Author: Mz Jewcee

Mz. Jewcee is (but not limited to): ~ Erotic Advisor ~ Mistress of Ceremonies ~ Erotic Event Planner ~ Erotic Entrepreneur ~ Erotic Writer & Erotic Talk Show Host. At the tender age of 50+ Mz. Jewcee has FINALLY found her calling! After years of creating a platform for eroticism through classes and events, she has decided to formally start Jewcee Tales. Jewcee Tales is all about focusing on teaching adults how to embrace sexual fulfillment while learning how to enhance their Erotic existence. Mz. Jewcee’s background in Health Ed/Sex Ed and the Lifestyle afford her the opportunities to host workshops for Couples, Singles, Swingers, Kinksters and YOU there in the corner hiding. SEX SHOULD BE FUN! Let me show you how...

The Importance of Sex (Part 2)

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SEX is that double edged sword that can cut the heart out of a relationship with a single swipe or give a relationship that added oomph! When we talk about SEX and relationships we have to add a lot of factors into the mix. Emotions, perception, wants and desires, kink and freakiness as well as frequency and ability.  I also would throw in drive and ambition to satisfy your partner.

Looking at all of these fThat Love 1actors, affords us the opportunity to really delve into the importance of SEX in a relationship.  Remember, over 20% of committed relationships fail due to SEX – either not enough or too much. If SEX is important enough to end the most sacred of relationships – a marriage, shouldn’t we take a deep look at its effect on a relationship and recognize the significance that sex has on a relationship?

Many people will say that SEX isn’t the glue that holds their relationship together. Yet let their partner step out on them and have sex with another person and all bets are off! Now you may say that it’s the sneaking and the lying that cause a person who is cheated on to end the relationship and normally I would be inclined to agree with you, but I want to take this a step further…  If all the person is doing is having SEX why does it destroy a marriage? Is it because they are only supposed to have SEX with their partner? After all this is the same person that does not believe that SEX is that important…so why does it matter that their partner decides to have sex with someone else? I mean…if the person is not getting what they want at home and there is a deep divide in sexual activity – why shouldn’t they be allowed to “step-out” on their partner to satisfy their sexual cravings with one that is willing to fulfill their needs? Why are we shocked and appalled when we know unequivocally that we are not having sex on a regular basis?  

In other words, you can’t be upset if a partner has sex outside the relationship when you act and feel that SEX isn’t important to your relationship.  People that cheat in their relationships have a reason – it may not be a good one to the person that is cheated on – but it is “logical” to the person that cheated.

I’m not saying by any stretch of the imagination that people that cheat should get a pass, but what I am saying is…as long as we keep considering SEX as an afterthought to our relationships or treat it as a chore instead of a way to enhance our bond with that person we cherish. …as long as we keep saying, “Sex isn’t important in my relationship. I can take it or leave it.” …as long as we deny ourselves the pleasures and the euphoric feeling that comes from having SEX… …as long as we belittle SEX in such a way that demoralizes its very existence, the percentages will continue to rise and we will continue to be dissatisfied within our own sexual relationships.

The battle rages inside of us. With all of the boundaries securely in place regarding sex – from family and friends to church and state – we have lost our passion and desire. Sex can become mechanical and mundane.  Exploring a new horizon outside of the parameters set by outsiders can bring upon great shame.  The internal struggle is real. Do we stay true to our “values” or do we unleash the sexual creatures that we are?

I say…UNLEASH! It’s okay to say that SEX IS IMPORTANT! It’s okay to want GREAT SEX! It’s okay to step up your SEX game! It’s okay to try something new to rekindle the passion that you and your partner deserve in your sex life! It’s okay to make SEX a PRIORITY! 

The Importance of SEX (Part 1)

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SEX – there it is… That three letter word that can cause so much pain and pleasure at the same time. From bringing a relationship closer to tearing a relationship a part.  From being a sensual and beautiful act to being an act of violence. From creating life to the agonizing decision to end life.

SEX57e9aae945a66b3f46dc7c6514fbfbb6 – the word that everyone loves and hates to talk about. However you wish to spin it, SEX is here to stay. …with all of its ups and downs.

