Now this just blew Mz. Jewcee’s mind…and she is very tempted to get one of these…hhmmm
Category: Thoughts
Grace & Awareness
Variety is the spice of LIFE!
There are times when we get into a rut within our relationship. We find ourselves doing the same old thing because it’s familiar…because it’s safe.
Relationships ~ especially our personal relationships are like plants. They need certain things in order to grow and flourish. Otherwise they wither up and die. When we are with someone for a long period of time, we may forget this aspect of cultivating our relationship. Trying new things keeping our relationship Hot & Fresh.
We tend to get complacent…comfortable. We think and believe that now that we have the person of our dreams, the “work” is over. We forget that truly the WORK has just begun. WE as people change and evolve.
We are forever changing and adapting to our surroundings and the includes our relationships. Just think about it…what you thought in your 20’s is not how you think in your 30’s. Most of us grow as individuals. Circumstances change us. We let go of the old and take on new challenges. …this transformation should also happen within your personal relationship. We must be aware of the fact that our personal relationship will change. …and of course we want it to change for the better.
It is easy to get stuck in a rut if you are not paying attention to your partner. If you are not noticing the changes that are taking place right before your eyes. It is easy to be in denial about your personal relationship if you are the type of person that does not recognize change. Change will happen whether you want it to or not. It is a part of LIFE. You simply must meet change with grace and awareness.
Grace is like water to a plant and awareness is like sunshine. Plants need water and sunshine to thrive…our relationships need grace and awareness to grow as well. …so take the time to cultivate your relationship. Check on it to make sure it’s not in a rut. Clear ~ Concise ~ Communication can be the beginning of an even stronger bond.
Enjoy ~ Enlighten ~ Embrace ~ Eroticism
ME TOO…I Challenge My Readers
To My Many Followers:
ME TOO is a way of sharing your personal story of sexual abuse, harassment and/or rape. Mz. Jewcee understands that this is mostly for women, but she believes that the same things happen to young boys and even men… …and Men report it LESS than women do.
The ultimate betrayal is when it’s your immediate family or possibly a neighbor or someone you no longer see and they decide one night that, they aren’t done with you.
Or simply ALL 3…Yes Mz. Jewcee is among hundreds of thousands of women and men who was sexually abused. First at the hands of her brother on top of a pile of dirty clothes in the basement (my “real” same mother and father brother – in their house) ~ then by a neighbor (old white man – who thank God died) ~ then by an ex.
Often Mz. Jewcee has been told to write a book…but who would believe the life that I’ve lived. The pain I’ve gone through. Hard for me to believe that I’ve SURVIVED such horrors in my life and still have the capacity to LOVE.
Hard for me to write this…but if it helps someone to SPEAK UP…then I will bare my sole so that someone else can SOAR WITH THE EAGLES.
If you are reading this and you are in a situation that you know isn’t right…REPORT IT. Don’t hold it in. Don’t let it simmer within you for your entire life. Don’t think for one minute that you are ALONE and NO ONE will understand and/or NO ONE will BELIEVE YOU! SAY SOMETHING! SCREAM IT IF YOU HAVE TO! There are people and places that can help you and put your predator behind bars and/or under the jail…or even a missing person…ijs…
I challenge my readers/blogger/guests to write their own story in the comments below. You are not alone and you will not be judged. Male or Female – express yourself.
#METOO
How Many People Do You Have In Your Bedroom…?
Mz. Jewcee has met thousands of people over the years to talk about SEX. However, she is noticing that so many are stuck in a rut when it comes to SEX! Couples especially…
When it comes to sex it appears that the conversation becomes stuck in our throats about what we really want to obtain from the physical act. The lack of talking about sex becomes so overwhelming that we don’t actually reach our full potential of pleasure.
Mz. Jewcee took some time to think about why this happening. Why are individuals and couples not as fulfilled in their sexual relationship as they should be? …and it dawned on her…
WE HAVE TOO MANY PEOPLE IN OUR BEDROOM!
Now this isn’t to say that the ‘people’ are “physically” in the room while you and your partner are having sex…but their ideals are…. We tend to take our friends, family, church folk, co-workers and even strangers – opinions of sex to the bedroom with us…causing a lot of OVER-CROWDING when it comes time to actually have sex.
When you host as many adult toy party’s as Mz. Jewcee has, you begin to see a trend, especially among women in the room. …and what is really sad to Mz. Jewcee is, these women believe that they have thought of all this negativity towards sex all on their own. When in fact, they are simply living out what they have heard from ‘others’. Unwilling or too scared to attempt to try something that has been put on the TABOO list – by ‘others’.
