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A Blowjob A Day Keeps The Doctor Away, According To Research
I found this to be very interesting. Mz. Jewcee over the years has heard a lot of excuses from women about not giving blowjobs. …thought this article might change some of their minds or at least allow them the opportunity to think about it…hhmmm
What are your thoughts on the information below:
Heter
osexual ladies of the world:
Ready for a mouthful of vitamins, minerals, and endorphins?
All you have to do is open wide, curl your lips over your teeth, and give your boyfriend a blowjob. Yes, you read that correctly…
A blowjob.
Surprisingly, semen is packed with nutrients — the same kind you might pay 10-25 bucks for in the supplement aisle at CVS.
Spermatozoa released by the testes accounts for less than 5% of the semen’s composition — meaning the vast majority of gooey liquid you jet out isn’t sperm. Researchers have found that remaining 95% is a whole mix of compounds that are extremely good for you. Things like:
– Vitamin C
– Protein
– Vitamin B12
– Enzymes
– Lipids
Oh, but there’s more. Check out the nutritional value table of semen below. Note: it’s based on a larger “sample size” since the amount of nutrients per serving (or 1 load) is trace.
On top of that, semen contains mood-enhancers like serotonin, estrone, oxytocin, melatonin, and cortisol–all of which promote euphoria and relaxation.
A recent study at the SUNY-Albany campus even found that semen could provide cures for morning sickness in pregnant women, as well as lower her risk for miscarriage.
In order to receive the full range of health benefits, semen must be “consumed” either orally or vaginally. No word on future studies aiming to prove the benefits of semen facials…but we remain hopeful.
Now before you get all excited, don’t go promoting your penis as a free daily multi-vitamin just yet. There are always conditions…
Just like the boys, women have a blend of super-nutrients in their juice, too. Turns out many proteins, amino acids, carbohydrates and other acids similar to what is found in semen can be found in female discharge as well.
That means your girlfriend can tell you to “just go down because it’s good for you” the same way you might.
The second condition is a bit more serious.
While our juices pack a health-boosting punch, it’s no secret that they can also carry sexually transmitted infections and viruses like HIV, Hepatitis B+C, herpes and Chlamydia in those who are infected. If you bleed when brushing your teeth or have other signs of poor gum health, your risk of contracting one of these diseases is even higher.
The simple answer to this? Only share “sex substances” with people who are tested, trustworthy, or are in a monogamous relationship with. That’s the best way to guarantee you get the good stuff, not the bad.
Want to get a blowjob today? Hide all your vitamins, then share this article with your lady.
Turns out men weren’t lying when saying, “don’t worry baby… semen is good for you.” Who would’ve thought?
13 Reasons Every Woman Should Masturbate Regularly
13 Reasons Every Woman Should Masturbate Regularly
1. It makes you happier. “We know that pleasure makes people feel good,” Streicher said. It’s really that simple. Orgasms release the endorphins dopamine and oxytocin, which can improve your mood and create a natural high. Who needs drugs when you can make your own?
2. You become more comfortable with your body. Your body should be your best friend — it’s one of the only things that will be with you your entire life. And part of becoming besties with your body includes exploring it. “It is extremely important that women have an appreciation of their own anatomy and how to self-pleasure,” Streicher said. Time to hit the books, ladies.
3. It can improve your sex life. Masturbation allows you to explore your body and find out what feels best. Knowing your body in this way can make you more confident in bed and more vocal with partners. Once you figure out what you like, you can tell your partner where to touch you.
4. It helps you sleep. There’s a reason most of us feel so sleepy after those toe-curling climaxes: Orgasms physically and emotionally relieve tension and exhaust the body, which allow you to fall asleep quicker. “Generally people do sleep better after masturbating, but very often it’s from feeling relaxed and satisfied,” Streicher said. Masturbation helps people sleep the same way reading a book before bed does — you feel calm and relaxed after.
5. It’s a great way to release sexual tension. If you’ve chosen to not have sex or are simply going through a dry spell, masturbating is a great way to satisfy your libido.
