Tag: Relationships

The Importance of SEX (Part 1)

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SEX – there it is… That three letter word that can cause so much pain and pleasure at the same time. From bringing a relationship closer to tearing a relationship a part.  From being a sensual and beautiful act to being an act of violence. From creating life to the agonizing decision to end life.

SEX57e9aae945a66b3f46dc7c6514fbfbb6 – the word that everyone loves and hates to talk about. However you wish to spin it, SEX is here to stay. …with all of its ups and downs.

There are, crazy at it sounds in this day in age, still people out there that wish to downgrade sex and take away its importance. They would rather whisper behind closed doors about its importance and/or deny themselves the pleasures that sex can afford.  They want us as a people to also downgrade the importance of sex and not talk about it or teach it.

SEX is VERY IMPORTANT to all of us! …there I said it.  I’m not ashamed to say it or teach it. I’m not going to hide behind false statements, nor will I apologize for the bluntness of my words. For far too long we have been taught about all of the taboos of sex and when and where we should have sex. We’ve even been given the one and only “true” reason so have sex and that’s to continue the human race.

However, SEX has a multifaceted purpose and should be treated as such. SEX should be enjoyed, not made out to be a chore or something “dirty & disgusting”.  Double standards should not be handed out because you derive pleasure from having SEX. …and whether we want to admit it or not, SEX can make or break a personal relationship. …from not enough sex to too much sex to having sex outside your committed relationship; SEX plays a vital part in our lives.

It is time for us to put an emphasis on SEX in our relationships. The closeness that comes from sharing intense pleasure. The ability to release stress. The contact between two people seeking to please one another (in most cases) is unparalleled. The ability to connect on a physical level.

SEX is important and instead of trying to pretend that sex does not matter in a relationship, we need to be honest with ourselves and realize that we are sexual beings. Sex plays a large part in our relationships and in our society. …whether we are open about our sexuality or we are trying to sweep it under the rug, SEX is important!

Lost Art of Intimacy

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In a society full of FAST and INSTANT, we have forgotten the simple joys of a mutually satisfying sexual encounter. Guys are all about getting their dick wet – sticking it in – ramming it home. Girls are too self-absorbed in wanting that romantic moment. …this is where Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus comes into play…

There was a time when a one night stand – a quickie could be just as satisfying as a romantic001M06M8vZO rendezvous. However, in this day in age with so many people in it for themselves and not their partner, the art of intimacy is disappearing.

It is being replaced by callous unemotional detached sex. The art of communication which is a large part of foreplay has been thrown to the way side by electronic gadgets that simply don’t convey the passion that is needed in order to engage in a steamy affair.

Guys have become one dimensional and flaccid with their approach and women who are more aware then they have ever been about their own sexuality are becoming more and more discouraged with the lack of intimacy that men exhibit.

Men have become predictable and uninspiring. They are one dimensional in their approach. There is a lack of creativity. Many will say all this isn’t important, when actually it is very important even in a one night stand. Women are either too emotional or not emotional enough in order to derive pleasure from an encounter that has been planned.

If WE as a people have evolved, so has our art of lovemaking/sex. Even the one-night-stand game has changed. A chance encounter isn’t so chance any longer. We are more open as a people with our desires, but we still lack that fire ~ that unbridled passion.

Without that warm-up, without that anticipation, without that build-up, sex becomes just another thing to get out of the way. Let’s hurry up and get this over with. Let’s make this quick so we can get back to whatever we were doing to perpetuate the deterioration of our relationship. Let us not explore new ways of intimacy, because that would take up too much time. Let us not find new ways to please one another because that might require us to have an interest in your desires.

The next encounter you have, remember to listen to your partner. Not just with your ears, but with every part of your body. Being intimate is like fine tuning an instrument of desire. The more in tune the two of you are, the better the melody of amour!

Jewcee Tales Erotic Chat – subs/slaves

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Withholding Sex

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There are a lot of women that believe that withholding sex from their partner as a form of punishment is a GOOD THING! Well I’m here to tell you…YOU’RE WRONG and STOP IT!

If your relationship has come down to “playing games” such as Take Away the Pussy – you really need to re-evaluate your relationship. Sex should not be used as some sort of “reward system” for getting your way. Your pussy should not be used as ransom for good behavior.

Women021314-National-FAQ-All-About-Prenuptial-Agreements-Prenuptial-Agreement-Cons don’t think about the irrefutable damage that they are doing to their OWN relationship when they decide to use sex as a pawn in a chess game. Quite frankly women that believe this is the way to get what they want from their partner are no better than a prostitute – a person, typically a woman, who engages in sexual activity for payment. Sound a bit harsh, well it isn’t.  …and for the record “payment” doesn’t always mean cash money…

Let’s take this a step further, women that think that withholding sex to get their way is a form of abuse. It would fall under the category of emotional/psychological abuse. …sounds extreme for just holding out on sex, but passive aggressive behavior can fall into the category of abuse. It is not physical abuse and in some instances can cause more damage due to the fact that it uses psychological properties to bring about change.

Some women tend to “believe” that men don’t feel because men typically don’t show their emotions. Men can be hurt and hurt deeply especially by someone they love. When their affections are repeatedly rejected over what is usually a “minor” issue – in their minds, they learn quickly to adapt to their surroundings. They shut down as well and/or cheat.

Sex was not created to be used as a ‘bargaining chip’ to get your way. We all know that having sex can lead to having children which of course continues the human race. However, sex is more than that…so much more.

The intimacy we share at the moment of penetration – when we truly become one being. The closeness of lying next to our partner that allows our souls to mold a foundation of adoration. That feeling of wanting to please one another. The desire and passion being unleashed. The bond between two bodies. …just thinking about sex turns me on!

If you are having a disagreement or your partner is not seeing your point of view, then the three C’s ~ Clear Concise Communication is needed – not withholding sex to get your point across. Take time to talk to each other. Make sure that you have something to say – not nag – not complain – not find fault. A positive and productive approach to improving your relationship should be on the agenda. …at this point it is time to move forward and not go back and grab poor behaviors from the past. A sense of renewing and reinventing your bond should be a priority.


“Failing to plan is planning to fail.”

Have a PLAN to make your relationship stronger. Work together to improve what you have. No relationship is perfect. Trials and tribulations will come your way. It’s how you handle those tests with dignity, respect and LOVE that will keep your relationship foundation solid.