Grace & Awareness

Variety is the spice of LIFE!

There are times when we get into a rut within our relationship. We find ourselves doing the same old thing because it’s familiar…because it’s safe.

RomanceRelationships ~ especially our personal relationships are like plants. They need certain things in order to grow and flourish. Otherwise they wither up and die. When we are with someone for a long period of time, we may forget this aspect of cultivating our relationship. Trying new things keeping our relationship Hot & Fresh.

We tend to get complacent…comfortable. We think and believe that now that we have the person of our dreams, the “work” is over. We forget that truly the WORK has just begun. WE as people change and evolve.

We are forever changing and adapting to our surroundings and the includes our relationships. Just think about it…what you thought in your 20’s is not how you think in your 30’s. Most of us grow as individuals. Circumstances change us. We let go of the old and take on new challenges. …this transformation should also happen within your personal relationship. We must be aware of the fact that our personal relationship will change. …and of course we want it to change for the better.

It is easy to get stuck in a rut if you are not paying attention to your partner. If you are not noticing the changes that are taking place right before your eyes. It is easy to be in denial about your personal relationship if you are the type of person that does not recognize change.  Change will happen whether you want it to or not. It is a part of LIFE. You simply must meet change with grace and awareness.

Grace is like water to a plant and awareness is like sunshine. Plants need water and sunshine to thrive…our relationships need grace and awareness to grow as well. …so take the time to cultivate your relationship. Check on it to make sure it’s not in a rut. Clear ~ Concise ~ Communication can be the beginning of an even stronger bond.

Enjoy ~ Enlighten ~ Embrace ~ Eroticism

 

How Many People Do You Have In Your Bedroom…?

Mz. Jewcee has met thousands of people over the years to talk about SEX. However, she is noticing that so many are stuck in a rut when it comes to SEX! Couples especially…

When it comes to sex it appears that the conversation becomes stuck in our throats about what we really want to obtain from the physical act. The lack of talking about sex becomes so overwhelming that we don’t actually reach our full potential of pleasure.

Mz. Jewcee took some time to think about why this happening. Why are individuals and couples not as fulfilled in their sexual relationship as they should be? …and it dawned on her…

WE HAVE TOO MANY PEOPLE IN OUR BEDROOM!

Now this isn’t to say that the ‘people’ are “physically” in the room while you and your partner are having sex…but their ideals are…. We tend to take our friends, family, church folk, co-workers and even strangers – opinions of sex to the bedroom with us…causing a lot of OVER-CROWDING when it comes time to actually have sex.

When you host as many adult toy party’s as Mz. Jewcee has, you begin to see a trend, especially among women in the room. …and what is really sad to Mz. Jewcee is, these women believe that they have thought of all this negativity towards sex all on their own. When in fact, they are simply living out what they have heard from ‘others’. Unwilling or too scared to attempt to try something that has been put on the TABOO list – by ‘others’.

From not sucking dick to NO ANAL sex to forget about adding another female to the bedroom from time to time…. Yeah…NONE OF THIS is going down.

Mz. Jewcee is attempting to EMPOWER women with KNOWLEDGE and doing certain sexual acts so that they enjoy what they are stepping in to. Mz. Jewcee is breaking down the walls of an oppressed sex life with the ladies…showing them that they are living out someones elses perception of the ‘perfect sex life’ and thus the reason they are not fulfilled – nor are they fulfilling their partner.

Walking away from the familiar is never easy, but in the long run it is very much worth it. Freeing yourself sexually from the chains that bind your creativity in the bedroom can only liberate you and assist your personal relationship with your partner. This bond can be one of the strongest bonds you can encounter.

…so the next time you say NO to something that your partner might be interested in trying. Stop and think for a moment… Is this YOU saying no ~ or the “other people” that you have allowed to influence your sexual happiness saying no.  …believe me when I say…they probably are not speaking from a place of actual knowledge and are just speaking from a place of ignorance (for lack of a better term).

In closing… Enjoy ~Enlighten ~ Embrace ~ Eroticism!