6. Masturbating can ease body aches and menstrual pain. “If you have a uterine contraction while self-stimulating and a uterine contraction can help menstrual blood come out faster… theoretically it’s going to help with cramps,” Streicher said. While she cautioned that the research behind this benefit is relatively limited, Streicher said there’s no reason not to masturbate while on your period: “It’s never a bad thing and if it seems to help you then go for it.” Either way, it’s more fun than a heating pad.
7. It relieves stress. “Anything that makes you feel more relaxed and gets you to turn off the day, whether you do yoga or get a foot massage, it’s all the same thing,” Streicher said. “It’s not that it has to be sexual but sex and self-stimulation is definitely one of the ways to relieve stress.” Sounds like an awesome way to unwind.
8. Masturbation helps your body stay sexual… even when you’re not having sex.
“If you’re between partners, there’s a very strong benefit to keeping things going by self-stimulating — not only in terms of keeping the tissues elastic and healthy and increasing blood flow, but just getting your brain going,” Streicher said. “We know that sex and arousal starts in the brain… The more sex you have, the more sex you want because you think about sex more. If you have someone who hasn’t been sexual for a very long period of time, in most cases, they’re not even thinking about it.”
9. There are tons of cool gadgets to help you masturbate. From hands-free vibrators to buzzing faux lip stick bottles, there’s a vibrator for every lady.
10. If you’re in a relationship, it’s a great way to mix things up — and keep you coming back for more. As Streicher noted, the more sex you have, the more sex you’ll want to have. It follows that the more you masturbate and become comfortable being sexual with your own body, the more you’ll want to be sexual with your partner. “We know that being self-sexual is going to stimulate the part of the brain that is going to keep your libido alive and well,” Streicher said.
11. Multiple. Orgasms. Understanding how your body works helps you know exactly how to pleasure it. Once, twice, three times — it’s up to you! Climax is often times only at the end of sex for men, but women can keep going. Why stop at one?
12. There are no downsides to it. Masturbation has “absolutely zero negative effects,” Streicher said. “Nothing bad can happen from doing it — you can’t catch anything, you can’t get pregnant, you’re not going to get sick. It’s the best thing out there as far as a feel-good vice that isn’t going to have any negative repercussions.”
13. It feels f*&^%$! amazing. No explanation needed.
Clear your calendars, a little “me” time starts now. ~Huffington Post~
Submission is a Gift
In this day in age, sometimes it is difficult for a woman to admit that she enjoys submitting to her partner. Women are so busy being strong and independant, that even the slightest suggestion that they might enjoy catering to and/or being told what to do by their partner could be looked at in a negative way.
Mz. Jewcee believes that submission is inherent. For a lot of women submission is already deep rooted inside of our being. We enjoy pleasing our partner. That does not mean that we cannot run a million dollar business.
Being submissive is not a sign of weakness. Finding that person that allows you to be both strong and submissive is truly a remarkable moment. …for with that person, you are whole.
Mz. Jewcee likes to teach ‘strong women’ to submit, not so they feel less of a woman, but so that they can learn to depend on their partner in ways that will be beneficial to their relationship. How you may ask… There are times in a “strong woman’s” life when she needs to relax and release. …to not think… …to let go of the burdens of the day and allow herself that ‘let down time’. To free herself from all thought and allow her body, mind and soul to be taken to places of pleasure. No more thinking…only doing.
Now this of course does not happen overnight, nor does this type of release happen with every partner your with. Submission is a Gift and should not be given to those that are not worthy ~ nor should submission be accepted by those that do not know how to appreciate it’s significance. A woman that is submissive is TRUSTING her partner with one of the most precious gifts she has and that is her: PAIN & PLEASURE.
Submission goes beyond just giving of one’s heart. Submission has a deeper meaning and a more spiritual manifestation then just the ability to love a person. Submission encompases emotions, desires and erotic drive that may not be found in a “vanilla” relationship.
Take a Jewcee Journey with Mz. Jewcee as over the next several weeks she discusses what it’s like to be submissive and how being a Switch (submissive/Domme) has changed her life and made her whole!
