Variety is the spice of LIFE!
There are times when we get into a rut within our relationship. We find ourselves doing the same old thing because it’s familiar…because it’s safe.
Relationships ~ especially our personal relationships are like plants. They need certain things in order to grow and flourish. Otherwise they wither up and die. When we are with someone for a long period of time, we may forget this aspect of cultivating our relationship. Trying new things keeping our relationship Hot & Fresh.
We tend to get complacent…comfortable. We think and believe that now that we have the person of our dreams, the “work” is over. We forget that truly the WORK has just begun. WE as people change and evolve.
We are forever changing and adapting to our surroundings and the includes our relationships. Just think about it…what you thought in your 20’s is not how you think in your 30’s. Most of us grow as individuals. Circumstances change us. We let go of the old and take on new challenges. …this transformation should also happen within your personal relationship. We must be aware of the fact that our personal relationship will change. …and of course we want it to change for the better.
It is easy to get stuck in a rut if you are not paying attention to your partner. If you are not noticing the changes that are taking place right before your eyes. It is easy to be in denial about your personal relationship if you are the type of person that does not recognize change. Change will happen whether you want it to or not. It is a part of LIFE. You simply must meet change with grace and awareness.
Grace is like water to a plant and awareness is like sunshine. Plants need water and sunshine to thrive…our relationships need grace and awareness to grow as well. …so take the time to cultivate your relationship. Check on it to make sure it’s not in a rut. Clear ~ Concise ~ Communication can be the beginning of an even stronger bond.
Enjoy ~ Enlighten ~ Embrace ~ Eroticism
To My Many Followers:
ME TOO is a way of sharing your personal story of sexual abuse, harassment and/or rape. Mz. Jewcee understands that this is mostly for women, but she believes that the same things happen to young boys and even men… …and Men report it LESS than women do.
The ultimate betrayal is when it’s your immediate family or possibly a neighbor or someone you no longer see and they decide one night that, they aren’t done with you.
Or simply ALL 3…Yes Mz. Jewcee is among hundreds of thousands of women and men who was sexually abused. First at the hands of her brother on top of a pile of dirty clothes in the basement (my “real” same mother and father brother – in their house) ~ then by a neighbor (old white man – who thank God died) ~ then by an ex.
Often Mz. Jewcee has been told to write a book…but who would believe the life that I’ve lived. The pain I’ve gone through. Hard for me to believe that I’ve SURVIVED such horrors in my life and still have the capacity to LOVE.
Hard for me to write this…but if it helps someone to SPEAK UP…then I will bare my sole so that someone else can SOAR WITH THE EAGLES.
If you are reading this and you are in a situation that you know isn’t right…REPORT IT. Don’t hold it in. Don’t let it simmer within you for your entire life. Don’t think for one minute that you are ALONE and NO ONE will understand and/or NO ONE will BELIEVE YOU! SAY SOMETHING! SCREAM IT IF YOU HAVE TO! There are people and places that can help you and put your predator behind bars and/or under the jail…or even a missing person…ijs…
I challenge my readers/blogger/guests to write their own story in the comments below. You are not alone and you will not be judged. Male or Female – express yourself.
This weekend, Mz. Jewcee will be a part of the Unity in our Community Peace Rally! She will bring her knowledge and experience with Eroticism to this Event. She will be speaking on the importance of keeping our relationships TOGETHER!
It is very important that we get back to Loving & Liking each other. …after all…OUR CHILDREN ARE WATCHING! If all our children see is disrespect, anger, unhappiness, broken homes/marriages/relationships…well you get the point – Mz. Jewcee hopes…
Improving our loving homes should be on everyone’s agenda. We simply must do better in order to change the destructive path we are on a collision course with currently. If you are in the Chicago area, this Rally is for you to attend. It is FREE to the public and there is something for ALL ages to enjoy!
Let’s take back our streets and our homes. Let’s be the CHANGE that we are so desperately seeking for our youth. Let’s come together and stand together – instead of being divided. WE have the POWER to make our neighborhoods safer, more welcoming and so much more… WE just need to DECIDE that this is what we want to do as a Community!
Harvey Park District & Sistah Sistah Helping Hands NFP Presents:
UNITY IN OUR COMMUNITY PEACE RALLY!!
Come Join us August 12th 2017 for a day full of fun, prayer , and UNITY. This event will provide opportunities to speak to other parents, students, youth, activists, and professionals passionate about saving our streets, stopping the violence, and creating Change! This is a day for the adults to come let their children play, while networking & opportunities to offer any solutions to pressing …issues!
The event is FREE to the Public! EXPECTING A LARGE TURN-OUT!
VENDORS WANTED: Vendor Fee: $50 Contact Amber at: 708-631-8105 to SECURE your Vendor Space!!
When: August 12th 2017 1PM-7PM
Where: Gloria Taylor Park. 148th St & Broadway Ave. Harvey, IL 60426