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The Importance of Sex (Part 2)

Published on March 9, 2016 by Mz Jewcee2 Comments

SEX is that double edged sword that can cut the heart out of a relationship with a single swipe or give a relationship that added oomph! When we talk about SEX and relationships we have to add a lot of factors into the mix. Emotions, perception, wants and desires, kink and freakiness as well as frequency and ability. I also would throw in drive and ambition to satisfy your partner.

Looking at all of these factors, affords us the opportunity to really delve into the importance of SEX in a relationship. Remember, over 20% of committed relationships fail due to SEX – either not enough or too much. If SEX is important enough to end the most sacred of relationships – a marriage, shouldn’t we take a deep look at its effect on a relationship and recognize the significance that sex has on a relationship?

Many people will say that SEX isn’t the glue that holds their relationship together. Yet let their partner step out on them and have sex with another person and all bets are off! Now you may say that it’s the sneaking and the lying that cause a person who is cheated on to end the relationship and normally I would be inclined to agree with you, but I want to take this a step further… If all the person is doing is having SEX why does it destroy a marriage? Is it because they are only supposed to have SEX with their partner? After all this is the same person that does not believe that SEX is that important…so why does it matter that their partner decides to have sex with someone else? I mean…if the person is not getting what they want at home and there is a deep divide in sexual activity – why shouldn’t they be allowed to “step-out” on their partner to satisfy their sexual cravings with one that is willing to fulfill their needs? Why are we shocked and appalled when we know unequivocally that we are not having sex on a regular basis?

In other words, you can’t be upset if a partner has sex outside the relationship when you act and feel that SEX isn’t important to your relationship. People that cheat in their relationships have a reason – it may not be a good one to the person that is cheated on – but it is “logical” to the person that cheated.

I’m not saying by any stretch of the imagination that people that cheat should get a pass, but what I am saying is…as long as we keep considering SEX as an afterthought to our relationships or treat it as a chore instead of a way to enhance our bond with that person we cherish. …as long as we keep saying, “Sex isn’t important in my relationship. I can take it or leave it.” …as long as we deny ourselves the pleasures and the euphoric feeling that comes from having SEX… …as long as we belittle SEX in such a way that demoralizes its very existence, the percentages will continue to rise and we will continue to be dissatisfied within our own sexual relationships.

The battle rages inside of us. With all of the boundaries securely in place regarding sex – from family and friends to church and state – we have lost our passion and desire. Sex can become mechanical and mundane. Exploring a new horizon outside of the parameters set by outsiders can bring upon great shame. The internal struggle is real. Do we stay true to our “values” or do we unleash the sexual creatures that we are?

I say…UNLEASH! It’s okay to say that SEX IS IMPORTANT! It’s okay to want GREAT SEX! It’s okay to step up your SEX game! It’s okay to try something new to rekindle the passion that you and your partner deserve in your sex life! It’s okay to make SEX a PRIORITY!

The Importance of SEX (Part 1)

Published on March 7, 2016 by Mz JewceeLeave a comment

SEX – there it is… That three letter word that can cause so much pain and pleasure at the same time. From bringing a relationship closer to tearing a relationship a part. From being a sensual and beautiful act to being an act of violence. From creating life to the agonizing decision to end life.

SEX – the word that everyone loves and hates to talk about. However you wish to spin it, SEX is here to stay. …with all of its ups and downs.

There are, crazy at it sounds in this day in age, still people out there that wish to downgrade sex and take away its importance. They would rather whisper behind closed doors about its importance and/or deny themselves the pleasures that sex can afford. They want us as a people to also downgrade the importance of sex and not talk about it or teach it.

SEX is VERY IMPORTANT to all of us! …there I said it. I’m not ashamed to say it or teach it. I’m not going to hide behind false statements, nor will I apologize for the bluntness of my words. For far too long we have been taught about all of the taboos of sex and when and where we should have sex. We’ve even been given the one and only “true” reason so have sex and that’s to continue the human race.