From not sucking dick to NO ANAL sex to forget about adding another female to the bedroom from time to time…. Yeah…NONE OF THIS is going down.
Mz. Jewcee is attempting to EMPOWER women with KNOWLEDGE and doing certain sexual acts so that they enjoy what they are stepping in to. Mz. Jewcee is breaking down the walls of an oppressed sex life with the ladies…showing them that they are living out someones elses perception of the ‘perfect sex life’ and thus the reason they are not fulfilled – nor are they fulfilling their partner.
Walking away from the familiar is never easy, but in the long run it is very much worth it. Freeing yourself sexually from the chains that bind your creativity in the bedroom can only liberate you and assist your personal relationship with your partner. This bond can be one of the strongest bonds you can encounter.
…so the next time you say NO to something that your partner might be interested in trying. Stop and think for a moment… Is this YOU saying no ~ or the “other people” that you have allowed to influence your sexual happiness saying no. …believe me when I say…they probably are not speaking from a place of actual knowledge and are just speaking from a place of ignorance (for lack of a better term).
In closing… Enjoy ~Enlighten ~ Embrace ~ Eroticism!
A Series About Women Living Their Best Lives
Mz. Jewcee is THRILLED to be a part of this documentary!
You see…it took a minute for Mz. Jewcee to evolve into the Erotic persona she is today. Her life has taken an erotic change for the better. Gone are the ‘vanilla’ chains that bound her to a world of sexual frustration.
Learning and knowing
who you are sexually takes time. …it also takes courage to be different from those around you. Being sexually free is a way of life for Mz. Jewcee and she enjoys her freedom to explore!
Educating those that are still trapped in a “sexual box” that someone else built for them, is my PASSION! Eroticism and all of its wonders are here to be shared. …and share Mz. Jewcee will do!
I’ve attached the trailer for: A Series About Women Living Their Best Lives
…this is just the beginning for the Jewcee Journey…
Enjoy!
Erotic Ministry
Mz. Jewcee has a ‘calling’ ~ she is exposing all those that which to follow her Erotic Ministry to a deeper understanding of Eroticism ~ to what makes a personal relationship work. …and not just with another person, but with yourself as well.
You see, too often we “want” to be involved in a relationship, but have no idea what kind of a relationship we ‘really’ want. Sure…we know what we have read in books/internet and see in the movies and on TV. All of that “LOOKS” great, but is it realistic? Is it what we REALLY want or just how we have been programmed to think?
WE go into relationships without having a strong relationship with ourselves. We are CLUELESS how to please ourselves, except possibly on the surface, but yet we expect our partner to KNOW ALL about how to make us happy and keep us satisfied for a lifetime.
Many people don’t know what they want out of a relationship except what Mz. Jewcee calls the ‘learned behavior’. …follow with me for just a moment…
Here is an example of what Mz. Jewcee means: Back in the day, the house with the white picket fence, the dog named Spot, the 2.2 children and a husband is all a girl needed ~ it was all the rage of what a relationship should be, along with the ‘benefits’ of obtaining that kind of relationship.
Reality is: The husband worked so much that he was hardly home to enjoy the ‘benefits’ of his hard work. The wife became disgruntled with only doing house chores as the children grow up and go off to school. There were a lot of unhappy people staying together in a relationship that was built on what “others” thought would be the IDEAL type of life to live. …their unhappiness hidden in order not to disappoint. …their life mundane and calculated. …their life a “learned behavior”
We’ve come a long way ~ yet we haven’t come far enough. We still have too many people living and loving by the standards of someone else. We have become more open, but some have developed a recklessness with their openness. With the aid of all the different types of media available there is more information then ever on sexuality, relationship building and being satisfied in your relationship. …there is a lot of misinformation as well.
Mz. Jewcee urges everyone to take a look at your personal relationships and find what works for you and yours. If that means leaving the box that someone else created in order to Enhance the Romance and make your relationship stronger ~ then so be it.
We ALL have the power to make change. We ALL deserve to be happy and satisfied in our relationships – not just getting by. Take the time to explore and enjoy what can be. Make your relationship work because you want to ~ not because your supposed to. …you never know what you will discover when you begin to build your own Erotic Empire!
Sex Education IS IMPORTANT
Can Mz. Jewcee speak to the Ladies for just a moment…? Are you afraid and/or uneducated to speak with your daughter about SEX? Do you have a girlfriend ~ female co-worker and/or family member that hasn’t got a clue of how to speak to their teenage daughter,niece, cousin, granddaughter…about SEX?
