Category: erotic

Being Comfortable in Your Own Erotic Skin

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Being comfortable in your own Erotic Skin is imperative. Allowing yourself the freedom to choose sexually just how Sensual & Sexy you wish to be is a joy to behold!

I meet so many people that are so worried about what other people will think, that they miss out on moments in time that could improve their relationships. I’ve also met so many people that have been controlled and contained within someone else’s box of what sex sDSC07655-1hould be that they have lost their Erotic way! …from when to have sex to what positions to have sex in – to what to enjoy sexually. Every aspect of their sexual being is REALLY controlled by someone else’s opinion. …and some don’t even realize it.

When I sit down and talk to women in particular about why they won’t try anal sex or a threesome or give head – I pretty much know the answer that they are about to give and how that answer developed in their mind.  It is obvious in our conversation that they have been “told” by either a close friend or a family member that whatever they are about to embark in is “nasty”, painful, or simply just frowned upon. …because OF COURSE these folks have TRIED EVERYTHING!  …yeah right…

Simply put, they have allowed someone else – who by the way has not even tried any of the above mentioned scenarios, but have a negative ‘opinion’ about them – to dictate how awful it would be to even “try” any of the acts of pleasure. It always amazes me how quickly these ladies take on the views of someone else without even seeing for themselves what they are missing.

I travel around dispelling rumors and innuendo with regards to sex in an attempt to allow people to step out of their sexual box that someone else has created for them. What amazes me is, so many people have the same “hang-ups” when it comes to sex and for the same reason…someone “told” them this was bad.

I was taught to: Open the book and read it for myself. …and my favorite: An opinion is like an asshole, everyone has one. …so how do we get out of the confinement of the sexual box that someone else built?

Well the first step is to know that you’re in that box. If you’re not fulfilled, if you feel that something is missing, if you want to try new erotic adventures – GO FOR IT! Do your own research. Find like-minded people. Step out and away from that box. Allow yourself to breathe in the aroma of sexuality. Close your eyes and visualize yourself being enlightened. Explore new positions and the various realms of the Lifestyle.

…this is not to say that you will like everything you try Erotically, but at least you will have formed your own opinion and taken that step of being comfortable in your own Erotic Skin.

Lost Art of Intimacy

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In a society full of FAST and INSTANT, we have forgotten the simple joys of a mutually satisfying sexual encounter. Guys are all about getting their dick wet – sticking it in – ramming it home. Girls are too self-absorbed in wanting that romantic moment. …this is where Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus comes into play…

There was a time when a one night stand – a quickie could be just as satisfying as a romantic001M06M8vZO rendezvous. However, in this day in age with so many people in it for themselves and not their partner, the art of intimacy is disappearing.

It is being replaced by callous unemotional detached sex. The art of communication which is a large part of foreplay has been thrown to the way side by electronic gadgets that simply don’t convey the passion that is needed in order to engage in a steamy affair.

Guys have become one dimensional and flaccid with their approach and women who are more aware then they have ever been about their own sexuality are becoming more and more discouraged with the lack of intimacy that men exhibit.

Men have become predictable and uninspiring. They are one dimensional in their approach. There is a lack of creativity. Many will say all this isn’t important, when actually it is very important even in a one night stand. Women are either too emotional or not emotional enough in order to derive pleasure from an encounter that has been planned.

If WE as a people have evolved, so has our art of lovemaking/sex. Even the one-night-stand game has changed. A chance encounter isn’t so chance any longer. We are more open as a people with our desires, but we still lack that fire ~ that unbridled passion.

Without that warm-up, without that anticipation, without that build-up, sex becomes just another thing to get out of the way. Let’s hurry up and get this over with. Let’s make this quick so we can get back to whatever we were doing to perpetuate the deterioration of our relationship. Let us not explore new ways of intimacy, because that would take up too much time. Let us not find new ways to please one another because that might require us to have an interest in your desires.

The next encounter you have, remember to listen to your partner. Not just with your ears, but with every part of your body. Being intimate is like fine tuning an instrument of desire. The more in tune the two of you are, the better the melody of amour!

Eroticism

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This word plays a major roll in my life. The term itself rolls off my lips like an old friend. The meaning of the word invokes a feeling of pleasure beyond the normal. It takes what could be considered ordinary to extraordinary!

…and the bes001E054VKMbt part about Eroticism is ~ it does not have to be all about SEX! …oh sure, when executed to perfection and even some imperfect moments, it can lead to some of the most EARTH SHATTERING sex on this planet…! …but you have to get to that point first!

Eroticism is the the building blocks you need to improve a sex life that has become routine. It’s that SPARK that you need to rekindle that fire called PASSION. It’s that missing ingredient you need to allow desire to flow fully.

Anticipation, arousal, excitement should all be a apart of your Erotic Encounter and those elements are embedded in Eroticism. 

Eat Out

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You walk into the house and smell a wonderful aroma.  Dinner is almost done.  You’ve had a long day and you just want to relax…

My back is to you when you enter the kitchen.  I’m busy making sure that everything is perfect for your feast. The Middle Topsurround sound is playing in the background.  The sound of jazz is soothing away the stress of the day. A glass of wine finds my lips.

I’m startled as you walk up behind me and slip your arms around my waist.  Pulling me close to you, you take in the scent of my hair and I can feel a familiar sensation taking over my womanhood.  You’re the only man that arouses me with the slightest touch.

I relax in your arms, my head on your chest.  Your manhood rises as I move my ass rhythmically to the music.  One hand releases my waist and lifts the hem of my dress as the other hand unfastens your pants.

You’re pleased to find that I’m not wearing anything to impede your progress…   A smack on my bare ass and a moan of approval in my ear lets me know that I’ve pleased you.  Your hands glide over my roundness as I close my eyes and enjoy your touch.

Without hesitation I bend forward, as you slide your hard dick into my awaiting pussy.  A gasp of pure ecstasy escapes my lips as your dick slides in with ease…

…another burnt dinner…I guess we’ll have to eat out! ©