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Keep It Simple…

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Do you know the importance of keeping the “fires” burning in your relationship?
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As we become ‘comfortable’ with the person that we have been pursuing, we tend to forget the little things that brought us to this point. We get caught up in everyday life and outside influences
that takes our minds and spirits off of HOME.
 
REMEMBER: The way to keep that spark lit does not have to be ‘expensive’ or ‘large’ ~ it can be the little things like:
 
TRY THIS: A hand written note to remind your partner how much they mean to you. In other words…forget Hallmark – forget texting or emailing. Slip the note in their briefcase or inside their laptop, in a coat pocket or a purse… Keep It Simple and to the point…and watch the reaction.
 
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Grace & Awareness

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Variety is the spice of LIFE!

There are times when we get into a rut within our relationship. We find ourselves doing the same old thing because it’s familiar…because it’s safe.

RomanceRelationships ~ especially our personal relationships are like plants. They need certain things in order to grow and flourish. Otherwise they wither up and die. When we are with someone for a long period of time, we may forget this aspect of cultivating our relationship. Trying new things keeping our relationship Hot & Fresh.

We tend to get complacent…comfortable. We think and believe that now that we have the person of our dreams, the “work” is over. We forget that truly the WORK has just begun. WE as people change and evolve.

We are forever changing and adapting to our surroundings and the includes our relationships. Just think about it…what you thought in your 20’s is not how you think in your 30’s. Most of us grow as individuals. Circumstances change us. We let go of the old and take on new challenges. …this transformation should also happen within your personal relationship. We must be aware of the fact that our personal relationship will change. …and of course we want it to change for the better.

It is easy to get stuck in a rut if you are not paying attention to your partner. If you are not noticing the changes that are taking place right before your eyes. It is easy to be in denial about your personal relationship if you are the type of person that does not recognize change.  Change will happen whether you want it to or not. It is a part of LIFE. You simply must meet change with grace and awareness.

Grace is like water to a plant and awareness is like sunshine. Plants need water and sunshine to thrive…our relationships need grace and awareness to grow as well. …so take the time to cultivate your relationship. Check on it to make sure it’s not in a rut. Clear ~ Concise ~ Communication can be the beginning of an even stronger bond.

Enjoy ~ Enlighten ~ Embrace ~ Eroticism

 

ME TOO…I Challenge My Readers

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To My Many Followers:

ME TOO is a way of sharing your personal story of sexual abuse, harassment and/or rape. Mz. Jewcee understands that this is mostly for women, but she believes that the same things happen to young boys and even men… …and Men report it LESS than women do.

The ultimate betrayal is when it’s your immediate family or possibly a neighbor or someone you no longer see and they decide one night that, they aren’t done with you.
 
Or simply ALL 3…Yes Mz. Jewcee is among hundreds of thousands of women and men who was sexually abused. First at the hands of her brother on top of a pile of dirty clothes in the basement (my “real” same mother and father brother – in their house) ~ then by a neighbor (old white man – who thank God died) ~ then by an ex.
 
Often Mz. Jewcee has been told to write a book…but who would believe the life that I’ve lived. The pain I’ve gone through. Hard for me to believe that I’ve SURVIVED such horrors in my life and still have the capacity to LOVE.
 
Hard for me to write this…but if it helps someone to SPEAK UP…then I will bare my sole so that someone else can SOAR WITH THE EAGLES.
 
If you are reading this and you are in a situation that you know isn’t right…REPORT IT. Don’t hold it in. Don’t let it simmer within you for your entire life. Don’t think for one minute that you are ALONE and NO ONE will understand and/or NO ONE will BELIEVE YOU! SAY SOMETHING! SCREAM IT IF YOU HAVE TO! There are people and places that can help you and put your predator behind bars and/or under the jail…or even a missing person…ijs…
 
I challenge my readers/blogger/guests to write their own story in the comments below. You are not alone and you will not be judged. Male or Female – express yourself.
#METOO
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Sex Education IS IMPORTANT

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Can Mz. Jewcee speak to the Ladies for just a moment…? Are you afraid and/or uneducated to speak with your daughter about SEX? Do you have a girlfriend ~ female co-worker and/or family member that hasn’t got a clue of how to speak to their teenage daughter,niece, cousin, granddaughter…about SEX?
 
Mz. Jewcee has had the privilege to speak to thousands of women over the years. She has loved each and every minute…however – and – but, Mz. Jewcee has noticed that when she gets the opportunity to speak to these ladies as adults, that they are ‘lacking’ in sexual information. …some of that information they should have been taught way before they reached adulthood.
 
The questions are the same and/or similar. Questions that have NEVER been answered or they have obtained mis-information from sources that are not informed properly either.
 
This is a cycle that must cease. It is IMPORTANT that we educate ourselves when it comes to SEX. That we as women know our bodies and more importantly that we pass on this information to our daughters, nieces, cousins, granddaughters, etc.
 
