Our personal relationship with our partner MUST go beyond just the physical. Sensual mental stimulation can lead to a much more fulfilled physical experience. It is often said that if you stimulate the mind, the rest will follow.
Intimacy as well as the physical aspects of our relationships are taking a HUGE hit due to busy work schedules, family obligations, social schedules and any other outside influences that might arise during the course of a day. This takes away from time with our partner. When you think about a 24 hour time span, the task of keeping your relationship “hot” – “tight” – and – “together” becomes a challenge at the very least – overwhelming at the worse.
We loose spontaneity only to replace it with routine in order to have some semblance of a viable relationship. The reality of our relationship may very well be, we are hanging on by a thread…
Not ALL is lost with the aid of intimacy and mental stimulation – allowing for anticipation to take over. Mundane and predictable will soon release their grip on your relationship allowing for the emergence of impulsiveness. Which can lead to the FIRES of passion being stoked to their fullest capacity!