There are, crazy at it sounds in this day in age, still people out there that wish to downgrade sex and take away its importance. They would rather whisper behind closed doors about its importance and/or deny themselves the pleasures that sex can afford.  They want us as a people to also downgrade the importance of sex and not talk about it or teach it.

SEX is VERY IMPORTANT to all of us! …there I said it.  I’m not ashamed to say it or teach it. I’m not going to hide behind false statements, nor will I apologize for the bluntness of my words. For far too long we have been taught about all of the taboos of sex and when and where we should have sex. We’ve even been given the one and only “true” reason so have sex and that’s to continue the human race.

However, SEX has a multifaceted purpose and should be treated as such. SEX should be enjoyed, not made out to be a chore or something “dirty & disgusting”.  Double standards should not be handed out because you derive pleasure from having SEX. …and whether we want to admit it or not, SEX can make or break a personal relationship. …from not enough sex to too much sex to having sex outside your committed relationship; SEX plays a vital part in our lives.

It is time for us to put an emphasis on SEX in our relationships. The closeness that comes from sharing intense pleasure. The ability to release stress. The contact between two people seeking to please one another (in most cases) is unparalleled. The ability to connect on a physical level.

SEX is important and instead of trying to pretend that sex does not matter in a relationship, we need to be honest with ourselves and realize that we are sexual beings. Sex plays a large part in our relationships and in our society. …whether we are open about our sexuality or we are trying to sweep it under the rug, SEX is important!

Lost Art of Intimacy

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In a society full of FAST and INSTANT, we have forgotten the simple joys of a mutually satisfying sexual encounter. Guys are all about getting their dick wet – sticking it in – ramming it home. Girls are too self-absorbed in wanting that romantic moment. …this is where Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus comes into play…

There was a time when a one night stand – a quickie could be just as satisfying as a romantic001M06M8vZO rendezvous. However, in this day in age with so many people in it for themselves and not their partner, the art of intimacy is disappearing.

It is being replaced by callous unemotional detached sex. The art of communication which is a large part of foreplay has been thrown to the way side by electronic gadgets that simply don’t convey the passion that is needed in order to engage in a steamy affair.

Guys have become one dimensional and flaccid with their approach and women who are more aware then they have ever been about their own sexuality are becoming more and more discouraged with the lack of intimacy that men exhibit.

Men have become predictable and uninspiring. They are one dimensional in their approach. There is a lack of creativity. Many will say all this isn’t important, when actually it is very important even in a one night stand. Women are either too emotional or not emotional enough in order to derive pleasure from an encounter that has been planned.

If WE as a people have evolved, so has our art of lovemaking/sex. Even the one-night-stand game has changed. A chance encounter isn’t so chance any longer. We are more open as a people with our desires, but we still lack that fire ~ that unbridled passion.

Without that warm-up, without that anticipation, without that build-up, sex becomes just another thing to get out of the way. Let’s hurry up and get this over with. Let’s make this quick so we can get back to whatever we were doing to perpetuate the deterioration of our relationship. Let us not explore new ways of intimacy, because that would take up too much time. Let us not find new ways to please one another because that might require us to have an interest in your desires.

The next encounter you have, remember to listen to your partner. Not just with your ears, but with every part of your body. Being intimate is like fine tuning an instrument of desire. The more in tune the two of you are, the better the melody of amour!

Jewcee Tales Erotic Chat – subs/slaves

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TONIGHT JOIN THE ADULT CONVERSATION…YOU WON’T BE SORRY YOU DID!
 
A lot of Women have asked me in the modern day in age, how can one submit and be independent? What woman would want to be submissive let alone a slave to a man? How does this world work???
 
Well TONIGHT TUNE IN AND FIND OUT! Join in the Adult Conversation as Mz. Jewcee welcomes a panel of subs/slaves to the airwaves to talk in depth about this topic in REAL TIME with REAL TALK!
 
Tuesday, February, 23, 2016
 
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Withholding Sex

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There are a lot of women that believe that withholding sex from their partner as a form of punishment is a GOOD THING! Well I’m here to tell you…YOU’RE WRONG and STOP IT!

If your relationship has come down to “playing games” such as Take Away the Pussy – you really need to re-evaluate your relationship. Sex should not be used as some sort of “reward system” for getting your way. Your pussy should not be used as ransom for good behavior.

