You see, too often we “want” to be involved in a relationship, but have no idea what kind of a relationship we ‘really’ want. Sure…we know what we have read in books/internet and see in the movies and on TV.  All of that “LOOKS” great, but is it realistic? Is it what we REALLY want or just how we have been programmed to think?

WE go into relationships without having a strong relationship with ourselves. We are CLUELESS how to please ourselves, except possibly on the surface, but yet we expect our partner to KNOW ALL about how to make us happy and keep us satisfied for a lifetime.

Many people don’t know what they want out of a relationship except what Mz. Jewcee calls the ‘learned behavior’.  …follow with me for just a moment…

Here is an example of what Mz. Jewcee means: Back in the day, the house with the white picket fence, the dog named Spot, the 2.2 children and a husband is all a girl needed ~ it was all the rage of what a relationship should be, along with the ‘benefits’ of obtaining that kind of relationship.

Reality is: The husband worked so much that he was hardly home to enjoy the ‘benefits’ of his hard work. The wife became disgruntled with only doing house chores as the children grow up and go off to school. There were a lot of unhappy people staying together in a relationship that was built on what “others” thought would be the IDEAL type of life to live. …their unhappiness hidden in order not to disappoint. …their life mundane and calculated.  …their life a “learned behavior”

We’ve come a long way ~ yet we haven’t come far enough. We still have too many people living and loving by the standards of someone else. We have become more open, but some have developed a recklessness with their openness. With the aid of all the different types of media available there is more information then ever on sexuality, relationship building and being satisfied in your relationship. …there is a lot of misinformation as well.

Mz. Jewcee urges everyone to take a look at your personal relationships and find what works for you and yours. If that means leaving the box that someone else created in order to Enhance the Romance and make your relationship stronger ~ then so be it.

We ALL have the power to make change. We ALL deserve to be happy and satisfied in our relationships – not just getting by. Take the time to explore and enjoy what can be. Make your relationship work because you want to ~ not because your supposed to. …you never know what you will discover when you begin to build your own Erotic Empire!