You see…we have GENERATIONS of young girls who are CLUELESS about their bodies. Hormones racing, boys talk’n in their ear about how pretty they are – when they feel unattractive, their bodies changing and minds wondering.
 
Embarrassed and ashamed at the same time to speak on what is happening to them. Confused about all of the changes taking place. Not having the tools/education to combat mis-information.
 
WE MUST DO BETTER! …why you may ask…well come to one of my Adult Home Shopping Parties or one of my Events such as Wicked Wednesday and you will see why it is important to start with our young girls knowing their bodies. In addition to knowing their bodies, they need to know about intimacy, respect and LOVE!
 
…because these young girls grow into women that don’t even know what an orgasm is…they grow into women that think squirting is pee…they grow into women that don’t know how to orally pleasure a man…they grow into women that don’t know what intimacy is…they grow into women that desire pleasure, but are ashamed to enjoy sexual pleasure at it’s fullest….they grow into women that are looking for love in all the wrong places…the grow into women that will tolerate disrespect from their partner…they grow into women that are sexually frustrated…they grow into some of the women Mz. Jewcee has talked to over the years…
 
YES…WE MUST DO BETTER!
 
Please share with Mz. Jewcee if you agree or disagree… It’s TIME… The sexual oppression MUST END. WE MUST be able to talk openly and honestly about SEX.
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Unity In Our Community Peace Rally

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This weekend, Mz. Jewcee will be a part of the Unity in our Community Peace Rally!  She will bring her knowledge and experience with Eroticism to this Event. She will be speaking on the importance of keeping our relationships TOGETHER!

It is very important that we get back to Loving & Liking each other. …after all…OUR CHILDREN ARE WATCHING! If all our children see is disrespect, anger, unhappiness, broken homes/marriages/relationships…well you get the point – Mz. Jewcee hopes…

Improving our loving homes should be on everyone’s agenda. We simply must do better in order to change the destructive path we are on a collision course with currently.  If you are in the Chicago area, this Rally is for you to attend.  It is FREE to the public and there is something for ALL ages to enjoy!

Let’s take back our streets and our homes. Let’s be the CHANGE that we are so desperately seeking for our youth. Let’s come together and stand together – instead of being divided. WE have the POWER to make our neighborhoods safer, more welcoming and so much more… WE just need to DECIDE that this is what we want to do as a Community!

Harvey Park District & Sistah Sistah Helping Hands NFP Presents:

UNITY IN OUR COMMUNITY PEACE RALLY!!
 
Come Join us August 12th 2017 for a day full of fun, prayer , and UNITY. This event will provide opportunities to speak to other parents, students, youth, activists, and professionals passionate about saving our streets, stopping the violence, and creating Change! This is a day for the adults to come let their children play, while networking & opportunities to offer any solutions to pressing …issues!
 
The event is FREE to the Public! EXPECTING A LARGE TURN-OUT!
 
VENDORS WANTED: Vendor Fee: $50 Contact Amber at: 708-631-8105 to SECURE your Vendor Space!!
 
When: August 12th 2017 1PM-7PM
Where: Gloria Taylor Park. 148th St & Broadway Ave. Harvey, IL 60426
Community Peace Rally

Our Personal Relationships…

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Our personal relationship with our partner MUST go beyond just the physical. Sensual mental stimulation can lead to a much more fulfilled physical experience. It is often said that if you stimulate the mind, the rest will follow.

Intimacy as well as the physical aspects of our relationships are taking a HUGE hit due to busy work schedules, family obligations, social schedules and any other outside influences that might arise during the course of a day. This takes away from time with our partner. When you think about a 24 hour time span, the task of keeping your relationship “hot” – “tight” – and – “together” becomes a challenge at the very least – overwhelming at the worse.

We loose spontaneity only to replace it with routine in order to have some semblance of a viable relationship. The reality of our relationship may very well be, we are hanging on by a thread…

Not ALL is lost with the aid of intimacy and mental stimulation – allowing for anticipation to take over. Mundane and predictable will soon release their grip on your relationship allowing for the emergence of impulsiveness. Which can lead to the FIRES of passion being stoked to their fullest capacity!1947871_431393800329483_465057466_n

Impromptu Interview w/Mz. Jewcee

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Mz. Jewcee is learning that she has to…BE READY at all times to talk about her passion! …guess what…she has NO PROBLEM in being ready as you will see below!

What an AWSOME Event and time Mz. Jewcee had at the Nasty No Chaser Event! It is always a pleasure to meet like minded people that are about educating couples and individuals alike regarding sex and how to keep their relationships FRESH!

Akilah and Taj McCord of Bedroom Banter, sat down with Mz. Jewcee during this event and had an impromptu conversation regarding the origins of Mz. Jewcee as well as the upcoming 1st Annual Ebony Exotic Experience.  …take a listen…

Next Nasty No Chaser Event: Saturday, March 11, 2017  7pm – 10pm Check my calendar for location!