Women021314-National-FAQ-All-About-Prenuptial-Agreements-Prenuptial-Agreement-Cons don’t think about the irrefutable damage that they are doing to their OWN relationship when they decide to use sex as a pawn in a chess game. Quite frankly women that believe this is the way to get what they want from their partner are no better than a prostitute – a person, typically a woman, who engages in sexual activity for payment. Sound a bit harsh, well it isn’t.  …and for the record “payment” doesn’t always mean cash money…

Let’s take this a step further, women that think that withholding sex to get their way is a form of abuse. It would fall under the category of emotional/psychological abuse. …sounds extreme for just holding out on sex, but passive aggressive behavior can fall into the category of abuse. It is not physical abuse and in some instances can cause more damage due to the fact that it uses psychological properties to bring about change.

Some women tend to “believe” that men don’t feel because men typically don’t show their emotions. Men can be hurt and hurt deeply especially by someone they love. When their affections are repeatedly rejected over what is usually a “minor” issue – in their minds, they learn quickly to adapt to their surroundings. They shut down as well and/or cheat.

Sex was not created to be used as a ‘bargaining chip’ to get your way. We all know that having sex can lead to having children which of course continues the human race. However, sex is more than that…so much more.

The intimacy we share at the moment of penetration – when we truly become one being. The closeness of lying next to our partner that allows our souls to mold a foundation of adoration. That feeling of wanting to please one another. The desire and passion being unleashed. The bond between two bodies. …just thinking about sex turns me on!

If you are having a disagreement or your partner is not seeing your point of view, then the three C’s ~ Clear Concise Communication is needed – not withholding sex to get your point across. Take time to talk to each other. Make sure that you have something to say – not nag – not complain – not find fault. A positive and productive approach to improving your relationship should be on the agenda. …at this point it is time to move forward and not go back and grab poor behaviors from the past. A sense of renewing and reinventing your bond should be a priority.


“Failing to plan is planning to fail.”

Have a PLAN to make your relationship stronger. Work together to improve what you have. No relationship is perfect. Trials and tribulations will come your way. It’s how you handle those tests with dignity, respect and LOVE that will keep your relationship foundation solid.

Just Breathe

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Not everyone is able to put what they think or feel into words. Especially when it comes to liking someone. We get all tongue tied and can’t think straight. The simplest of phrases sounds silly when it comes across our lips. The heart races and the brain seems to slow down. The body moves awkwardly and you’re at a loss for common sense.

Some people just do that to us! Make us out of sorts. Make us doubt ourselves. Make us want to go somewhere and hide when they walk in the room.

Here is a tip: THE PERSON WE LIKE IS HUMAN TOO!

I was told once by a Mentor to, “Just breathe.” Such a simply act, but such a huge result. You see, breathing allows you to clear your mind, calm your nerves and most importantly – not pass out! When you meet someone that you like or you’re interested in, we tend to breathe more rapidly causing us to be more excited than normal.

I use this technique often ~ because I can get myself all excited to the point of not being able to put together a rational sentence…lol. When I speak in front of a group or I meet someone that intrigues me for the very first time. I can still get a bit flustered. …even when I fill overwhelmed by my day, I take time to JUST BREATHE.

Next time you feel a little out of sorts, unsure of your next move or what to say, take in that deep breath and let it out. Clear your mind and focus on the task at hand. You will see that your words will flow and your nervousness will start to subside.

Eroticism

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This word plays a major roll in my life. The term itself rolls off my lips like an old friend. The meaning of the word invokes a feeling of pleasure beyond the normal. It takes what could be considered ordinary to extraordinary!

…and the bes001E054VKMbt part about Eroticism is ~ it does not have to be all about SEX! …oh sure, when executed to perfection and even some imperfect moments, it can lead to some of the most EARTH SHATTERING sex on this planet…! …but you have to get to that point first!

Eroticism is the the building blocks you need to improve a sex life that has become routine. It’s that SPARK that you need to rekindle that fire called PASSION. It’s that missing ingredient you need to allow desire to flow fully.

Anticipation, arousal, excitement should all be a apart of your Erotic Encounter and those elements are embedded in Eroticism. 

Vixen and Villains Valentines Bash

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What a BALL we had! From the decorations to the LIVE Lingerie Models to the DJ to the Food to the Contests/Adult Games that were played… There wasn’t a person that didn’t enjoy themselves at this Event!