Mz. Jewcee has had the privilege to speak to thousands of women over the years. She has loved each and every minute…however – and – but, Mz. Jewcee has noticed that when she gets the opportunity to speak to these ladies as adults, that they are ‘lacking’ in sexual information. …some of that information they should have been taught way before they reached adulthood.
The questions are the same and/or similar. Questions that have NEVER been answered or they have obtained mis-information from sources that are not informed properly either.
This is a cycle that must cease. It is IMPORTANT that we educate ourselves when it comes to SEX. That we as women know our bodies and more importantly that we pass on this information to our daughters, nieces, cousins, granddaughters, etc.
You see…we have GENERATIONS of young girls who are CLUELESS about their bodies. Hormones racing, boys talk’n in their ear about how pretty they are – when they feel unattractive, their bodies changing and minds wondering.
Embarrassed and ashamed at the same time to speak on what is happening to them. Confused about all of the changes taking place. Not having the tools/education to combat mis-information.
WE MUST DO BETTER! …why you may ask…well come to one of my Adult Home Shopping Parties or one of my Events such as Wicked Wednesday and you will see why it is important to start with our young girls knowing their bodies. In addition to knowing their bodies, they need to know about intimacy, respect and LOVE!
…because these young girls grow into women that don’t even know what an orgasm is…they grow into women that think squirting is pee…they grow into women that don’t know how to orally pleasure a man…they grow into women that don’t know what intimacy is…they grow into women that desire pleasure, but are ashamed to enjoy sexual pleasure at it’s fullest….they grow into women that are looking for love in all the wrong places…the grow into women that will tolerate disrespect from their partner…they grow into women that are sexually frustrated…they grow into some of the women Mz. Jewcee has talked to over the years…
YES…WE MUST DO BETTER!
Please share with Mz. Jewcee if you agree or disagree… It’s TIME… The sexual oppression MUST END. WE MUST be able to talk openly and honestly about SEX.
Unity In Our Community Peace Rally
This weekend, Mz. Jewcee will be a part of the Unity in our Community Peace Rally! She will bring her knowledge and experience with Eroticism to this Event. She will be speaking on the importance of keeping our relationships TOGETHER!
It is very important that we get back to Loving & Liking each other. …after all…OUR CHILDREN ARE WATCHING! If all our children see is disrespect, anger, unhappiness, broken homes/marriages/relationships…well you get the point – Mz. Jewcee hopes…
Improving our loving homes should be on everyone’s agenda. We simply must do better in order to change the destructive path we are on a collision course with currently. If you are in the Chicago area, this Rally is for you to attend. It is FREE to the public and there is something for ALL ages to enjoy!
Let’s take back our streets and our homes. Let’s be the CHANGE that we are so desperately seeking for our youth. Let’s come together and stand together – instead of being divided. WE have the POWER to make our neighborhoods safer, more welcoming and so much more… WE just need to DECIDE that this is what we want to do as a Community!
Harvey Park District & Sistah Sistah Helping Hands NFP Presents:
UNITY IN OUR COMMUNITY PEACE RALLY!!
Come Join us August 12th 2017 for a day full of fun, prayer , and UNITY. This event will provide opportunities to speak to other parents, students, youth, activists, and professionals passionate about saving our streets, stopping the violence, and creating Change! This is a day for the adults to come let their children play, while networking & opportunities to offer any solutions to pressing …issues!
The event is FREE to the Public! EXPECTING A LARGE TURN-OUT!
VENDORS WANTED: Vendor Fee: $50 Contact Amber at: 708-631-8105 to SECURE your Vendor Space!!
When: August 12th 2017 1PM-7PM
Where: Gloria Taylor Park. 148th St & Broadway Ave. Harvey, IL 60426
Our Personal Relationships…
Our personal relationship with our partner MUST go beyond just the physical. Sensual mental stimulation can lead to a much more fulfilled physical experience. It is often said that if you stimulate the mind, the rest will follow.
Intimacy as well as the physical aspects of our relationships are taking a HUGE hit due to busy work schedules, family obligations, social schedules and any other outside influences that might arise during the course of a day. This takes away from time with our partner. When you think about a 24 hour time span, the task of keeping your relationship “hot” – “tight” – and – “together” becomes a challenge at the very least – overwhelming at the worse.
We loose spontaneity only to replace it with routine in order to have some semblance of a viable relationship. The reality of our relationship may very well be, we are hanging on by a thread…
Not ALL is lost with the aid of intimacy and mental stimulation – allowing for anticipation to take over. Mundane and predictable will soon release their grip on your relationship allowing for the emergence of impulsiveness. Which can lead to the FIRES of passion being stoked to their fullest capacity!
KEEP IT 100 RADIO SHOW BROADCAST 7-23-17
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