship pass the test? Find out with some fun facts and tips to keep your relationship HOT and guess what…SEX is not answer to the question…hhmmm

Too Soon to Submit

I read a very intriguing article called: ‘When you want to be into BDSM but it’s too soon because you’re black.’  …it got me to thinking…

My first thought was…How soon is too soon? I thought that slavery was abolished and WE as a people were free to enjoy life to the fullest? …or are WE??

I thought…these hang ups can’t be real – not in today’s world?? I have successfully been a part of the BDSM world for years and “never” thought twice about slavery — or did I?

I woPresentn’t be called a slave and I’m not calling my Dom “Master”… …yeah I may have appeared to forget all about the oppression of my race, but deep down and by my own actions and deeds – that wasn’t totally true and it took this article to make me realize how I had ‘tricked’ myself into believing that the crimes against my race decades long past – did not have anything to do with me…

This article really got me to thinking – especially because as I speak with women of color and they discover that I’m a submissive in the BDSM world – they too want to learn to be more submissive or find it hard to submit.  Maybe there is a deeper underlying current of events that make it a bit more difficult for Black Women to submit. Maybe it’s the cries of our ancestors after being bound, beaten and raped. Possibly there is a deeper spiritual calling that only speaks to us in the corners of our minds.

To be quite honest, until I read this article I did not fully understand why so many women want to submit but fear what submission will do to them. I get the profoundness of our past and that our past should not be forgotten, our past does not always have to repeat itself in a negative way.

The BIGGEST misconception about a submissive or slave in the BDSM world is that – all the bondage, the flogging, the penetration is being done AGAINST their will. We have ALL SEEN the tears of a spanking – the redness of the paddled area and the slobber of a gag ball… These images may very well be the REASON that people compare these actions to those of slavery.

…but let me point out the difference…

Oppression Slavery – is/was against a persons will.  They did not give consent. There was no pleasure derived from being enslaved.

BDSM is DIFFERENT – in the fact that what happens to a submissive or slave is discussed and agreed upon. There are “safe words” in place to keep everyone on the same page of pleasure.  …and YES, I SAID PLEARUSE… Some people get pleasure from pain. They ENJOY being tied up, feeling helpless, losing control, spanked, gaged and even humiliated if it is done my their Dom/Domme.

There is no wrong or right way to practice BDSM – although some of the more extreme members may say differently… How you and your partner choose to enjoy this realm of the Lifestyle is entirely up to the two of you. I’ve never had to use the word “Master”.  My Doms have allowed me to call them King, My Dom and Mr. …this was one of the sticking points for the author of the article and I can understand why, but there are other words that can be used to show Respect and the hierarchy of your BDSM relationship.

I can empathize with the article, but in my own way I’ve learned to enjoy this Lifestyle and allow it to change me as a person. In this day in age, I ENJOY submitting to a King. The safeness, the closeness, the trust that is involved is unmatched. I will not let the ghosts of the past (as important to me as they are) not allow me to enjoy the pleasures of my future. Submission is a gift that should be treated as such.

To my Black Strong Women ~ WE have evolved. Clinging to the past – even a past as important to our growth as a race, can distract you from a pleasurable future. Certainly NEVER FORGET ~ but learn what time period you are in now. Step into the future boldly. Explore your desires with an open heart and an eagerness to learn. Let go of the “box” that someone else has placed you in. Break the chains of oppression with a wondrous look at freedom – the freedom of submission. Allow yourself the opportunities to enjoy pleasure beyond your wildest dreams. In order for that to happen you must be WILLING to learn all of the pleasures that a BDSM Lifestyle holds for you

Jewcee Tales Erotic Chat – subs/slaves

A lot of Women have asked me in the modern day in age, how can one submit and be independent? What woman would want to be submissive let alone a slave to a man? How does this world work???
Well TONIGHT TUNE IN AND FIND OUT! Join in the Adult Conversation as Mz. Jewcee welcomes a panel of subs/slaves to the airwaves to talk in depth about this topic in REAL TIME with REAL TALK!
Tuesday, February, 23, 2016
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Strong Women and Submitting…

Being able to submit comes from a place of power. A submissive that understands that power can be transferred to another and you are able to keep your dignity, is an indisputable force. Today I focus on the female side of submission in discussing strong women that submit. I can only speak on my own enlightenments and the lessons learned which I hope assists individuals that choose this path.

There are stro722u4sKf3Wng women who enjoy submitting to a man. Now not just any man, but a man that they see as their equal and a man that they know can take charge. The male that they submit to will also see them as their equal and as a woman that is willing to entrust them with the power of control for a short period of time/a long period of time (based on their Dom/sub relationship/status).

Becoming a strong woman does not happen over night. To me a strong woman is cultivated over time through her own life experiences. How she handles her life and herself will determine where her strength comes from. The woman that finds her strength that has been forged deep within her soul will stand stronger against the obstacles that life has to offer. Her strength is represented through a quite confidence that does not need a lot of fan fare, for she knows what she has gone through to get to this point in her life. Armed with this knowledge, the discovery that her power/strength can be relinquished to one that is worthy is undeniably enticing.

As a strong woman in the role of a submissive, my choice is not be at a Doms feet, for I clearly understand the inference of this position within the realm of the Lifestyle. Instead I chose to be by my Doms side for the support that he will need throughout his life. Being a woman of strength and secure in both my worlds POWER & SUBMISSION my submission is given willingly for both servitude and supremacy.

There are still a lot of misconceptions out there about a subs place/position. Individuals that choose to participate as a sub need to be informed. There are different levels of submission and before committing and running around saying you are a sub, know more about what you want from this realm of the Lifestyle.

Being a sub of strength has allowed me to see that many subs are unknowing and are following a blueprint that is unfamiliar to them. This realm of the Lifestyle is not just a role that is played behind closed doors or in the bedroom its not about how freaky a sub can be nor is it a role that is played when it is convenient for the sub. The submissive Lifestyle is a dutiful position that should be adhered to at ALL times! Even for a woman of strength, this Lifestyle is a balancing act, but because she is secure in whom she is and secure in what she is, she will be able to manage both worlds.

I have stated it before and I will state it again there is more then one way to submit. You simply have to find what is comfortable for you.Once you find that comfort level one that you have created through learning who and what you are, NOT the box version that someone else has created, then a TRUE Dom will appreciate and accept you readily.