CLASS IS IN SESSION! Submission 101
Mz. Jewcee Returned to the Airwaves
This past weekend was EXTREMELY busy for Mz. Jewcee as she continues to build her Brand and get information out about her upcoming Event in April!
She joined the crew of G Spot Lounge ~ After Dark and had a BLAST on the show. Take a listen below…
Impromptu Interview w/Mz. Jewcee
Mz. Jewcee is learning that she has to…BE READY at all times to talk about her passion! …guess what…she has NO PROBLEM in being ready as you will see below!
What an AWSOME Event and time Mz. Jewcee had at the Nasty No Chaser Event! It is always a pleasure to meet like minded people that are about educating couples and individuals alike regarding sex and how to keep their relationships FRESH!
Akilah and Taj McCord of Bedroom Banter, sat down with Mz. Jewcee during this event and had an impromptu conversation regarding the origins of Mz. Jewcee as well as the upcoming 1st Annual Ebony Exotic Experience. …take a listen…
Next Nasty No Chaser Event: Saturday, March 11, 2017 7pm – 10pm Check my calendar for location!
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How To Give Your Partner a Rusty Trombone the Right Way
Every now and then Mz. Jewcee runs across an article that she finds very informative. …not to mention, the article usually teaches this ‘ol dog’ a new trick or two. NEVER STOP LEARNING & EDUCATING yourself! Thanks Shakir!!
From: Cosmopolitan 2/17
Get yourself a rim job that can do both.
There are two types of people in this world: those who know what a rusty trombone is and those who don’t. If you’re in the second group, congratulations, you’re about to join the first! A rusty trombone is the act of giving a rim job (the “rusty” part) and a hand job (the “trombone” part) at the same time — simultaneously licking your partner’s anus and reaching around to give them an HJ.
The name is admittedly silly. “Rusty trombone” sounds like an urban sex legend rather than a real thing you could do with your partner tonight. And you could do this tonight! And it could be very hot! The combination of anal and penile stimulation can be explosive for the receiver and make the giver feel like a sex goddess.
Ostensibly few couples are doing the RT (rusty trombone, let’s make this acronym a thing) on the reg, though. It’s more common in porn than in people’s IRL sex lives, not just because people don’t know what it is but because anal play can be intimidating. But it doesn’t have to be. Ahead, expert tips on how to play your own trombone at home.
1. Talk with your partner about if/how the RT will play out.
Hint: chances are the rimming will be the hornier thornier issue.
Surprise butt stuff is never, ever a good idea. Like ever — so don’t sneak it into sex to see how your partner reacts, discuss it first. “See if they’re open to trying it,” sex educator and former porn performer Kelly Shibari advises. “If they are, discuss everything from cleanliness to how far they’re willing to go — rimming only? Rimming and a tongue in there? Rimming and a finger? No tongue-rimming but they’re cool with a lubed finger circling the outside?” Get super specific, then stay the course when the action starts unless you talk about switching it up.
If you’re not even sure how to start that conversation, “Honestly, articles like this are a great way to break the ice,” Shibari points out. Some straight dudes are worried that butt play is “only for gay guys,” she sighs, even though enjoying prostate stimulation has literally nothing to do with your sexuality. It can be helpful to parse some of these stereotypes with your guy before diving in. If the conclusion of the convo is that they’re just not interested, that’s cool too! But if they are, proceed to step two.
2. Have your partner clean up, but they don’t need to douche.
Shibari tells me that she’s really only ever rimmed guys in porn before — and that there are benefits to this. “Male performers on a porn set are tested, showered, shaved pretty much everywhere,” she says. “You don’t really have any surprises lurking there” — for example, an unexpected forest of hair or lurking fecal matter. Sorry for that, but we’re talking about ass play here. If you’ve made it this far, you knew what you were in for.
And on that note, while showers or at least baby wipes can help you and your partner feel more comfortable about analingus, remember that “it’s unrealistic to expect that a butthole be 100% free of any smells or tastes,” sex educator and founder of Spectrum Boutique Zoë Ligon says. “I discourage folks from anal douching simply because it is very harsh on the body’s natural anal lining.”