However, SEX has a multifaceted purpose and should be treated as such. SEX should be enjoyed, not made out to be a chore or something “dirty & disgusting”. Double standards should not be handed out because you derive pleasure from having SEX. …and whether we want to admit it or not, SEX can make or break a personal relationship. …from not enough sex to too much sex to having sex outside your committed relationship; SEX plays a vital part in our lives.

It is time for us to put an emphasis on SEX in our relationships. The closeness that comes from sharing intense pleasure. The ability to release stress. The contact between two people seeking to please one another (in most cases) is unparalleled. The ability to connect on a physical level.

SEX is important and instead of trying to pretend that sex does not matter in a relationship, we need to be honest with ourselves and realize that we are sexual beings. Sex plays a large part in our relationships and in our society. …whether we are open about our sexuality or we are trying to sweep it under the rug, SEX is important!

Lost Art of Intimacy

Published on March 2, 2016 by Mz Jewcee4 Comments

In a society full of FAST and INSTANT, we have forgotten the simple joys of a mutually satisfying sexual encounter. Guys are all about getting their dick wet – sticking it in – ramming it home. Girls are too self-absorbed in wanting that romantic moment. …this is where Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus comes into play…

There was a time when a one night stand – a quickie could be just as satisfying as a romantic rendezvous. However, in this day in age with so many people in it for themselves and not their partner, the art of intimacy is disappearing.

It is being replaced by callous unemotional detached sex. The art of communication which is a large part of foreplay has been thrown to the way side by electronic gadgets that simply don’t convey the passion that is needed in order to engage in a steamy affair.

Guys have become one dimensional and flaccid with their approach and women who are more aware then they have ever been about their own sexuality are becoming more and more discouraged with the lack of intimacy that men exhibit.

Men have become predictable and uninspiring. They are one dimensional in their approach. There is a lack of creativity. Many will say all this isn’t important, when actually it is very important even in a one night stand. Women are either too emotional or not emotional enough in order to derive pleasure from an encounter that has been planned.

If WE as a people have evolved, so has our art of lovemaking/sex. Even the one-night-stand game has changed. A chance encounter isn’t so chance any longer. We are more open as a people with our desires, but we still lack that fire ~ that unbridled passion.

Without that warm-up, without that anticipation, without that build-up, sex becomes just another thing to get out of the way. Let’s hurry up and get this over with. Let’s make this quick so we can get back to whatever we were doing to perpetuate the deterioration of our relationship. Let us not explore new ways of intimacy, because that would take up too much time. Let us not find new ways to please one another because that might require us to have an interest in your desires.

The next encounter you have, remember to listen to your partner. Not just with your ears, but with every part of your body. Being intimate is like fine tuning an instrument of desire. The more in tune the two of you are, the better the melody of amour!

Eat Out

Published on February 8, 2016 by Mz Jewcee3 Comments

You walk into the house and smell a wonderful aroma. Dinner is almost done. You’ve had a long day and you just want to relax…

My back is to you when you enter the kitchen. I’m busy making sure that everything is perfect for your feast. The surround sound is playing in the background. The sound of jazz is soothing away the stress of the day. A glass of wine finds my lips.

I’m startled as you walk up behind me and slip your arms around my waist. Pulling me close to you, you take in the scent of my hair and I can feel a familiar sensation taking over my womanhood. You’re the only man that arouses me with the slightest touch.

I relax in your arms, my head on your chest. Your manhood rises as I move my ass rhythmically to the music. One hand releases my waist and lifts the hem of my dress as the other hand unfastens your pants.

You’re pleased to find that I’m not wearing anything to impede your progress… A smack on my bare ass and a moan of approval in my ear lets me know that I’ve pleased you. Your hands glide over my roundness as I close my eyes and enjoy your touch.

Without hesitation I bend forward, as you slide your hard dick into my awaiting pussy. A gasp of pure ecstasy escapes my lips as your dick slides in with ease…