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Sex Education IS IMPORTANT

Can Mz. Jewcee speak to the Ladies for just a moment…? Are you afraid and/or uneducated to speak with your daughter about SEX? Do you have a girlfriend ~ female co-worker and/or family member that hasn’t got a clue of how to speak to their teenage daughter,niece, cousin, granddaughter…about SEX?
 
Mz. Jewcee has had the privilege to speak to thousands of women over the years. She has loved each and every minute…however – and – but, Mz. Jewcee has noticed that when she gets the opportunity to speak to these ladies as adults, that they are ‘lacking’ in sexual information. …some of that information they should have been taught way before they reached adulthood.
 
The questions are the same and/or similar. Questions that have NEVER been answered or they have obtained mis-information from sources that are not informed properly either.
 
This is a cycle that must cease. It is IMPORTANT that we educate ourselves when it comes to SEX. That we as women know our bodies and more importantly that we pass on this information to our daughters, nieces, cousins, granddaughters, etc.
 
You see…we have GENERATIONS of young girls who are CLUELESS about their bodies. Hormones racing, boys talk’n in their ear about how pretty they are – when they feel unattractive, their bodies changing and minds wondering.
 
Embarrassed and ashamed at the same time to speak on what is happening to them. Confused about all of the changes taking place. Not having the tools/education to combat mis-information.
 
WE MUST DO BETTER! …why you may ask…well come to one of my Adult Home Shopping Parties or one of my Events such as Wicked Wednesday and you will see why it is important to start with our young girls knowing their bodies. In addition to knowing their bodies, they need to know about intimacy, respect and LOVE!
 
…because these young girls grow into women that don’t even know what an orgasm is…they grow into women that think squirting is pee…they grow into women that don’t know how to orally pleasure a man…they grow into women that don’t know what intimacy is…they grow into women that desire pleasure, but are ashamed to enjoy sexual pleasure at it’s fullest….they grow into women that are looking for love in all the wrong places…the grow into women that will tolerate disrespect from their partner…they grow into women that are sexually frustrated…they grow into some of the women Mz. Jewcee has talked to over the years…
 
YES…WE MUST DO BETTER!
 
Please share with Mz. Jewcee if you agree or disagree… It’s TIME… The sexual oppression MUST END. WE MUST be able to talk openly and honestly about SEX.
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Unity In Our Community Peace Rally

This weekend, Mz. Jewcee will be a part of the Unity in our Community Peace Rally!  She will bring her knowledge and experience with Eroticism to this Event. She will be speaking on the importance of keeping our relationships TOGETHER!

It is very important that we get back to Loving & Liking each other. …after all…OUR CHILDREN ARE WATCHING! If all our children see is disrespect, anger, unhappiness, broken homes/marriages/relationships…well you get the point – Mz. Jewcee hopes…

Improving our loving homes should be on everyone’s agenda. We simply must do better in order to change the destructive path we are on a collision course with currently.  If you are in the Chicago area, this Rally is for you to attend.  It is FREE to the public and there is something for ALL ages to enjoy!

Let’s take back our streets and our homes. Let’s be the CHANGE that we are so desperately seeking for our youth. Let’s come together and stand together – instead of being divided. WE have the POWER to make our neighborhoods safer, more welcoming and so much more… WE just need to DECIDE that this is what we want to do as a Community!

Harvey Park District & Sistah Sistah Helping Hands NFP Presents:

UNITY IN OUR COMMUNITY PEACE RALLY!!
 
Come Join us August 12th 2017 for a day full of fun, prayer , and UNITY. This event will provide opportunities to speak to other parents, students, youth, activists, and professionals passionate about saving our streets, stopping the violence, and creating Change! This is a day for the adults to come let their children play, while networking & opportunities to offer any solutions to pressing …issues!
 
The event is FREE to the Public! EXPECTING A LARGE TURN-OUT!
 
VENDORS WANTED: Vendor Fee: $50 Contact Amber at: 708-631-8105 to SECURE your Vendor Space!!
 
When: August 12th 2017 1PM-7PM
Where: Gloria Taylor Park. 148th St & Broadway Ave. Harvey, IL 60426
Community Peace Rally

Our Personal Relationships…

Our personal relationship with our partner MUST go beyond just the physical. Sensual mental stimulation can lead to a much more fulfilled physical experience. It is often said that if you stimulate the mind, the rest will follow.