The atmosphere12733459_1548469518800073_980489042988888555_nre was set to allow each Guest the opportunity to: Enjoy ~ Enlighten ~ Embrace ~ Eroticism! From Erotic Bingo to Adult Musical Chairs to The Position Game _ EVERYONE had a REALLY good time!

…so the next time you are looking to experience some ADULT EROTIC FUN and you hear that there is a JTP Lifestyle Event about to go down —– CLEAR YOUR CALENDAR so that you can join us for a night you won’t soon forget!

We keep it HOT & EROTIC! Oh yeah…and you just might learn something NEW to take to the bedroom!

Eat Out

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You walk into the house and smell a wonderful aroma.  Dinner is almost done.  You’ve had a long day and you just want to relax…

My back is to you when you enter the kitchen.  I’m busy making sure that everything is perfect for your feast. The Middle Topsurround sound is playing in the background.  The sound of jazz is soothing away the stress of the day. A glass of wine finds my lips.

I’m startled as you walk up behind me and slip your arms around my waist.  Pulling me close to you, you take in the scent of my hair and I can feel a familiar sensation taking over my womanhood.  You’re the only man that arouses me with the slightest touch.

I relax in your arms, my head on your chest.  Your manhood rises as I move my ass rhythmically to the music.  One hand releases my waist and lifts the hem of my dress as the other hand unfastens your pants.

You’re pleased to find that I’m not wearing anything to impede your progress…   A smack on my bare ass and a moan of approval in my ear lets me know that I’ve pleased you.  Your hands glide over my roundness as I close my eyes and enjoy your touch.

Without hesitation I bend forward, as you slide your hard dick into my awaiting pussy.  A gasp of pure ecstasy escapes my lips as your dick slides in with ease…

…another burnt dinner…I guess we’ll have to eat out! ©

 

Strong Women and Submitting…

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Being able to submit comes from a place of power. A submissive that understands that power can be transferred to another and you are able to keep your dignity, is an indisputable force. Today I focus on the female side of submission in discussing strong women that submit. I can only speak on my own enlightenments and the lessons learned which I hope assists individuals that choose this path.

There are stro722u4sKf3Wng women who enjoy submitting to a man. Now not just any man, but a man that they see as their equal and a man that they know can take charge. The male that they submit to will also see them as their equal and as a woman that is willing to entrust them with the power of control for a short period of time/a long period of time (based on their Dom/sub relationship/status).

Becoming a strong woman does not happen over night. To me a strong woman is cultivated over time through her own life experiences. How she handles her life and herself will determine where her strength comes from. The woman that finds her strength that has been forged deep within her soul will stand stronger against the obstacles that life has to offer. Her strength is represented through a quite confidence that does not need a lot of fan fare, for she knows what she has gone through to get to this point in her life. Armed with this knowledge, the discovery that her power/strength can be relinquished to one that is worthy is undeniably enticing.

As a strong woman in the role of a submissive, my choice is not be at a Doms feet, for I clearly understand the inference of this position within the realm of the Lifestyle. Instead I chose to be by my Doms side for the support that he will need throughout his life. Being a woman of strength and secure in both my worlds POWER & SUBMISSION my submission is given willingly for both servitude and supremacy.

There are still a lot of misconceptions out there about a subs place/position. Individuals that choose to participate as a sub need to be informed. There are different levels of submission and before committing and running around saying you are a sub, know more about what you want from this realm of the Lifestyle.

Being a sub of strength has allowed me to see that many subs are unknowing and are following a blueprint that is unfamiliar to them. This realm of the Lifestyle is not just a role that is played behind closed doors or in the bedroom its not about how freaky a sub can be nor is it a role that is played when it is convenient for the sub. The submissive Lifestyle is a dutiful position that should be adhered to at ALL times! Even for a woman of strength, this Lifestyle is a balancing act, but because she is secure in whom she is and secure in what she is, she will be able to manage both worlds.

I have stated it before and I will state it again there is more then one way to submit. You simply have to find what is comfortable for you.Once you find that comfort level one that you have created through learning who and what you are, NOT the box version that someone else has created, then a TRUE Dom will appreciate and accept you readily.