3. You might want to take off your lipstick for this one.
When rimming, “I always opted for a bare lip, or rather, by the time things got around to that on set, my lipstick was pretty gone,” Shibari laughs. “Anything you have on your lips will probably end up on your cheeks, because butt cheeks.” She says to avoid goopy lip glosses, and points out that you can use your free hand to gently push one butt cheek away to keep lube / spit / your Chapstick from smearing all over your face. Although it might end up there anyway. If you were looking for a neat and tidy sex move, you came to the wrong article.
4. Play an overture before you get to the trombone symphony (ugh sorry, foreplay, I’m talking about how you should do foreplay).
“I highly recommend lots and lots of teasing before going straight for the asshole,” sex therapist Vanessa Marin says. “The whole backside area is full of nerve endings, so you don’t want to miss out by going straight for the asshole itself.” She suggests kissing, licking, and stroking that sexy curve between your partner’s thighs and butt cheeks, massaging their cheeks with your hands, and exploring their butt crack and perineum with your fingers. This’ll help them relax and be more receptive to your tongue and lips.
5. You can use lube on both sides, but definitely use it for at least the hand job.
While your rim job will have the lubrication of at least your saliva, the hand-penis combo has no such luck. Squeeze a little lube into your hand and, if you like, apply a little to your partner’s anus before the RT. “In general, I’m not a fan of flavored lubes because they can have some gross chemicals in them,” Marin says, but if you do want to try flavored lube, she recommends Wicked Sensual Care’s body-safe line, as does Shibari. (Mint chocolate chip and salted caramel? I mean, why not?) As far as the hand job goes, lube will reduce friction, meaning more fluid, pleasurable motions. Opt for a silicone or hybrid lube, since it tends to last longer on skin.
Ladies…Are We Still Sexually Repressed?
Mz. Jewcee has had the pleasure of speaking with thousands of women over the years. …discussions that probably only take place in a forum that is conducive to the women being able to speak freely and openly about sex. What Mz. Jewcee has discovered is, although we have come a long way with our sexual revolution, we still have a long way to go.
No matte
r how hard we try as a gender to overcome the stigma’s that go along with being sexually active, the negative stereotypes still exist. What Mz. Jewcee finds particularly interesting is, those stereotypes are more deep rooted with women then with men.
Even in today’s society double standards still prevail. Women still worry about what others will think of them should they feel the urge to express themselves sexually. From sleeping with a man on the first date to being in the porn industry, the negative rhetoric is as loud now as it was fifty years ago. …and it’s not necessarily coming from the men…
Mz. Jewcee wonders where the deep rooted distaste comes from. …and more importantly ~ why is it still around? Haven’t we come through the sexual revolution…burned our bra’s, taken back our femininity, fought for equal rights? Yet a woman that knows her sexuality, has multiple partners and even enjoys sex – is ridiculed the hardest by women. She is shunned and defamed. She might as well put on the Scarlet Letter and be done with it.
Are we so far removed from ourselves that we take out our sexual frustrations on those that are sexually free? Do we invent words of degradation just to appease some moral standard that is only visible to those that chose to be blind to their sexual freedom? Are we envious of those that are able to express themselves sexually? Do we secretly wish that we were more like those women, but want to save face in front of a bigger audience? Are we so sexually repressed that we have forgotten that it Is human nature…and actually physically and mentally good for us to have a healthy and active sex life?
Some of these questions can only be answered by those that show disdain to those women that wish to pursue their sexual desires. Other answers come from our past.
Whatever the answer is…we as women need to take a break from bashing and belittling other women that have learned and enjoy their sexual wellbeing. Instead of berating these sexually free creatures, possibly we need to sit back and observe in silence…
Mz. Jewcee Giving Erotic Knowledge
Mz. Jewcee had the pleasure of being on the G-Spot Lounge! What a GREAT time she had!! Take a listen…
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