Variety is the spice of LIFE!
There are times when we get into a rut within our relationship. We find ourselves doing the same old thing because it’s familiar…because it’s safe.
Relationships ~ especially our personal relationships are like plants. They need certain things in order to grow and flourish. Otherwise they wither up and die. When we are with someone for a long period of time, we may forget this aspect of cultivating our relationship. Trying new things keeping our relationship Hot & Fresh.
We tend to get complacent…comfortable. We think and believe that now that we have the person of our dreams, the “work” is over. We forget that truly the WORK has just begun. WE as people change and evolve.
We are forever changing and adapting to our surroundings and the includes our relationships. Just think about it…what you thought in your 20’s is not how you think in your 30’s. Most of us grow as individuals. Circumstances change us. We let go of the old and take on new challenges. …this transformation should also happen within your personal relationship. We must be aware of the fact that our personal relationship will change. …and of course we want it to change for the better.
It is easy to get stuck in a rut if you are not paying attention to your partner. If you are not noticing the changes that are taking place right before your eyes. It is easy to be in denial about your personal relationship if you are the type of person that does not recognize change. Change will happen whether you want it to or not. It is a part of LIFE. You simply must meet change with grace and awareness.
Grace is like water to a plant and awareness is like sunshine. Plants need water and sunshine to thrive…our relationships need grace and awareness to grow as well. …so take the time to cultivate your relationship. Check on it to make sure it’s not in a rut. Clear ~ Concise ~ Communication can be the beginning of an even stronger bond.
Enjoy ~ Enlighten ~ Embrace ~ Eroticism
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This weekend, Mz. Jewcee will be a part of the Unity in our Community Peace Rally! She will bring her knowledge and experience with Eroticism to this Event. She will be speaking on the importance of keeping our relationships TOGETHER!
It is very important that we get back to Loving & Liking each other. …after all…OUR CHILDREN ARE WATCHING! If all our children see is disrespect, anger, unhappiness, broken homes/marriages/relationships…well you get the point – Mz. Jewcee hopes…
Improving our loving homes should be on everyone’s agenda. We simply must do better in order to change the destructive path we are on a collision course with currently. If you are in the Chicago area, this Rally is for you to attend. It is FREE to the public and there is something for ALL ages to enjoy!
Let’s take back our streets and our homes. Let’s be the CHANGE that we are so desperately seeking for our youth. Let’s come together and stand together – instead of being divided. WE have the POWER to make our neighborhoods safer, more welcoming and so much more… WE just need to DECIDE that this is what we want to do as a Community!
Harvey Park District & Sistah Sistah Helping Hands NFP Presents:
Our personal relationship with our partner MUST go beyond just the physical. Sensual mental stimulation can lead to a much more fulfilled physical experience. It is often said that if you stimulate the mind, the rest will follow.
Intimacy as well as the physical aspects of our relationships are taking a HUGE hit due to busy work schedules, family obligations, social schedules and any other outside influences that might arise during the course of a day. This takes away from time with our partner. When you think about a 24 hour time span, the task of keeping your relationship “hot” – “tight” – and – “together” becomes a challenge at the very least – overwhelming at the worse.
We loose spontaneity only to replace it with routine in order to have some semblance of a viable relationship. The reality of our relationship may very well be, we are hanging on by a thread…
Not ALL is lost with the aid of intimacy and mental stimulation – allowing for anticipation to take over. Mundane and predictable will soon release their grip on your relationship allowing for the emergence of impulsiveness. Which can lead to the FIRES of passion being stoked to their fullest capacity!