Intimacy as well as the physical aspects of our relationships are taking a HUGE hit due to busy work schedules, family obligations, social schedules and any other outside influences that might arise during the course of a day. This takes away from time with our partner. When you think about a 24 hour time span, the task of keeping your relationship “hot” – “tight” – and – “together” becomes a challenge at the very least – overwhelming at the worse.

We loose spontaneity only to replace it with routine in order to have some semblance of a viable relationship. The reality of our relationship may very well be, we are hanging on by a thread…

Not ALL is lost with the aid of intimacy and mental stimulation – allowing for anticipation to take over. Mundane and predictable will soon release their grip on your relationship allowing for the emergence of impulsiveness. Which can lead to the FIRES of passion being stoked to their fullest capacity!1947871_431393800329483_465057466_n

The Art of Sacred Sex Retreat

Mz. Jewcee is HONORED beyond belief to be a Presenter at ~ October 6 – 8, 2017. This 2 day Event will be packed full of celestial, insightful, and spiritual interaction.

Are you ready to transform your relationship into an intimate, exciting and passion-filled experience?

Are you read911cc0462dfbef2543ebda2c16917836--alex-gray-twin-flamesy to learn new techniques and tools to take your life or relationship to the next level?


If you are ready for a more deeper, profound, passionate connection with yourself and your partner;

Join us for an amazing transforming loving weekend at Eagle’s Nest Retreat House in Galena, IL to learn The Art of Sacred Sex.

To Register and obtain more information about this Event, I have provided the link: https://www.in-2-me-i-see.com/

Don’t miss this OPPORTUNITY to Enhance the Romance and build a stronger relationship!

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Jewcee Boutique Home Shopping Parties!

Mz. Jewcee is growing her business in public speaking…but this is where it all started! That’s right…Adult Toy Home Shopping Parties!  Mz. Jewcee LOVES talking about SEX and it all started 30 years ago when she started selling Lingerie for Undercover Wear!

Over the years she has expanded her Brand to include Adult Toys and Sexual Education. …but her first Erotic Love will always be home shopping parties! She loves the interaction and the looks on peoples faces as she presents new toys for them to incorporate in their bedroom!

Mz. Jewcee is a CONSTANT learner when it comes to the Adult Toy industry and she LOVES sharing what she learns with each and everyone of you.  …so the next time you want to have a Girls Night In ~ Couples Get Together ~ Adult Toy/Novelty & Lingerie Party ~ call on Mz. Jewcee of Jewcee Boutique and let her and her friendly staff bring Erotica to YOU!

WE ARE A NON-JUDGMENTAL EROTIC BUSINESS! ALL ARE WELCUM TO BOOK US!

15781683_1740926962890655_3474508578298491816_n Filling dates for July & August:
 
Open Dates July: 7th, 8th, 14th, 15th, 21st, 22nd, 28th & 29th.
 
Open Dates August: 4th, 11th, 18th, 19th, 25th & 26th
 
BOOK YOUR HOME SHOPPING PARTY TODAY!
 
Contact Info: Email: jewceetales@gmail.com Ph: 872-221-0430

19 Aphrodisiac Foods Proven to Spark Romance

Nothing quite like putting 2 of Mz. Jewcee’s FAVORITES things together…  FOOD & SEX!

When is the last time you had some chocolate poured on you? …some whipped cream licked off of you? …wrapped his dick in a fruit roll-up and sucked away? ….these are just a few ways to combine food and sex.  But let’s take it a step further. Let’s find the foods that actually benefit Enhancing the Romance.  …for the sake of argument we are going to start with the 19 Mz. Jewcee found…and you can add your own as you go!

  1. Oysters – One of the most notorious aphrodisiacs, oysters are high in zinc and have a reputation for being great for love and fertility.Researchers recently found that oysters contain amino acids that trigger production of sex hormones.
  2. Chili Peppers – This invigorating spice has an exotic reputation and a bright red color, which could be why it’s considered an aphrodisiac and a symbol of love. But there’s scientific backing, too. Chili peppers stimulate endorphins (the brain’s feel good chemicals), speed up heart rate and make you sweat, which all mimic how you feel when you’re aroused,
  3. Avocado – It could be the sensuous pear shape, or therich flavor of the fruit that gave avocado its aphrodisiac reputation as far back as the Aztecs. And while the jury is still out on just how lust-ful avocados are, Barbara Klein, professor of food and nutrition at the University of Illinois, told the California Avocado Commission that the fruit’s high levels of vitamin E could help keep the spark alive because of its role in maintaining “youthful vigor and energy level.”
  4. Chocolate – Chocolate is sensual, from its taste to its aroma, but dark chocolate has also been shown tocause a spike in dopamine, which induces feelings of pleasure.
  5. Banana’s – With its phallic shape, bananas alreadylook like a feel-good food; but they also contain bromelain, an enzyme which  Oz says triggers testosterone production, and the fruit’s potassium and vitamin B elevate energy levels.
  6. Honey – Honey is made through pollination and is a symbol of procreation. Birds and bees ring a bell? In fact, the word ‘honeymoon’ got its name from mead, an alcoholic beverage made from honey given to the happy new bride and groom. It also containsboron, which helps regulate estrogen and testosterone levels and provides a natural energy boost.
  7. Coffee – The caffeine in coffee is a stimulant that ups the heart rate and makes the blood flow.One study conducted with female rats and published in the journal Pharmacology, Biochemistry, and Behavior suggested that coffee could put women in the mood for sex.
  8. Watermelon – According tocom, this ‘lycopene king’ may have a Viagra-like effect on the body, as it relaxes blood vessels and improves circulation.
  9. Pine Nuts – High in energizing zinc, which has beenlinked to a healthy sex drive, pine nuts are also considered aphrodisiacs because of the effort required to procure these oily gems from pine cones. Make a pesto with pine nuts, basil and olive oil, which The Doctors say also helps performance down there.
  10. Arugula – According to gourmetsleuth.com, this peppery plant has been documented as an aphrodisiac since the first century A.D. The minerals and antioxidants found in dark leafy greens like arugula have also been proven to block environmental contaminates that could negatively harm libido,says Walt Larimore MD, a medical journalist, author, and physician.
  11. Olive Oil – Packed with antioxidants, olives and their oil have been used for centuries for health. The Greeks believed they made men more virile as well. Olive oil is a good source of monounsaturated and polyunsaturated fats, which are critical for a healthy heart, blood flow and hormone production,says Beverly Whipple, of the World Association of Sexology.
  12. Figs – Used by Adam and Eve in the Garden of Eden, the fig paradoxically symbolizes both sexuality (the ripe fruit with seeds representing fertility) and modesty (the fig leaf). They are full of potassium and are an antioxidant powerhouse.
  13. Strawberries – Feed them to each other for a healthy, vitamin C-packed dessert thathelps keep blood flowing to all regions of the body.
  14. Artichokes – This veggie’s aphrodisiac reputation comesmostly from legend and the intimacy of eating it with another, pulling off the leaves to reach the center. But it is packed with vitamins and antioxidants, which are critical to proper body function and blood flow.
  15. Chai Tea – Skip the coffee after dinner and reach for a cup of chai tea. The typical spices in this brew-ginger, cloves and cinnamon-willget the blood flowing but the caffeine effect is less so you’ll still be able to drift off to sleep after your meal.
  16. Pomegranate – These bright gems enclosed in a thick rose husk are filled with antioxidants whichsupport blood flow. One study by The Male Clinic in California found that pomegranate juice had a positive effect on erectile dysfunction.
  17. Cherries – This superfruit is packed with feel-good vitamins (A, C, and E), potassium, magnesium, folate, iron, and more. It also has melatonin, an antioxidant to help regulate your heart.
  18. Pumpkin SeedsPumpkin seedsare high in magnesium–156 mg in just an ounce! According to Dr. Oz, magnesium helps raise testosterone levels by making sure more enters the blood stream.
  19. Whipped Cream – Decadent yet light as air, it just isn’t dessert without this rich topping. While there’s no evidence that whipped cream will boost libido, it’s sure to put you in the mood.156f2b0b46978cfcf07449ae5e723402